{"id":33905,"date":"2019-03-07T11:24:52","date_gmt":"2019-03-07T11:24:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=33905"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:42:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:42:25","slug":"smettete-di-tenere-un-posto-nel-vostro-cuore-per-luomo-che-non-vuole-farne-parte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettete-di-tenere-un-posto-nel-vostro-cuore-per-luomo-che-non-vuole-farne-parte\/","title":{"rendered":"Smettete di riservare un posto nel vostro cuore all'uomo che non vuole farne parte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il mondo sarebbe un posto molto pi\u00f9 felice se potessimo decidere come e chi amare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sarebbe molto pi\u00f9 facile se potessimo semplicemente schioccare le dita e cacciare via dal nostro sistema qualcuno che non va bene per noi, per non pensarci mai pi\u00f9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, sadly things don\u2019t work like that at all, do they now?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, a volte \u00e8 proprio questa la cosa da fare, anche quando sembra una missione impossibile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A volte \u00e8 necessario essere abbastanza forti e <\/strong>decidere di smettere di amare<\/strong><\/a> qualcuno che ovviamente non \u00e8 degno di voi, qualcuno che vi sta rendendo la vita infelice.<\/strong>
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Sometimes, you need to stop waiting for a man who won\u2019t return to come back. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To stop having a reserved seat for him in your life when it\u2019s obvious that he doesn\u2019t want it.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So che continua ad alimentare tutte le sue speranze, pensando che quest'uomo che ama cos\u00ec profondamente cambier\u00e0. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know you hold on tight to the thought that eventually, he\u2019ll come to his senses and that things between you guys will become different.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Odio essere io a rompere la tua bolla di sapone e a spezzarti il cuore, ma devo dirti che tutto questo non accadr\u00e0 mai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, he will remain the same douchebag he\u2019s always been, and you\u2019ll waste more of your time if you continue keeping a place in your heart for him.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t want to be cruel, but this guy obviously <\/strong>doesn\u2019t love you back<\/strong><\/a>, and he clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you trying around him. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What is even worse\u2013he doesn\u2019t want your love either. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He doesn\u2019t respect your feelings, he doesn\u2019t appreciate your sacrifices, and he doesn\u2019t cherish your loving heart.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So what more proof do you need to understand that he isn\u2019t worthy of you? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What else does he have to do to make you finally realize that he\u2019ll never become the man you need him to be and that he\u2019ll never be capable of giving you the love you need?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cosa vi serve per buttarlo finalmente fuori dal vostro cuore? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Che tu smetta di trovare scuse per lui e che tu smetta di giustificarlo?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So che in tutto questo tempo state cercando delle ragioni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t help but wonder why he doesn\u2019t love you the way he should, and why he is doing everything possible to chase you away from him.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So che volete una spiegazione, una chiusura che vi aiuti ad andare avanti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c8 incapace di amare in generale o \u00e8 solo lei che non riesce ad amare?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, darling, it\u2019s time you accept that these are the questions which will always remain unanswered, the same way you need to accept that waiting for him is in vain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And after all, knowing all of these things wouldn\u2019t change anything, would it? So why do you keep bothering with it?
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Invece di torturare la vostra mente pensando a quest'uomo e di perdere tempo ad aspettare che rinsavisca, concentrate tutte le vostre energie sul vostro obiettivo finale: eliminarlo dal vostro sistema.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is to stop giving him the love he doesn\u2019t deserve, to stop beating yourself up for him, and to stop giving him the attention he is not entitled to.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2013this will be everything but easy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, \u00e8 qualcosa che va fatto per il vostro bene.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s time you look the harsh truth in the eyes and acknowledge the fact that you are nothing but a back up plan and a safety net to this man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una ragazza che metter\u00e0 la sua vita in attesa per lui ogni volta che ne avr\u00e0 voglia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For you to accept that you\u2019ll never be his priority and first choice.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s time to leave this road to nowhere and start walking on the path of moving on. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c8 il momento di prendere in mano la propria vita e di scegliere di <\/strong>amare se stessi<\/strong><\/a> pi\u00f9 di quanto tu ami questo coglione.<\/strong>
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most importantly, it\u2019s time to choose healing over hurting. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Scegliere di lasciar andare piuttosto che aggrapparsi, il futuro piuttosto che il passato e la felicit\u00e0 piuttosto che il dolore.<\/strong>
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