{"id":33783,"date":"2020-05-05T09:32:11","date_gmt":"2020-05-05T09:32:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33783"},"modified":"2022-02-10T01:59:19","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T01:59:19","slug":"ti-ha-detto-che-ti-sarebbe-mancata-peccato-che-tu-non-labbia-ascoltata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-ha-detto-che-ti-sarebbe-mancata-peccato-che-tu-non-labbia-ascoltata\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti aveva detto che ti sarebbe mancata, peccato che tu non l'abbia ascoltata"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non riesci a dormire, vero? Lo so: continui a rotolarti sul letto, perseguitato dai ricordi.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco che si pensa a tutte le cose che avrebbero potuto e dovuto essere.<\/p>\n<p>Di tutte le cose che avreste potuto fare in modo diverso, se foste stati solo un po' pi\u00f9 intelligenti e saggi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eccoti l\u00ec, a pensare a lei. Pensando al <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/allunica-donna-che-mi-abbia-mai-amato\/\"><strong>l'unica donna che ti abbia mai amato<\/strong><\/a><strong> per davvero.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Della donna che ti ha dato tutta se stessa, senza chiedere nulla in cambio.<\/p>\n<p>Che ti ha dato pi\u00f9 seconde possibilit\u00e0 di quante ne possa contare e che voleva solo che tu la ricambiassi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105422\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta a casa e che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-at-home-and-looking-through-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>About the woman who you thought would never give up on you. Until she\u2019d finally had enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sulla donna che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-tu-pensavi-che-non-se-ne-sarebbe-mai-andata-ma-indovina-cosha-fatto\/\">che pensavate non avrebbe mai avuto il coraggio di lasciare<\/a> il tuo culo dispiaciuto, non importa come l'hai trattata.<\/p>\n<p>I guess there existed something you could do to make her stop loving you after all, didn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>Eccoti l\u00ec, a provare tutte le cose che ha provato lei dopo averle dato l'ultimo saluto.<\/p>\n<p>Missing her like hell and feeling like you will die if she doesn\u2019t come back any time soon.<\/p>\n<p>Well guess what? She won\u2019t. She left you never to return and there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105423\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna che si allontana dall&#039;uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-leaving-from-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Remember how for years, this girl kept warning you that this moment would come, if you didn\u2019t change your ways? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Di come continuava a dirvi che un giorno o l'altro si sarebbe chiusa la porta alle spalle e si sarebbe allontanata da voi per sempre?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E cosa avete fatto al riguardo? Avete ascoltato?<\/p>\n<p>Avete ripensato al vostro comportamento? Avete almeno cercato di essere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/al-ragazzo-che-non-diventera-mai-luomo-che-lei-ha-bisogno-che-sia\/\">l'uomo che aveva bisogno che tu fossi<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>No, le hai riso in faccia, sicuro di te.<\/p>\n<p>Eravate convinti che queste non fossero altro che le sue vuote minacce e che non ci fosse nulla di cui preoccuparsi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105424\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"uomo pensieroso che osserva la strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-man-watching-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Oh ragazzi, quanto vi siete sbagliati.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Perch\u00e9 questa ragazza aveva letteralmente previsto tutto quello che sarebbe successo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She knew that at first, you wouldn\u2019t take her seriously.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019d expect her to come crawling back to you the moment you promised her that things wouldn\u2019t be the same if she gave you just one more chance.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tuttavia, questa volta era diverso. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>This time, none of your strategies worked and you were obviously losing her but even that wasn\u2019t enough for you to confess your sins.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead, you turned to other girls, thinking that they\u2019d fill the void she left.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105425\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-man-watching-woman-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"giovane uomo che osserva una donna per strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-man-watching-woman-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-man-watching-woman-on-the-street-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-man-watching-woman-on-the-street-768x521.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-man-watching-woman-on-the-street-150x102.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Invece di guardare la verit\u00e0 negli occhi, avete tenuto <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/sanno-ancora-cercando-ogni-donna\/\">alla ricerca di lei<\/a> in all other women, not knowing that a girl like her can\u2019t be found twice in a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>Then after a while, when you saw that the alcohol and the meaningless sex weren\u2019t helping you, it hit you\u2014you really lost her.<\/p>\n<p>This girl wasn\u2019t coming back and you were the one who let her go.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 stato allora che hai fatto di tutto per tornare con lei.<\/p>\n<p>This time, you weren\u2019t even lying\u2014you were really ready to do whatever it took just to have her forgiveness.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, by the time you saw what you\u2019d done, she was long over you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105426\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"uomo preoccupato seduto sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-man-sitting-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A quel punto, era felice senza di te, rendendosi conto che lasciarti era in realt\u00e0 la cosa migliore che avesse mai fatto per se stessa.<\/p>\n<p>Quando hai capito il suo valore, lei ha capito che eri l'ultimo uomo di cui aveva bisogno.<\/p>\n<p>Ha capito che non l'hai mai meritata e che sta molto meglio senza di te.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quindi, un duro colpo, ma credo che tu sia bloccato da tutto questo dolore che stai provando ora. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I know you want me to tell you that it will go away with time but sadly, it won\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead, it will just grow bigger and bigger every time you remember that she is happy and that you are still the same douchebag you\u2019ve always been.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che ti ricordi che hai cacciato una persona speciale come lei, ogni volta che ti rendi conto che nessuno ti amer\u00e0 mai come lei e ogni volta che ti ricordi che hai perso la possibilit\u00e0 di essere felice.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Le vostre cicatrici diventeranno pi\u00f9 profonde ogni volta che ricorderete che la vostra vita avrebbe potuto essere molto diversa, se solo aveste ascoltato. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Se avessi creduto alle sue minacce, se ti fossi sforzato un po' di pi\u00f9 e se l'avessi amata quando avresti dovuto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105421\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/She-Told-You-Youd-Miss-Her-Too-Bad-You-Didnt-Listen-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ti aveva detto che ti sarebbe mancata, peccato che tu non l&#039;abbia ascoltata\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/She-Told-You-Youd-Miss-Her-Too-Bad-You-Didnt-Listen-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/She-Told-You-Youd-Miss-Her-Too-Bad-You-Didnt-Listen-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/She-Told-You-Youd-Miss-Her-Too-Bad-You-Didnt-Listen-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\">&nbsp;<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You can\u2019t sleep, can you? I know\u2014you keep rolling around on your bed, haunted by memories. There you are, thinking about all the things that could and should have been. Of all the things you might have done differently, if you had been just a little bit smarter and wiser. There you are, thinking about&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":105427,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33783","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/She-Told-You-Youd-Miss-Her-Too-Bad-You-Didnt-Listen.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33783","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33783"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33783\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/105427"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33783"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33783"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33783"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}