{"id":34154,"date":"2019-03-12T10:37:52","date_gmt":"2019-03-12T10:37:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34154"},"modified":"2022-01-09T19:46:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T19:46:00","slug":"la-verita-e-che-non-puoi-far-si-che-un-uomo-ti-ami-a-meno-che-non-sia-lui-stesso-a-farlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-verita-e-che-non-puoi-far-si-che-un-uomo-ti-ami-a-meno-che-non-sia-lui-stesso-a-farlo\/","title":{"rendered":"La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non potete farvi amare da un uomo a meno che non lo faccia lui stesso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Da sempre si pensa che l'amore sia piuttosto semplice: si ottiene ci\u00f2 che si d\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quindi, in sostanza, se qualcuno vi ama veramente, vi restituir\u00e0 tutto il suo amore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>The same goes for boyfriends, family, friends and everyone else\u2014if you give someone the care and the attention they need, everything will work out just fine.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You just have to give your best\u2014you have to show them that you are ready to do whatever it takes to make them happy and that they can count on you, no matter what.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This especially goes for guys\u2014if you treat your partner the way you\u2019d like to be treated, he will love you back for sure.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Bisogna essere onesti, leali, fedeli e pronti a scendere a compromessi e tutto andr\u00e0 a posto prima o poi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Vedr\u00e0 tutto quello che state facendo per lui, apprezzer\u00e0 tutti i vostri sacrifici e capir\u00e0 che siete l'unica degna del suo amore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Da sempre si \u00e8 convinti di dover <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ecco-perche-vale-la-pena-lottare-per-il-vero-amore\/\">lotta per il vero amore<\/a>\u2014that you have to be ready to do whatever it takes to keep it alive.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Vi \u00e8 stato detto che dovete superare molti ostacoli e vincere numerose sfide per ottenere il vostro lieto fine.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But no matter what, your happy ending will eventually come, if you just try hard enough, won\u2019t it?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I hate to be the one to burst your bubble but the truth is that things don\u2019t always work like that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>The truth is that sometimes, no matter how much of yourself you give to a man, he simply can\u2019t or doesn\u2019t know how to love you back. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>At least, he can\u2019t do it the way he should and the way you need him to.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che a volte si possono smuovere le montagne per una relazione che \u00e8 semplicemente destinata a fallire. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Per una relazione che non \u00e8 destinata a essere e che non avr\u00e0 mai successo, per quanto lo si voglia fortemente.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Non sto dicendo che dovreste andarvene nel momento in cui le cose si fanno difficili o che dovreste tirarvi indietro di fronte a qualcuno a cui tenete profondamente al primo inconveniente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Tuttavia, a volte bisogna accettare che le proprie lotte sono vane e che si sta combattendo contro i mulini a vento. &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Non sto dicendo che dovreste essere una stronza totale solo per far s\u00ec che un ragazzo che vi interessa vi segua.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Non sto dicendo che dovete fare i difficili o che mostrare le vostre vere emozioni sia sbagliato.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>However, you have to be aware of one thing\u2014no matter how much love you give away, it will never be enough for the wrong man. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Per quanto ci si possa sforzare e per quanto ci si possa impegnare, non si potr\u00e0 mai insegnare a un uomo tossico ad amare davvero. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>You can never make him become someone he\u2019s not and<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-si-puo-amare-qualcuno-perche-ti-ami\/\"> you can\u2019t force him to give you his entire heart<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Most importantly, what you need to realize is the fact that some asshole can\u2019t love you isn\u2019t your fault.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t waste your energy on trying to figure out why this man doesn\u2019t love you, after everything you\u2019ve done to deserve his love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Why can\u2019t you be enough for him to start treating you differently and for him to open up a place in his heart for you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Quindi, invece di incolpare se stessi, <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/she-left-you-because-she-finally-saw-her-worth\/\"><strong>ricordate il vostro valore<\/strong><\/a><strong>. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Remember that you don\u2019t need this man\u2019s love to make you happy and remember that it\u2019s his loss\u2014not yours.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Yes, all of this is easier said than done. I know that it is difficult and painful to accept the fact that someone whom you care for so deeply doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Tuttavia, a volte bisogna guardare la verit\u00e0 negli occhi e accettarla, per quanto dura sia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sometimes, you have to give up hope and realize that you\u2019ve done more than enough.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Realize that you\u2019ve done everything in your power and walk away, while you still have some dignity and pride.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>S\u00ec, far\u00e0 un male cane. Ma voi <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ad-ogni-ragazza-che-sta-soffrendo-e-guarendo-allo-stesso-tempo\/\"><strong>guarir\u00e0<\/strong><\/a><strong>. And once you do, you\u2019ll wish you\u2019d done all of this sooner.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Once you heal, you\u2019ll understand that this was the only way for you to open your heart to the man who WILL LOVE YOU in all the ways you deserve to be loved. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>For the man you\u2019ll never have to chase or beg. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Per l'uomo che non vi far\u00e0 mai mettere in dubbio le sue intenzioni, n\u00e9 dubitare dei suoi sentimenti. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Per l'uomo che \u00e8 destinato a essere tuo e che non ti spezzer\u00e0 mai il cuore.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-34157\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non potete farvi amare da un uomo a meno che non lo faccia lui stesso\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-12T113709.756.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For as long as you can remember, you thought of love as pretty simple\u2014you get what you give. So, basically, if someone truly loves you, they will give you all of their love back. The same goes for boyfriends, family, friends and everyone else\u2014if you give someone the care and the attention they need, everything&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":34155,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/StockSnap_IS2NXEIDJV.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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