{"id":33793,"date":"2020-03-05T12:29:19","date_gmt":"2020-03-05T12:29:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33793"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:49:09","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:49:09","slug":"6-motivi-per-cui-sei-attratto-da-una-persona-completamente-sbagliata-per-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-motivi-per-cui-sei-attratto-da-una-persona-completamente-sbagliata-per-te\/","title":{"rendered":"6 motivi per cui siete attratti da una persona completamente sbagliata per voi"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi sentite come se foste connessi a un livello pi\u00f9 profondo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81673\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-flirting-and-drinking-wine.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che flirta e beve vino\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-flirting-and-drinking-wine.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-flirting-and-drinking-wine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-flirting-and-drinking-wine-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 normale avere una connessione immediata con qualcuno, una chimica che ti fa sentire legato a quella persona.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s almost like you knew them in a different lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>Ma questa connessione pu\u00f2 essere ingannevole.<\/p>\n<p>C'\u00e8 un'enorme differenza tra <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/6-grandi-differenze-amore-lussuria\/\">lussuria e amore<\/a>, so make sure you don\u2019t confuse the two.<\/p>\n<p>Quello che provate per loro potrebbe non essere vero amore.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il vostro io ferito influenza le persone da cui siete attratti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81675\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/beautiful-woman-with-curly-hair-posing.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna con i capelli ricci in posa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/beautiful-woman-with-curly-hair-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/beautiful-woman-with-curly-hair-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/beautiful-woman-with-curly-hair-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the part of you that makes you think that you need the other person to complete you and make you happy.<\/p>\n<p>Finch\u00e9 non cambierete questa convinzione, correrete il rischio di scegliere uomini sbagliati per voi.<\/p>\n<p>Prima di iniziare una relazione con qualcuno, \u00e8 necessario lavorare su quella che si ha con se stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Devi riparare le tue ferite e imparare ad amarti e rispettarti e a renderti felice.<\/p>\n<p>No one else can do it for you. Once you manage to do that you\u2019ll be able to establish standards and choose more wisely.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Credete di poterli aiutare a cambiare<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81676\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-hat-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"donna con cappello che pensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-hat-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-hat-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-with-hat-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci sono molte cose che fanno pensare a un uomo di non essere pronto per una relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Lui ha problemi familiari, lavorativi, emotivi, ecc. e voi credete di poter fare qualcosa per aiutarlo a cambiare e il minimo che possiate fare \u00e8 aspettare che sia pronto.<\/p>\n<p>Sbagliato. Non potete fare nulla per aiutarlo.<\/p>\n<p>In primo luogo, i suoi problemi potrebbero essere reali o inventati.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, if they are real, they are not your responsibility. As it\u2019s your job to fix yourself so it\u2019s theirs to fix themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Una persona cambia solo se sente il bisogno di cambiare e voi non potete farci nulla.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi ha fatto credere che \u00e8 un grande e che dovreste essere felici di averlo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81677\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/happy-couple-posing.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice in posa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/happy-couple-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/happy-couple-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/happy-couple-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 un segnale di allarme importante e<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-motivi-per-cui-il-vostro-ex-probabilmente-non-e-un-narcisista\/\"> probabilmente si ha a che fare con una persona manipolatrice e narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Questo tipo di persone vi convincer\u00e0 che sono un dono di Dio e che dovreste essere grati perch\u00e9 sono nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s even worse is the way in which they achieve that effect; they do their best to lower your self-esteem and make you feel less so they can manipulate you into thinking that your life would be worthless in their absence.<\/p>\n<p>Be careful and don\u2019t allow anyone to make you feel worthless or unlovable as soon as you notice the signs, cut them out of your life for good.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You are influenced by other people\u2019s opinions<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81682\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/two-friends-talking.jpg\" alt=\"due amici che parlano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/two-friends-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/two-friends-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/two-friends-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When your friend or family member or a co-worker tells you for the millionth time that someone is just perfect for you\u2014you start to believe it yourself.<\/p>\n<p>A volte ci azzeccano, ma il pi\u00f9 delle volte si finisce per accontentarsi di un amore inferiore a quello dell'anima gemella o, nel peggiore dei casi, di qualcuno di tossico che agli occhi di tutti gli altri appare fantastico perch\u00e9 ti ha trasformato nel cattivo.<\/p>\n<p>Trust your gut, if something feels off it\u2019s because it\u2019s off.<\/p>\n<p>Silence all that heartfelt advice and listen to your heart and soul; nobody knows what\u2019s best for you except you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Confondi l'innamoramento per qualcuno con l'amore per qualcuno.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81683\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-smiling-to-man-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"donna che sorride a un uomo per strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-smiling-to-man-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-smiling-to-man-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-smiling-to-man-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Just because you are head over heels for somebody, it doesn\u2019t mean that they are your forever person.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/le-vere-differenze-tra-essere-innamorati-e-amare-qualcuno\/\"> Essere innamorati e amare qualcuno<\/a> sono due termini diversi e due sentimenti diversi.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Being in love\u2019 makes you feel like you are addicted, it can grow into love but it can stay on more basic sentiments such as lust and infatuation.<\/p>\n<p>Whereas \u2018loving somebody\u2019 is something extraordinary but at the same time real. It\u2019s about making efforts and creating happiness together.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s loving even when everything doesn\u2019t go as planned. It\u2019s mutual respect and devotion. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81671\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You\u2019re-Attracted-To-Someone-Completely-Wrong-For-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 motivi per cui siete attratti da una persona completamente sbagliata per voi\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You\u2019re-Attracted-To-Someone-Completely-Wrong-For-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You\u2019re-Attracted-To-Someone-Completely-Wrong-For-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You feel as if you are connected on a deeper level It\u2019s quite normal to have that instant connection with someone, the chemistry that makes you feel bonded with that person. It\u2019s almost like you knew them in a different lifetime. But that connection can be deceiving. There is a huge difference between lust and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":81684,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33793","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/6-Reasons-Why-You\u2019re-Attracted-To-Someone-Completely-Wrong-For-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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