{"id":34114,"date":"2020-03-12T08:07:01","date_gmt":"2020-03-12T08:07:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34114"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:43:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:43:24","slug":"se-vuoi-conquistare-il-ragazzo-esci-come-un-ragazzo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-vuoi-conquistare-il-ragazzo-esci-come-un-ragazzo\/","title":{"rendered":"Se vuoi conquistare un ragazzo, esci come un ragazzo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Chiunque abbia detto che uomini e donne provengono da pianeti diversi sapeva esattamente di cosa stava parlando.<\/p>\r\n<p>Siamo semplicemente cablati in modo diverso e, il pi\u00f9 delle volte, sbagliamo magistralmente la comunicazione.<\/p>\r\n<p>In addition to that, the dating world today has become a man\u2019s world and it seems like women are running a greater risk of getting hurt in this difficult game of love.<\/p>\r\n<p>The thing is we don\u2019t want to play games; we don\u2019t want to resort to manipulation tactics to get the man of our dreams.<\/p>\r\n<p>The good news is we don\u2019t have to do that\u2026 but we have to do something.<\/p>\r\n<p>Dobbiamo iniziare a uscire con gli uomini.<\/p>\r\n<p>E il modo migliore per farlo \u00e8 cercare di capirli.<\/p>\r\n<p>I know it sounds impossible, but it\u2019s really not all that complicated. We have to refuse to play games and adopt the things that they are good at.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Don\u2019t chase\u2026 become chasable<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116636\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-stylish-woman-walking-in-pink-coat.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna elegante che cammina in cappotto rosa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-stylish-woman-walking-in-pink-coat.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-stylish-woman-walking-in-pink-coat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-stylish-woman-walking-in-pink-coat-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-stylish-woman-walking-in-pink-coat-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-stylish-woman-walking-in-pink-coat-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-stylish-woman-walking-in-pink-coat-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-stylish-woman-walking-in-pink-coat-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/beautiful-stylish-woman-walking-in-pink-coat-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Avete notato che pi\u00f9 rincorrete qualcosa nella vita, pi\u00f9 velocemente vi sfugge.<\/p>\r\n<p>Gli uomini sono uguali. Sono cacciatori nati e perdono interesse o si intimidiscono se si sentono una preda.<\/p>\r\n<p>D'altra parte, se trovano una donna che possiede <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/10-traits-woman-men-love-chase\/\">i tratti che piacciono<\/a>, they will pursue her and they won\u2019t stop at anything to win her over.<\/p>\r\n<p>If you wonder how to become chasable, it\u2019s actually quite easy \u2013 and I\u2019ll be brutally honest here \u2013 live your own life.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t quit on your dreams, friends, or interests.<\/p>\r\n<p>Look at him as your equal and not someone on a pedestal. Invest as much as he does; don\u2019t overdo it.<\/p>\r\n<p>Fate di lui una parte della vostra vita, non tutto il vostro universo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Abbassare di una o due tacche<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116637\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-smiling-young-attractive-brunette-woman.jpg\" alt=\"felice sorridente giovane attraente donna bruna\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-smiling-young-attractive-brunette-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-smiling-young-attractive-brunette-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-smiling-young-attractive-brunette-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-smiling-young-attractive-brunette-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-smiling-young-attractive-brunette-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-smiling-young-attractive-brunette-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-smiling-young-attractive-brunette-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-smiling-young-attractive-brunette-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Le donne tendono ad andare oltre quando sono davvero interessate a qualcuno, quindi esagerano.<\/p>\r\n<p>They try too hard, while the other side does nothing. If you see yourself in this description, it\u2019s time to kick it down a notch or two.<\/p>\r\n<p>Seguite il suo esempio. Investite quanto lui sta investendo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t send a follow-up text when he is not responding. Don\u2019t plan <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/20-idee-sorprendenti-e-carine-per-un-appuntamento-a-tarda-notte\/\">una serata fuori casa<\/a> if he isn\u2019t planning one.<\/p>\r\n<p>This is not about playing games, it\u2019s about something much more important and that\u2019s RECIPROCITY.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Evitare le aree grigie<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116638\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Beautiful-girl-in-a-red-hat-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"Bella ragazza con un cappello rosso che sorride\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Beautiful-girl-in-a-red-hat-smiling.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Beautiful-girl-in-a-red-hat-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Beautiful-girl-in-a-red-hat-smiling-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Beautiful-girl-in-a-red-hat-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Beautiful-girl-in-a-red-hat-smiling-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Beautiful-girl-in-a-red-hat-smiling-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Beautiful-girl-in-a-red-hat-smiling-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Beautiful-girl-in-a-red-hat-smiling-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Men hardly ever find themselves in the gray area. To them, it\u2019s all black and white and they are quite clear about what they want.<\/p>\r\n<p>That\u2019s one of the parts of dating like a man that is essential to adopt. When you are meh about someone, don\u2019t date them at all.<\/p>\r\n<p>When you detect the red flags and see some behavior in a man you don\u2019t wish to tolerate, cut them out of your life.<\/p>\r\n<p>Men do that; they don\u2019t even need a reasonable explanation. When something doesn\u2019t feel good, they move on.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Don\u2019t treat him like your boyfriend until he mans up and says he is completely yours<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116639\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-holding-hands-and-looking-at-each.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che si tiene per mano e si guarda\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-holding-hands-and-looking-at-each.