{"id":33739,"date":"2020-10-04T13:23:55","date_gmt":"2020-10-04T13:23:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33739"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:24:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:24:27","slug":"se-la-ami-non-ci-sono-scuse-per-trattarla-come-una-merda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-la-ami-non-ci-sono-scuse-per-trattarla-come-una-merda\/","title":{"rendered":"Se la ami, non ci sono scuse per trattarla di merda"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si ama una ragazza, lo si fa con tutto il cuore e fino in fondo, senza trattenere alcuna parte di s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t manipulate her into thinking you are the man you are not, you don\u2019t lie to her, you don\u2019t cheat on her and you don\u2019t neglect her emotionally.<\/p>\n

Quando si ama una ragazza, la si tratta di conseguenza.<\/b> You don\u2019t give her any promises you have no intention of fulfilling and you don\u2019t make her beg for your attention.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deceive her with empty words and you don\u2019t give her false hope that things will be better any time now.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t play mind games, you don\u2019t send segnali contrastanti<\/a><\/b> and you don\u2019t make her question your feelings or doubt your intentions.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t leave her hanging when she needs you the most and you never make her cry intentionally.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t invest halfway, while waiting for a better opportunity to arise. You don\u2019t take advantage of her loving and caring heart and you don\u2019t use the fact that she\u2019ll forgive you for whatever you do.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t apologize for the things you plan on repeating and you don\u2019t blow every second chance you get. You don\u2019t treat her as your second choice and you don\u2019t take her for granted.<\/p>\n

Quando si ama davvero una ragazza, ci si assicura che lei senta la profondit\u00e0 del proprio amore. Diventate il suo migliore amico, il suo amante, il suo protettore e il suo partner in tutti i sensi.<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Vi impegnate per lei e la mettete sempre al primo posto. La sostenete e la fate sentire al sicuro, assicurandovi che sappia di poter sempre contare su di voi.<\/p>\n

You give her back everything you\u2019ve been getting from her and more. You treat her with the respect and appreciation she deserves and you value all the sacrifices she\u2019s making.<\/p>\n

When you love a girl, you fight for her. You don\u2019t do everything in your power to push her away from you and you never let her go.<\/p>\n

Yes, it\u2019s that simple. When you love someone for real, there is no excuse to make them suffer and you never become the cause of their pain, no matter the circumstances.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, non \u00e8 questo il modo in cui trattate la vostra ragazza, nonostante sappiate quanto vi ami, vero?<\/p>\n

Even though you are aware that you mean the world to this girl, you still act like you don\u2019t give a damn about her.<\/p>\n

La tenete al vostro fianco e continuate a prenderla in giro, sapendo che lei merita molto di pi\u00f9 di questo amore a met\u00e0 che le state dando.<\/p>\n

So, why exactly are you with her? Why do you keep lying that you love her when you obviously don\u2019t and why do you keep on hurting her when that is the last thing she deserves?<\/b><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 continui a spezzarle il cuore senza avere l'intenzione di permetterle di andare avanti<\/b><\/a> with her life? Why do you keep on leaving her and going back to her, expecting that she\u2019d always be there, patiently waiting for you to make up your mind and to get your shit together?<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

So no\u2014you don\u2019t love her, no matter how you try to convince yourself of that. <\/b><\/p>\n

Forse vi piace l'idea di avere intorno a voi una persona come lei, forse vi piace il fatto che lei vi ami o forse la state solo usando come rete di sicurezza. <\/b><\/p>\n

It is also possible that you are very well aware that you\u2019ll never find someone like her again or you need her to fix your broken ego and to make you feel better about yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

But the truth is that you don\u2019t love her. Because you don\u2019t hurt the one you love.<\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t cause their sleepless nights, you don\u2019t make their life a inferno vivente<\/a><\/b> and you most certainly don\u2019t make them wonder why they aren\u2019t enough. You never make them cry and you don\u2019t break their heart over and over again.<\/p>\n

So, why do you keep on convincing yourself that you love this girl, when you clearly don\u2019t and never will?<\/p>\n

Why can\u2019t you be the bigger man and let her find her the happiness which you obviously can\u2019t give her?<\/p>\n

Why don\u2019t you give her the opportunity to wait for a guy who will treat you the way you never did? A guy who will love her the way she deserves to be loved?<\/b><\/p>\n

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When you love a girl, you do it wholeheartedly and all the way, without holding any parts of yourself back. You don\u2019t manipulate her into thinking you are the man you are not, you don\u2019t lie to her, you don\u2019t cheat on her and you don\u2019t neglect her emotionally. When you love a girl, you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":121991,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29641],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33739","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips-for-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29641,"label":"dating tips for him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/If-You-Love-Her-There-Are-No-Excuses-For-Treating-Her-Like-Shit-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29641,"name":"dating tips for him","slug":"dating-tips-for-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29641,"taxonomy":"category","description":"These are not just any dating tips. These are the tips that you'll proudly stick to the wall of your man cave because they're that important (and THEY WORK).","parent":29638,"count":110,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29641,"category_count":110,"category_description":"These are not just any dating tips. These are the tips that you'll proudly stick to the wall of your man cave because they're that important (and THEY WORK).","cat_name":"dating tips for him","category_nicename":"dating-tips-for-him","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33739","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33739"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33739\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121991"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33739"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33739"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33739"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}