{"id":33771,"date":"2020-11-05T09:11:32","date_gmt":"2020-11-05T09:11:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33771"},"modified":"2022-02-07T03:45:24","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T03:45:24","slug":"per-favore-non-avvicinarti-a-me-se-non-hai-intenzione-di-restare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/per-favore-non-avvicinarti-a-me-se-non-hai-intenzione-di-restare\/","title":{"rendered":"Per favore, non avvicinarti a me se non hai intenzione di restare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t know about the girls you are used to and I don\u2019t plan on convincing you that I am a special, delicate flower but the truth is that I am looking for some things that are probably not ordinary in today\u2019s world.<\/p>\n<p>Vedete, io non sono un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ecco-perche-la-conchiglia-non-si-accontenta-mai-di-essere-la-tua-compagna-di-una-notte\/\">avventura di una notte<\/a> tipo di ragazza.<\/p>\n<p>Non una ragazza in cerca di avventure insignificanti o di relazioni occasionali.<\/p>\n<p>Non una ragazza a cui va benissimo che tu la vada a prendere in un bar, per poi non chiamarla pi\u00f9 la mattina dopo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I have nothing against those who are into things like this, nor do I consider myself above them in any way but that is just not how I roll.<\/p>\n<p>No, tutto questo non fa parte della mia strategia per farti innamorare ancora di pi\u00f9 di me.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that I am playing hard to get or that I am pretending to be different just to stand out from the crowd.<\/p>\n<p>Il punto \u00e8 che, onestamente, mi affeziono facilmente e l'ultima cosa di cui ho bisogno \u00e8 che un ragazzo che \u00e8 solo di passaggio nella mia vita mi lasci il cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122698 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree.jpg\" alt=\"la donna si appoggia a un albero\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I don\u2019t give a damn about modern dating\u2014you may call me old-fashioned but I am not looking for something temporary and I am not ashamed to admit it. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I simply don\u2019t plan on wasting my time on building a relationship that is doomed to fail.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>So if you\u2019ll enter my life with an already planned exit strategy\u2014just don\u2019t! <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you plan on making me fall for you just so you can leave me hanging\u2014please don\u2019t. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you plan investing just halfway and not giving your entire self to our entire relationship\u2014don\u2019t try around me in the first place.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Datemi pure dell'inguaribile romantico, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che io credo nell'amore.<\/p>\n<p>In un amore vero e incondizionato che dura tutta la vita.<\/p>\n<p>E non sono interessato a nulla di meno di questo.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t settle for a guy who doesn\u2019t know what he wants or for an immature boy who can\u2019t make up his mind about me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122700 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"una donna con i capelli crespi \u00e8 seduta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-is-sitting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Per uno stronzo egoista incapace di amare e che finir\u00e0 per uccidermi spiritualmente.<\/p>\n<p>Non sto dicendo che la nostra relazione debba necessariamente durare finch\u00e9 morte non ci separi, ma <strong>I don\u2019t want to start anything knowing that it has a predetermined expiration date.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So please, don\u2019t come into my life if you aren\u2019t coming to stay.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t come anywhere near me if you don\u2019t believe in love.<\/p>\n<p>Se non state cercando la persona per sempre e se non siete alla ricerca di un \"vissero per sempre felici e contenti\".<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t chase me if you are not looking for a meaningful connection, if you are not searching for something real or something that will last.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-frequentarla-se-non-puoi-impegnarti-con-lei\/\">Don\u2019t date me if you can\u2019t commit<\/a>, if you can\u2019t be loyal and devoted.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do it <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-vi-permettero-di-farmi-fare-il-filo-se-non-siete-tutti-daccordo-andatevene\/\">se hai intenzione di farmi passare per un'altra persona...<\/a> e di fare giochi mentali con me.<\/p>\n<p>Se avete bisogno di qualcuno che vi aiuti a superare la giornata o se avete bisogno di un piano di riserva finch\u00e9 non arriva il vostro ex o qualcuno pi\u00f9 adatto a voi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122701 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"una donna in abito nero cammina sul campo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-woman-in-a-black-dress-walks-the-field-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t come into my life if you\u2019ll shatter my heart and leave me broken. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019ll leave deep scars and inerasable wounds on my soul. If I\u2019ll need years to recover from the damage you make and if you\u2019ll change me for good. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do it if you\u2019ll turn me into a bitter and negative person because I am anything but that.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do it if you\u2019ll kill my faith in love and my trust in people.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t come into my life if you expect me to chase you or to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/una-donna-forte-non-implorera-mai-il-vostro-amore-e-le-vostre-attenzioni\/\">implorare il tuo amore<\/a> e attenzione.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ll leave me hanging and if you won\u2019t be there when times get rough.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know\u2014maybe I am asking for too much and maybe I\u2019ll never find the man I am looking for.<\/p>\n<p>However, I would always rather remain single than be in a loveless relationship or with a man who can\u2019t give me what I want, need and deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Hey, at least I\u2019m honest from the start. Please, have enough decency to do the same.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, if you think I\u2019m too much to handle or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-non-riesci-ad-amarmi-nel-modo-giusto-fatti-da-parte-cosi-che-qualcun-altro-possa-farlo\/\">if you think I\u2019m not worthy of all the trouble\u2014walk away in time<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Be man enough to save us both unnecessary problems and don\u2019t waste either of our time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-122697\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Please-Dont-Come-Close-To-Me-If-You-Have-No-Intention-To-Stay-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Per favore, non avvicinarti a me se non hai intenzione di restare\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Please-Dont-Come-Close-To-Me-If-You-Have-No-Intention-To-Stay-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Please-Dont-Come-Close-To-Me-If-You-Have-No-Intention-To-Stay-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Please-Dont-Come-Close-To-Me-If-You-Have-No-Intention-To-Stay-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t know about the girls you are used to and I don\u2019t plan on convincing you that I am a special, delicate flower but the truth is that I am looking for some things that are probably not ordinary in today\u2019s world. You see, I am not a one-night stand kind of girl. Not&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":122696,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33771","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Please-Dont-Come-Close-To-Me-If-You-Have-No-Intention-To-Stay-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33771"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33771\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122696"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}