{"id":33805,"date":"2019-03-06T07:37:16","date_gmt":"2019-03-06T07:37:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33805"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:44:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:44:38","slug":"una-volta-persa-la-persona-per-la-quale-ti-stai-accontentando-capirai-cosa-ti-meriti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-volta-persa-la-persona-per-la-quale-ti-stai-accontentando-capirai-cosa-ti-meriti\/","title":{"rendered":"Una volta persa la persona per cui vi state accontentando, vi renderete conto di ci\u00f2 che vi meritate"},"content":{"rendered":"

Even though you aren\u2019t aware of this, ci sono momenti in cui volere e avere bisogno di qualcosa sono due cose diverse.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando siete convinti che perdere qualcuno a cui tenete profondamente vi distruggerebbe completamente, quando invece, a lungo andare, sarebbe la cosa migliore che vi possa capitare.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando si \u00e8 convinti che aggrapparsi a una persona migliorer\u00e0 la propria vita, quando in realt\u00e0 <\/strong>lasciarsi andare<\/strong><\/a> \u00e8 esattamente quello che dovete fare, nonostante il dolore temporaneo che potrebbe causarvi. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Times when you don\u2019t see that you are settling for way less than you deserve, thinking it\u2019s the best you can ever have.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che sta accadendo a te e all'uomo con cui sei coinvolta in questo momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t want to let him go because you don\u2019t know that bigger things await you once you do.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Even though deep down you are very much aware that he is not the guy for you, you keep on hoping that things will change for the better and that one of these days, he\u2019ll become the man you need him to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014you are terrified of walking away from this man because you don\u2019t know if you could survive without him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Avete paura che perdere lui vi danneggi emotivamente fino a rendervi irrecuperabili.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ebbene, non sono qui per mentirvi dicendovi che lasciare andare quest'uomo sarebbe stato facile, perch\u00e9 sar\u00e0 tutt'altro che cos\u00ec.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00ec, all'inizio sar\u00e0 un inferno. Sar\u00e0 brutto. Finch\u00e9 non migliorer\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After a while, you\u2019ll finally see that all this time, you were just settling for less.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Maybe you did it because he manipulated you into thinking that you\u2019d never find someone else, maybe you were afraid of being alone, maybe you did it because of the past you guys shared together or maybe you didn\u2019t have the courage to escape from the comfort zone he represented.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Either way, the point is the same\u2014you were getting back less than you were giving and less than you deserved.<\/p>\r\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After a while, you\u2019ll understand that things had to be this way\u2014that everything in life happens for a reason and for a bigger cause.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll understand that God always has a plan and that this guy had a role in your life\u2014that he was there to teach you some valuable life lessons.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That if it wasn\u2019t for this man, you would never know what you don\u2019t want from life and what you don\u2019t need from a man.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll see that all of the struggles you had to go through were just there to toughen you up and to turn you into the woman you are today. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Che hai dovuto affrontare una relazione senza amore per imparare finalmente ad amare te stesso. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Che bisognava essere traditi per diventare abbastanza forti da poter contare su se stessi.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll see that sometimes, God fixes you just to put you back together.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Che ci sono momenti in cui si deve essere fatti a pezzi solo per ricostruire una versione migliore e pi\u00f9 potente di se stessi.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Most importantly, once you finally move on from this man, you\u2019ll understand that the only way to truly realize what you deserve is to lose everything and everyone you\u2019re settling for.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Che l'unico modo per spianare la strada all'uomo degno di voi \u00e8 sbarazzarsi di tutti coloro che non sono mai stati all'altezza. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Che l'unico modo per trovare il vostro Mr. Right \u00e8 lasciar andare tutti i Mr. Wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And once this special man finally enters your life, and he will come when you least expect him to, it is only then when you\u2019ll grow to understand why it never worked with all those guys before him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It is only then when you\u2019ll grow to understand that you simply had to go through all of those half-assed loves because if it wasn\u2019t for them, you would never know how to recognize the right one when you saw him, nor would you appreciate it the right way.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Una<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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