{"id":34258,"date":"2020-03-14T08:18:26","date_gmt":"2020-03-14T08:18:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34258"},"modified":"2022-03-24T01:53:23","modified_gmt":"2022-03-24T01:53:23","slug":"ecco-perche-non-dovresti-mai-perdonare-il-suo-culo-traditore-e-dispiaciuto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-perche-non-dovresti-mai-perdonare-il-suo-culo-traditore-e-dispiaciuto\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 non dovreste mai perdonare il suo culo traditore e pentito"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo ha fatto anche con me. Ha avuto il coraggio di tradirmi e di andare a cercare qualcosa che gi\u00e0 aveva ma che non apprezzava.<\/p>\n

Doveva solo vedere cos'altro c'era l\u00e0 fuori. Doveva solo strapparmi il cuore. Quando ha finito, ha detto che gli dispiaceva.<\/p>\n

Well…save it for someone who cares. Maybe he thought I\u2019d never find out.<\/p>\n

Maybe that\u2019s why he was so brave and consistent in his persuasions that it isn\u2019t true and that it\u2019s not his fault.<\/p>\n

First, he said it\u2019s not true, and then he said it wasn\u2019t his fault. What am I, a complete idiot?<\/p>\n

You heard that story too, didn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, dicono tutti le stesse frasi e hanno le stesse scuse. E la parte pi\u00f9 divertente?<\/p>\n

Si aspettano tutti che gli crediamo. Pensano di poterla fare franca con qualsiasi cosa.<\/p>\n

Quindi, cosa succede dopo? Cosa farete dopo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not an emotionless robot, and you can\u2019t switch off your feelings just like that. You can\u2019t forget you ever loved him.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Dopo che la rabbia \u00e8 passata, you\u2019re going to miss him<\/a>. Cosa farete allora?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll tell you what I did. I fought with my demons.<\/p>\n

Ho lottato con me stessa contro la mia solitudine che mi spingeva a tornare nelle mani di un traditore.<\/p>\n

Ho lottato con tutte le mie forze contro la pressione di tornare dall'uomo che sapevo mi avrebbe ferito ancora una volta.<\/p>\n

Quando torno indietro e penso al fatto che volevo davvero perdonarlo, mi sento male.<\/p>\n

I really wanted to let it go and give him another chance\u2014which I knew then and I know now\u2014he didn\u2019t deserve.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be like me. Don\u2019t even think about forgiving him. His \u2018I\u2019m sorry; it was a mistake\u2019 <\/strong>La scusa del culo zoppo \u00e8 una bugia.<\/p>\n

If you take a look at the sentence itself, it really doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n

First, he\u2019s not sorry. Maybe he\u2019s sorry that he got caught, and second, was it really a mistake? Think about it.<\/p>\n

Doveva prima conoscerla. Doveva avere una sorta di comunicazione prima di saltare nel suo letto.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

So you see, it wasn\u2019t a mistake. It was all carefully planned, and he knew from the start what he was doing.<\/p>\n

Una cosa che \u00e8 successa una volta pu\u00f2 essere definita un errore, e una volta commesso, si sa che non si far\u00e0 mai pi\u00f9 la stessa cosa stupida.<\/p>\n

But going to her place over and over again, kissing her so many times cannot be a mistake\u2014it\u2019s an intention.<\/p>\n

What do you think…how many lies has he told you over time? <\/strong>Si pu\u00f2 davvero credere a tutto ci\u00f2 che dice?<\/p>\n

Who knows for how long he\u2019s been cheating on you and for how long he\u2019s been telling you lies?<\/p>\n

Dio solo sa se c'\u00e8 stato un momento della vostra relazione in cui lui ti ha detto davvero la verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still thinking about forgiving him, just remember that every time era con un'altra persona<\/a>, you weren\u2019t in his mind.<\/p>\n

Tu non ci sei andato vicino. Pensa solo a quanti sforzi ha fatto per conquistarla.<\/p>\n

Pensate a quante attenzioni riceveva prima di andare a letto con lui.<\/p>\n

And now ask yourself: didn\u2019t you deserve that attention and that effort to be directed to you and not someone else?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t this alone more than enough reason to forget he exists?<\/p>\n

Not only did he lie to you and sneek behind your back, but he also disrespected and diminished you by assuring her he doesn\u2019t love you and that soon it will be over.<\/p>\n

Presto ti lascer\u00e0 per stare con lei perch\u00e9 non prova nulla per te In realt\u00e0, ha mentito anche a lei. Vi ha resi entrambi ridicoli.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still thinking about forgiving him, please stay with me\u2026.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

If it really was a one-time thing, that\u2019s still not an excuse. Just remember everything he had to do to keep you in the dark, to keep you clueless.<\/p>\n

Pensate a quante bugie vi hanno raccontato per non farvi scoprire il suo sporco segreto. E se fosse stato ubriaco? E se fosse stata solo un'avventura di una notte? Era comunque una decisione.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato comunque qualcosa che ha scelto di fare nonostante la presenza di te nella sua vita. Ha deciso di farti del male in quel momento di ubriachezza.<\/p>\n

Forse il fatto che fosse ubriaco lo rendeva ancora pi\u00f9 facile da fare.<\/p>\n

That one drunken night revealed who he really is and what he really wants\u2014and that\u2019s not you.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, there is still one thing I bet you\u2019re dying to find out: why did he cheat, why?!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Cheaters can say they love you, but the truth is they don\u2019t. In fact, many can say they love, but rarely any of them really do.<\/p>\n

Words don\u2019t mean anything; actions matter. Now, let\u2019s take a step back.<\/p>\n

He tells you he loves you. He says that he\u2019s sorry, and he cheated on you. <\/strong>That\u2019s two sentences against an action.<\/p>\n

Tell me, what will win – an action or a statement? <\/em>He cheated because he doesn\u2019t respect you.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care about what is going to happen to you or whether it is going to hurt. That\u2019s why he cheated.<\/p>\n

Now…I dare you, give him a second chance.<\/p>\n

This is it. I\u2019ve told you everything I felt the need to say. Ultimately, the decision is up to you. I just want you to really think about your situation.<\/p>\n

Do you truly want to be with someone who thought you weren\u2019t interesting enough to be with?<\/p>\n

Can you be in a relationship knowing he cheated\u2014and you forgave him\u2014and make it work anyway?<\/p>\n

Ci si pu\u00f2 fidare di lui?<\/p>\n

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\"Ecco<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

He did it to me, too. He had the nerve to betray me and go looking for something he already had but didn\u2019t appreciate. He just had to see what else was out there. He just had to rip my heart out. When he was done, he said he was sorry. Well…save it for someone…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":79047,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34258","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/This-Is-Why-You-Should-NEVER-Forgive-His-Sorry-Cheating-Ass.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34258","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34258"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34258\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79047"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}