{"id":34148,"date":"2020-03-27T10:03:05","date_gmt":"2020-03-27T10:03:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34148"},"modified":"2022-02-10T12:50:37","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T12:50:37","slug":"se-una-ragazza-ti-tratta-come-un-re-senza-lanello-non-darla-per-scontata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-una-ragazza-ti-tratta-come-un-re-senza-lanello-non-darla-per-scontata\/","title":{"rendered":"Se una ragazza vi tratta come un re senza anello, non prendetela per buona"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Siamo onesti: non hai mai dato a questa ragazza molti motivi per amarti.<\/p>\n<p>Non le hai mai promesso di passare il resto della tua vita con lei, non le hai mai dimostrato di essere completamente impegnato con lei e non le hai mai dato la sicurezza di cui ha bisogno.<\/p>\n<p>You have never shown her that you are all in\u2014that she can count on you through good and bad days, through sickness and health and through thick and thin.<\/p>\n<p>You have never given her assurance, something to help her know that she\u2019s the one for you.<\/p>\n<p>Non vi siete mai assicurati che questa ragazza sappia che siete entrati nella sua vita con il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/per-favore-non-avvicinarti-a-me-se-non-hai-intenzione-di-restare\/\">intenzione di rimanere<\/a>\u2014that she isn\u2019t a temporary girl you\u2019ll turn your back on the second someone more convenient comes along.<\/p>\n<p>Non l'avete mai trattata come la vostra priorit\u00e0 numero uno o non le avete mai dimostrato quanto sia importante per voi.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, in qualche modo, questa ragazza ha trovato la forza di amarvi come nessun altro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-76532 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-on-the-bridge.jpg\" alt=\"uomo sul ponte\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-on-the-bridge.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-on-the-bridge-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-on-the-bridge-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Despite the fact that you don\u2019t try around her the way you should, she is still putting all of her efforts into this relationship, trying to make it work.<\/p>\n<p>And the best part is that she isn\u2019t looking for anything in return. She doesn\u2019t expect you to change overnight and to become the man you are not.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t need your gratitude and she doesn\u2019t want you to spoil her because she doesn\u2019t consider her behavior extraordinary\u2014she is convinced that this is just the way a girl should treat the man she loves.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, <strong>il minimo che tu possa fare \u00e8 apprezzarla. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If nothing else, you could show her that you respect her love, her sacrifices and everything she\u2019s doing for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because trust me\u2014this girl is one of a kind. I know you assume that you\u2019ll find another her around the corner, if it happens that you lose her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-76533 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-with-the-cap-on-the-meadow.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo con il cappello sul prato\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-with-the-cap-on-the-meadow.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-with-the-cap-on-the-meadow-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-with-the-cap-on-the-meadow-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Che \u00e8 solo una ragazza di passaggio nella vostra vita e che \u00e8 facilmente sostituibile.<\/p>\n<p>You might think that she doesn\u2019t feel unwanted just because she isn\u2019t some drama queen who demands to be the center of your universe.<\/p>\n<p>That she doesn\u2019t need you giving her back all the love you\u2019ve been getting from her just because she isn\u2019t needy and desperate.<\/p>\n<p>That she doesn\u2019t feel emotionally neglected just because she doesn\u2019t go around begging for your love.<\/p>\n<p>Remember this\u2014just because this girl has dignity and just because she is proud enough not to chase you to give her what she deserves, it doesn\u2019t mean that she is foolish.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean that she doesn\u2019t see that she deserves much more and it definitely doesn\u2019t mean that one of these days, she won\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/il-cambiamento-tardivo-si-stanca-2\/\">stancarsi<\/a> di rimanere al tuo fianco.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, siete convinti che non ci sia nulla che possiate fare per farle smettere di amarla.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-76534 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/the-couple-hugging-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"la coppia che si abbraccia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/the-couple-hugging-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/the-couple-hugging-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/the-couple-hugging-each-other-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That she\u2019ll never leave your side, no matter what happens and that you can spend eternity playing these toxic mind games with her.<\/p>\n<p>Well, guess what? You couldn\u2019t be more wrong. The truth is that this girl is one in a million.<\/p>\n<p>Che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-cosi-che-si-diventa-una-donna-che-non-puo-permettersi-di-lasciare\/\">she is someone you can\u2019t afford letting go<\/a> e che nessun'altra donna ti sopporterebbe come fa lei.<\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u00ec, \u00e8 forte e autosufficiente, ma ha anche un'incredibile capacit\u00e0 di amare.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Most importantly\u2014she knows how to love YOU. And let\u2019s face it\u2014you are anything but easy to love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quindi, cosa stai aspettando esattamente per cambiare strada e vedere il suo valore?<\/p>\n<p>Che cos'altro deve succedere perch\u00e9 lei rinsavisca e guardi le cose in modo realistico?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-76535 size-full aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/thoughtful-man.jpg\" alt=\"uomo riflessivo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/thoughtful-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/thoughtful-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/thoughtful-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nWhy do you keep on taking her for granted, as if she\u2019ll remain by your side forever?<\/p>\n<p>Why do you continue treating her like shit, as if she\u2019ll never get tired of your immature behavior?<\/p>\n<p>Why don\u2019t you finally start appreciating her presence before you are forced to feel her absence?<\/p>\n<p>Why don\u2019t you see what you have in time before you are forced to realize what you\u2019ve lost?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Credetemi quando vi dico che non avete pi\u00f9 tempo, perch\u00e9 uno di questi giorni sar\u00e0 troppo tardi. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>One of these days, she\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re not worth the trouble and she will walk away from you. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>E quando prende la decisione di dire la sua <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ti-sto-dicendo-il-mio-ultimo-addio\/\"><strong>addio definitivo<\/strong><\/a><strong>, there won\u2019t be anything you could do to change her mind.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-76531 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/If-A-Girl-Treats-You-Like-A-King-Without-The-Ring-Dont-Take-Her-For-Granted-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se una ragazza vi tratta come un re senza anello, non prendetela per buona\" width=\"629\" height=\"943\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/If-A-Girl-Treats-You-Like-A-King-Without-The-Ring-Dont-Take-Her-For-Granted-pinterest.jpg 467w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/If-A-Girl-Treats-You-Like-A-King-Without-The-Ring-Dont-Take-Her-For-Granted-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 629px) 100vw, 629px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s be honest\u2014you have never given this girl much reason to love you. You never promised to spend the rest of your life with her, you never showed her that you are fully committed to her and you never gave her the safety she needs. You have never shown her that you are all in\u2014that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":76530,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34148","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/If-A-Girl-Treats-You-Like-A-King-Without-The-Ring-Dont-Take-Her-For-Granted.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34148","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34148"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34148\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76530"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34148"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34148"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34148"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}