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-holding-hands-and-looking-at-each-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-holding-hands-and-looking-at-each-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-holding-hands-and-looking-at-each-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-holding-hands-and-looking-at-each-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-holding-hands-and-looking-at-each-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-holding-hands-and-looking-at-each-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-holding-hands-and-looking-at-each-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Prima di avere la certezza che voi due siete esclusivi, tenete aperte le opzioni.<\/p>\r\n<p>Dio sa che gli uomini lo fanno sempre e questo rende meno doloroso l'affrontare il rifiuto.<\/p>\r\n<p>Why wouldn\u2019t you do the same or something similar?<\/p>\r\n<p>Potete uscire con altre persone allo stesso tempo ed esplorare le vostre opzioni, oppure potete semplicemente mantenere un contatto casuale con altri uomini che trovate attraenti.<\/p>\r\n<p>You never know how it will all end and it\u2019s always good to have options at the end of the day.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Switch into \u201cThank you, next\u201d mode<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116640\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-sunglasses-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna con occhiali da sole che sorride\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-sunglasses-smiling.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-sunglasses-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-sunglasses-smiling-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-sunglasses-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-sunglasses-smiling-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-sunglasses-smiling-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-sunglasses-smiling-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-in-sunglasses-smiling-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Anche gli uomini si crogiolano un po' se vengono rifiutati dalla donna che gli piace. Ma prima che ve ne rendiate conto, si rimetteranno in gioco e ricominceranno ad uscire.<\/p>\r\n<p>If you\u2019ve been on a few dates with someone and they disappeared on you, there is no reason for you to look at the empty screen waiting for a text.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ci sono molti uomini l\u00e0 fuori, fatti di carne e ossa, che sarebbero pi\u00f9 che felici di far parte della vostra vita.<\/p>\r\n<p>A man who doesn\u2019t see that doesn\u2019t deserve a place in your world.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Don\u2019t flaunt your flaws<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116641\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-with-red-lips-makeup.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza con labbra rosse trucco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-with-red-lips-makeup.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-with-red-lips-makeup-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-with-red-lips-makeup-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-with-red-lips-makeup-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-with-red-lips-makeup-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-with-red-lips-makeup-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-with-red-lips-makeup-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-with-red-lips-makeup-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Probabilmente non avete mai sentito un uomo parlare delle cose che lo fanno sentire insicuro all'inizio della relazione.<\/p>\r\n<p>Sanno che se funziona, ci sar\u00e0 tutto il tempo per farlo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Quindi faranno del loro meglio per impressionarvi e mettere in evidenza i loro punti di forza e le loro virt\u00f9.<\/p>\r\n<p>Gli uomini hanno capito qualcosa.<\/p>\r\n<p>Se vi aprite troppo fin dall'inizio, non solo vi rendete vulnerabili, ma gettate anche una nota depressiva su tutta la vostra esperienza di appuntamenti.<\/p>\r\n<p>Perci\u00f2, mantenete gli argomenti divertenti e spensierati. Le cose serie verranno dopo, quando vi conoscerete meglio.<\/p>\r\n<p>Inoltre, le cose che voi considerate i vostri difetti potrebbero essere molto lontane ai suoi occhi. Lasciate che sia lui a decidere il modo in cui vi percepisce.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Don\u2019t settle for someone who is not \u201cThe One\u201d for you<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116642\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-with-perfect-blonde-hair-posing-in-city.jpg\" alt=\"donna con perfetti capelli biondi in posa in citt\u00e0\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-with-perfect-blonde-hair-posing-in-city.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-with-perfect-blonde-hair-posing-in-city-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-with-perfect-blonde-hair-posing-in-city-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-with-perfect-blonde-hair-posing-in-city-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-with-perfect-blonde-hair-posing-in-city-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-with-perfect-blonde-hair-posing-in-city-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-with-perfect-blonde-hair-posing-in-city-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-with-perfect-blonde-hair-posing-in-city-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Probabilmente non avete mai sentito la storia di un uomo che si \u00e8 accontentato di poco perch\u00e9 aveva 30 anni ed era arrivato il momento di sposarsi, fare figli o almeno andare a vivere con una ragazza.<\/p>\r\n<p>Questo scenario si verifica cos\u00ec raramente che sembra quasi un mito.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t settle for less than true love because you are scared of loneliness, because \u201cit\u2019s time,\u201d or because society expects something from you.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s a pressure you don\u2019t need in your life.<\/p>\r\n<p>Mettete a tacere tutti i commenti sprezzanti e tutte le vostre paure interiori e seguite il vostro cuore.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t date <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/7-segni-comuni-che-dicono-che-il-sig-m-e-sbagliato\/\">Signor Sbagliato<\/a> and don\u2019t stay with him; you miss out on the real deal.<\/p>\r\n<p>When you are with someone right, you\u2019ll know it and you will have no doubt about it.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116633\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/If-You-Want-To-Get-The-Guy-Date-Like-A-Guy-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se vuoi conquistare un ragazzo, esci come un ragazzo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/If-You-Want-To-Get-The-Guy-Date-Like-A-Guy-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/If-You-Want-To-Get-The-Guy-Date-Like-A-Guy-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/If-You-Want-To-Get-The-Guy-Date-Like-A-Guy-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whoever said that men and women come from different planets knew exactly what they were talking about. We are just wired differently and, more often than not, we masterfully miscommunicate things. In addition to that, the dating world today has become a man\u2019s world and it seems like women are running a greater risk of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":116635,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34114","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/If-You-Want-To-Get-The-Guy-Date-Like-A-Guy-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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