{"id":33857,"date":"2020-09-07T07:38:43","date_gmt":"2020-09-07T07:38:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33857"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:21:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:21:51","slug":"ad-ogni-ragazza-che-sta-soffrendo-e-guarendo-allo-stesso-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ad-ogni-ragazza-che-sta-soffrendo-e-guarendo-allo-stesso-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"A ogni ragazza che soffre e guarisce allo stesso tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ultimamente, \u00e8 come se tu stesso non riuscissi a definire lo stato del tuo cuore e della tua anima.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You are going through a real roller coaster of emotions and you can\u2019t seem to control the way you feel, as much as you try to.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

There are days when you think you are completely over everything that\u2019s been bothering you, days when you feel stronger and more empowered than ever.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Giorni in cui pensi che il tuo cuore spezzato sia stato risolto e che non ci sia pi\u00f9 nulla del passato a trattenerti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Questi sono i giorni in cui siete pieni di speranza in un domani migliore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando siete ottimisti e positivi sul futuro luminoso che sicuramente vi attende.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tuttavia, esiste anche l'altra faccia della medaglia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

There are days when you don\u2019t feel like getting out of bed, days when you are haunted by the past.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Days when you feel like you haven\u2019t moved an inch and as if you\u2019ll be forever stuck in this overwhelming pain that\u2019s been consuming you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can\u2019t help but wonder how this is even possible.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Is the fact that you are going through stages like these a sign that you aren\u2019t making any progress?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Does it mean that you aren\u2019t healing properly just because you are still hurting at the same time?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Innanzitutto, \u00e8 necessario capire che andare avanti<\/strong><\/a> doesn\u2019t have a deadline.<\/strong> \u00c8 un processo che ha un ritmo diverso per ogni persona.<\/p>\r\n

\"una<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I know that you are probably surrounded by people who keep on giving you different pieces of advice and who expect you to be fully recovered by the time they\u2019ve planned it to happen.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Forse vi vergognate anche perch\u00e9 siete convinti di impiegare troppo tempo per rialzarvi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Well, what you obviously don\u2019t know is that healing takes time, devotion and energy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Trust me\u2014it is nothing strange if you are having some better and some worse days during this process.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So please, instead of judging yourself for the times when the pain takes over you, be proud of all the progress you\u2019ve made.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Invece di concentrarvi sulle volte in cui avete permesso ai demoni del passato di raggiungervi, concentratevi su tutti quei momenti in cui siete riusciti a sfuggirgli.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Invece di essere cos\u00ec duro con te stesso, di tanto in tanto, prova a concederti una pausa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Instead of being disappointed about the fact that you still haven\u2019t fully let go of the pain that\u2019s been holding you back, be happy about the fact that you\u2019ve come this far.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Instead of thinking of yourself as weak, see how strongly you\u2019ve put up with everything that\u2019s been breaking you lately.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00ec, si pu\u00f2 guarire e soffrire allo stesso tempo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Non c'\u00e8 nulla di strano nell'essere spaventati e coraggiosi allo stesso tempo e non c'\u00e8 nulla di strano nel sentirsi sia forti che vulnerabili.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

L'importante \u00e8 non lasciarsi sopraffare dalle giornate negative.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Per non permettere alla parte di voi che sta ancora soffrendo di prendere il sopravvento su quella che \u00e8 in fase di guarigione<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

\"una<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Non arrendetevi solo perch\u00e9 avete avuto una brutta giornata e rovinate tutte quelle belle che vi aspettano in futuro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

L'importante \u00e8 avere fede nel fatto che c'\u00e8 sempre una luce alla fine di ogni tunnel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

To believe in your own strength and to never even for a second think that you won\u2019t make it out of this.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Per concentrarsi sulle giornate di sole invece di sprecare tutte le energie e scervellarsi sugli episodi di tempesta.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Dovete solo ricordare qual \u00e8 il vostro obiettivo finale.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You need to stick to your path, knowing that all this pain you still haven\u2019t gotten rid of completely is nothing more than a bump in the road, an obstacle you will go through, a challenge you will defeat and a struggle you will win.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quindi, ogni volta che pensate di arrendervi, spingetevi ad andare avanti. Perch\u00e9 uno di questi giorni guarirete per sempre.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One of these days, all the pain will be gone and it won\u2019t have any impact on you whatsoever.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando ci\u00f2 accade, you\u2019ll see that all of this struggle was worth it.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And you\u2019ll be proud of yourself about the fact that you\u2019ve made it out alive and stronger than ever.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"A<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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