{"id":34303,"date":"2020-05-14T12:12:22","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T12:12:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34303"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:57:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:57:00","slug":"e-colpa-sua-se-ti-ha-illuso-ma-e-colpa-tua-se-glielo-hai-permesso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-colpa-sua-se-ti-ha-illuso-ma-e-colpa-tua-se-glielo-hai-permesso\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c8 colpa sua se vi ha illuso, ma \u00e8 colpa vostra se glielo avete permesso."},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che questo ragazzo ti tratta di merda da sempre. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Che non \u00e8 neanche lontanamente l'uomo che meritate e che non vi ha mai trattato come avrebbe dovuto.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you come to think of it, from day one, you haven\u2019t known where you stand with this man. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sei la sua amica con benefici, non sei altro che un'avventura occasionale o sei la sua ragazza?<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nonostante tutti i vostri sforzi per rendere le cose ufficiali e per definire la vostra relazione, lui non ha mai voluto etichettarla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He\u2019s never been fully committed to you and that has been eating you alive.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is no doubt about one thing\u2014all of this is exclusively his fault. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You are not to blame for the fact that this asshole can\u2019t make up his mind and get his shit together.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, I assume you can\u2019t help but wonder why can\u2019t you be enough for this man. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What is it you don\u2019t have and why can\u2019t he love you enough?<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sei tu che hai fatto qualcosa di sbagliato per tutto questo tempo? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why can\u2019t this man have the decency to choose you?<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014you shouldn\u2019t blame yourself for this asshole\u2019s actions and for his mistreatment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fidati, non c'\u00e8 nulla che tu possa fare per fargli cambiare strada o per farlo impegnare con te. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dopo tutto, \u00e8 necessario essere consapevoli che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-verita-e-che-non-puoi-far-si-che-un-uomo-ti-ami-a-meno-che-non-sia-lui-stesso-a-farlo\/\">non potrai mai farti amare da un ragazzo<\/a> finch\u00e9 non decider\u00e0 di farlo lui stesso.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tuttavia, <strong>Quello che dovresti rimproverarti \u00e8 di avergli permesso di giocare con te per tutto questo tempo.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For allowing him to waste years of your life, for letting him treat you the way you don\u2019t deserve and for settling for someone who doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Lei \u00e8 l'unica responsabile di aver dato a quest'uomo il via libera per continuare a ferirla e a spezzarle il cuore. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The only one to blame for him still having a place in your heart, after everything he\u2019s done.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s be honest\u2014you are a smart girl and there doesn\u2019t exist the possibility that you don\u2019t see who this guy really is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So che pensate che abbia bisogno di un'altra opportunit\u00e0 e che uno di questi giorni le cose andranno al loro posto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I know you want to believe in his empty promises and that you think you\u2019ll regret turning your back on him without giving it another shot now that you\u2019ve come so close to having him completely.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But let\u2019s face it\u2014deep down, you know very well that he will never change and that he\u2019ll never grow up into the man you need by your side. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You are pretty much aware that he\u2019ll keep leading you on as long as you let him do so.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, despite all of this, despite all the pain he\u2019s been causing you, you are the one who keeps giving him endless <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/to-the-girl-whos-given-more-second-chances-than-she-can-count\/\">seconde opportunit\u00e0<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quella che continua a perdonarlo e quella che aspetta pazientemente di riprenderselo ogni volta che si allontana da voi.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sei tu quella che continua a giustificarlo e a trovare scuse per il suo comportamento di merda, quella che continua a mentire a se stessa che le cose alla fine miglioreranno e quella che continua a scappare dalla verit\u00e0. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The one who keeps on hoping for this guy to make you happy even though deep down, you are very well aware that something like that won\u2019t happen in a million years. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quella che approfondisce le proprie ferite e cicatrici emotive. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Quella che continua a tenerlo stretto, sapendo di doverlo lasciare andare.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Odio essere crudele, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che <strong>Questo ragazzo continua a spezzarti il cuore, ma sei tu che continui a permettergli di farlo. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00ec, lei \u00e8 una vittima delle sue azioni ma <strong>siete anche vittima della vostra debolezza a guardare la verit\u00e0 negli occhi e ad accettarla finalmente. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>La vittima della tua debolezza per fare la differenza nella tua vita e per allontanarti da qualcuno che non potr\u00e0 mai darti l'amore che meriti.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Quindi, per favore, invece di aspettare che quest'uomo rinsavisca, capite che siete voi a dovervi dare una regolata. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Invece di aspettare che sia lui a scegliere te, <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/il-tempo-sceglie-quasi-lamore\/\"><strong>scegliere te stessa piuttosto che il suo quasi amore<\/strong><\/a><strong>. <\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Instead of waiting for him to appreciate everything you\u2019ve done for him, respect yourself enough to leave his sorry ass. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Instead of waiting for him to start valuing you, see your own worth and realize that you deserve more than someone who isn\u2019t sure about you. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Invece di aspettare che lui ti ami davvero, ama te stessa abbastanza da dirgli il tuo ultimo addio.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T131122.802-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c8 colpa sua se vi ha illuso, ma \u00e8 colpa vostra se glielo avete permesso.\" class=\"wp-image-34305\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T131122.802-683x1024.jpg 683w, 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That he is nowhere near the man you deserve and that he never treated you the way he should. When you come to think of it, from day one, you haven\u2019t known where you stand with this man. Are you his&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":34304,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34303","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/zachary-staines-181095-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34303","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34303"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34303\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/34304"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34303"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34303"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34303"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}