{"id":34307,"date":"2019-03-14T12:43:48","date_gmt":"2019-03-14T12:43:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34307"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:29:36","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:29:36","slug":"6-motivi-di-rottura-che-ogni-ragazza-e-stufa-di-sentire-e-cosa-significano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-motivi-di-rottura-che-ogni-ragazza-e-stufa-di-sentire-e-cosa-significano\/","title":{"rendered":"6 motivi di rottura che ogni ragazza \u00e8 stanca di sentire (e cosa significano)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anche se una rottura fa sempre male, a volte la cosa che ci lascia il cuore pi\u00f9 spezzato \u00e8 il modo in cui un ragazzo ci scarica.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s the fact that we are left puzzled, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ecco-come-ci-si-sente-quando-si-cerca-di-andare-avanti-senza-una-chiusura\/\">senza chiusura<\/a> e chiedersi dove le cose siano andate storte.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, for generations, men have been using the same clich\u00e9d break-up excuses and these are the most common ones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Be honest: how many times have you heard the infamous phrase, \u201cYou are too good for me,\u201d?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">How many times have you been dumped by the sentence \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me,\u201d?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anche se queste sono spesso usate da ragazzi che vogliono evitare di ferire i tuoi sentimenti, spesso ti lasciano dubitare della verit\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Is there something he didn\u2019t like about you but he doesn\u2019t want to tell you? Why is he really breaking up with you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quando il vostro futuro ex fidanzato usa questa frase, probabilmente sta cercando di farvi sentire meglio e vuole assumersi lui stesso la piena responsabilit\u00e0 della rottura.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, it will probably just make you feel worse\u2014it leaves you wondering what the thing is that bothers him so much that he can\u2019t even get himself to verbalize it?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. \u201cI have been hurt in the past\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quando agli uomini viene spezzato il cuore una volta, \u00e8 la fine del mondo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Of course something like this leaves consequences on your entire being but come on\u2014don\u2019t get yourself involved in a new relationship until you sort things out with your past.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tuttavia, questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che fanno molti uomini.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vanno in giro portando con s\u00e9 il loro bagaglio emotivo in ogni singola relazione che iniziano e finiscono per ferire qualcun altro. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-farle-del-male-solo-perche-il-tuo-ex-ha-fatto-del-male-a-te\/\">because they\u2019ve been hurt<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Naturalmente, quando qualcuno ti lascia in questo modo, ti fa sentire furioso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why couldn\u2019t he have realized that he has some past related traumas before leading you on?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why do you have to pay for someone else\u2019s mistakes?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why can\u2019t you get a chance to prove your own worth without being judged based on some other girl\u2019s actions?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>3. \u201cI don\u2019t know what I want\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Davvero? Ma sapeva cosa voleva quando faceva di tutto per entrare nei tuoi pantaloni.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He knew what he wanted when he pretended to be someone he\u2019s not just to make you fall for him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, now that he\u2019s noticed that things are getting more and more serious, he has chickened out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Of course, this is something he won\u2019t confess so he\u2019ll use this excuse and tell you that he can\u2019t make up his mind and that he doesn\u2019t want to string you along any further.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>4. \u201cI can\u2019t commit\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">OK, let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014everybody CAN commit, they just DON\u2019T WANT TO DO SO.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E lo stesso vale per tutti i ragazzi che hanno usato questa frase con te.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, he doesn\u2019t have what it takes to tell you how things really are.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He can\u2019t be honest by saying that he wants to spend a few more years banging everyone he gets the chance to and that he prefers the life of a bachelor to being monogamous.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He can\u2019t tell you that he is an immature guy who chooses short-term lust over long-term love so he chooses to blame everything on his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/5-ways-to-cure-commitment-phobia\/\">fobia dell'impegno<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>5. \u201cI don\u2019t have time for a relationship right now\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember one thing\u2014whoever wants you in his life will make the time and a place for you in it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tutto il resto sono stronzate e scuse vuote.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So when a man tells you he\u2019s too busy for a relationship right now, it is just a nice way of saying that you aren\u2019t important enough for him to make some rearrangements in his life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A way of telling you that he doesn\u2019t want to make time for you right now.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>6. \u201cIt\u2019s the wrong timing\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quante volte siete uscite con un ragazzo che vi ha detto che siete la persona giusta al momento sbagliato?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That the two of you would have been perfect together if you\u2019d met a little sooner or a little later?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If a guy tells you that you are the one he hopes to end up with but that he isn\u2019t ready to give you what you need at this moment\u2014run as fast as you can.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vedi, questo non \u00e8 altro che il suo modo di tenerti come piano di riserva.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Il suo modo di farvi aspettare che lui viva la sua vita fino al momento in cui <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-motivi-per-non-lasciare-che-il-tuo-ex-torni-a-strisciare-nella-tua-vita\/\">he\u2019ll come crawling back to you<\/a>Ti dice che ha sempre saputo che eri speciale e ti ricorda che tempo fa ti aveva detto che eri quella giusta per lui.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-34309\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T134200.613-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"6 motivi di rottura che ogni ragazza \u00e8 stanca di sentire (e cosa significano)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T134200.613-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T134200.613-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/PINTEREST-2019-03-14T134200.613.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even though a break-up always hurts, sometimes the thing that leaves us more heartbroken is the way a guy dumps us. It\u2019s the fact that we are left puzzled, without closure and wondering where things went wrong. 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