{"id":33733,"date":"2020-03-04T13:10:35","date_gmt":"2020-03-04T13:10:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33733"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:06:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:06:51","slug":"ecco-perche-e-piu-difficile-dimenticare-un-quasi-che-un-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-perche-e-piu-difficile-dimenticare-un-quasi-che-un-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 \u00e8 pi\u00f9 difficile dimenticare un quasi che un ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le rotture non sono mai facili per nessuna delle persone coinvolte. La fine di una relazione con una persona a cui si tiene profondamente \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 dolorose che esistano.<\/p>\n

Il vostro cuore si frantuma in un milione di pezzi e non c'\u00e8 nulla che possiate fare.<\/p>\n

Ma che dire della rottura con una persona con cui non si \u00e8 mai avuta una relazione?<\/p>\n

What about cutting ties with a man who was never your official boyfriend and about finally accepting that this almost isn\u2019t leading you anywhere?<\/p>\n

How many times have you heard that you can\u2019t lose someone you never had?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

That you don\u2019t have the right to suffer for someone who was never yours and that you can\u2019t cry over a relationship which was never real?<\/b><\/p>\n

Ebbene, io la chiamo \"stronzata\". La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che un <\/strong>crepacuore<\/strong> \u00e8 un colpo al cuore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if it was caused by someone you called your boyfriend or by someone whose presence in your life never had a label.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even so, sometimes it is even harder to get over an almost ex than a real ex. I should know because this is exactly what I\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n

When you end things with your almost ex, it never happens because you\u2019ve gotten tired of him or because the butterflies in your stomach are gone.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t happen because your relationship has gotten into a rut or because you feel like you\u2019ve had enough of being committed to the other person.<\/p>\n

You see, when you are crying over your almost, you don\u2019t only suffer because you miss them.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t only lament over all the things you guys have been through together and over all the memories you had which will never happen again.<\/p>\n

When you are trying to get over someone you could have never truly called yours, you are also getting over all the things that might have happened between the two of you but didn\u2019t and over all the potential you guys could\u2019ve had as a couple.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Over all the should haves: over all the places you didn\u2019t visit, over all the anniversaries you\u2019ll never celebrate, over all the memories you didn\u2019t have the chance to create together, over all the missed opportunities, and over everything you guys didn\u2019t become.<\/b><\/p>\n

You are also getting over the fact that you\u2019ll never know how it would be to hold this man\u2019s hand in public, how it would be to be his plus one and how it would feel to really be a part of his life.<\/p>\n

Stai piangendo per il chiusura<\/a><\/b> you\u2019ll never get, over all the explanations you are still waiting for, and over all the questions that were left unanswered.<\/p>\n

Quando cercate di dimenticare il vostro quasi ex, cercate allo stesso tempo di amare di nuovo voi stessi.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

State cercando di scacciare tutti i pensieri sul fatto che non siete destinati a essere amati, le domande sul perch\u00e9 non siete mai stati abbastanza perch\u00e9 lui vi ami davvero, e tutti i dubbi e le insicurezze che questa relazione vi ha portato.<\/p>\n

You are crying over the fact that you guys failed before even trying and because you\u2019ll never know if your relationship might have succeeded if you were just brave enough to give it a shot.<\/b><\/p>\n

Over the fact that you\u2019ll never find out if a relationship with this man would have made you happy.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, please don\u2019t ever beat yourself up for suffering over a man whom you mai frequentato<\/a><\/b>.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel like a fool for lamenting the relationship that never existed because the truth is that it was more than real for you.<\/p>\n

Remember that you don\u2019t owe any explanation to anyone besides yourself.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to look for justification for the fact that you need this long to get over a man who wasn\u2019t your boyfriend nor should you beat yourself up for all the emotions you are feeling.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che avete il diritto di soffrire tanto quanto una ragazza qualsiasi.<\/p>\n

Avete il diritto di fare le cose al vostro ritmo e di prendervi tutto il tempo necessario per guarire.<\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>\n

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