{"id":34348,"date":"2020-07-15T08:30:14","date_gmt":"2020-07-15T08:30:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34348"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:07:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:07:07","slug":"le-donne-forti-non-cercano-vendetta-ma-lasciano-che-il-karma-faccia-il-suo-sporco-lavoro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-donne-forti-non-cercano-vendetta-ma-lasciano-che-il-karma-faccia-il-suo-sporco-lavoro\/","title":{"rendered":"Le donne forti non cercano la vendetta, ma lasciano che il karma faccia il suo lavoro sporco"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando si spezza il cuore di una donna forte, ci si aspetta che si scateni l'inferno.<\/p>\n<p>Sapete che questa ragazza \u00e8 capace di tutto e probabilmente pensate di dover temere per la vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/8-cose-accadono-feriscono-ragazza-forte\/\">ferire una donna forte<\/a>, ci si aspetta il peggio.<\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t just crush her heart \u2013 you crushed her ego as well and that is something she won\u2019t easily forgive you for.<\/p>\n<p>You know very well that this girl is fearless and you assume that she\u2019ll do everything in her power to get back at you.<\/p>\n<p>To put it simply \u2013 you expect revenge. After all, this is not the type of woman who will stand idly by and watch you destroy her life.<\/p>\n<p>Non \u00e8 una persona che ti lascer\u00e0 andare via danneggiandola senza fare nulla.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110842\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-posing-in-the-hoodie.jpg\" alt=\"donna seria in posa con la felpa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-posing-in-the-hoodie.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-posing-in-the-hoodie-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-posing-in-the-hoodie-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-posing-in-the-hoodie-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-posing-in-the-hoodie-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-posing-in-the-hoodie-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-posing-in-the-hoodie-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-woman-posing-in-the-hoodie-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Instead, you assume that she\u2019ll do her best to make you feel exactly how she felt when you did her harm.<\/p>\n<p>That she\u2019ll make you regret every tear she cried and that make even deeper scars on your heart.<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me reveal to you one thing \u2013 you can\u2019t be more wrong because a strong woman never seeks revenge.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She won\u2019t stoop to your level and she won\u2019t allow everything you did to her to change her <\/strong>and make her become the person she doesn\u2019t want to be.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t allow her pain to make her become the same as you.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, the truth is that you\u2019ve hurt both this woman\u2019s feelings and her ego.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, <strong>per quanto dolore emotivo stia provando, raccoglier\u00e0 i pezzi rotti del suo cuore e si ricomporr\u00e0 in silenzio e con dignit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110843\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-wearing-red-coat-in-the-woods.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste con cappotto rosso nel bosco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-wearing-red-coat-in-the-woods.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-wearing-red-coat-in-the-woods-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-wearing-red-coat-in-the-woods-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-wearing-red-coat-in-the-woods-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-wearing-red-coat-in-the-woods-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-wearing-red-coat-in-the-woods-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-wearing-red-coat-in-the-woods-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-wearing-red-coat-in-the-woods-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/per-favore-smettete-di-regalare-la-vostra-energia-alle-persone-sbagliate\/\">sprecare altre energie<\/a> per cercare di pareggiare i conti con te.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t pretend that she\u2019s forgiven you to make you come back into her life, just so she could kick you out of it later on.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t fool around with one of your friends or use whatever she knows about you against you.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t go around stalking the girl you cheated on with or someone you are about to date to tell her what an asshole you are.<\/p>\n<p>Ma soprattutto, <strong>this girl won\u2019t waste any more of her time and energy on you because that is the last thing you deserve from her. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>She realized what a jerk you are and she doesn\u2019t plan on giving you any more space in her life. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>She doesn\u2019t want to put any more effort into you, even if that effort is aimed toward your destruction.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110845\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste con la mente profonda seduta sul divano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quindi, invece di tramare vendetta contro di voi, una donna forte andr\u00e0 avanti con la sua vita e lascer\u00e0 che il karma faccia la sua magia.<\/p>\n<p>She will cut you off for good and she\u2019ll start living her life as if you were never a part of it.<\/p>\n<p>This girl knows that things always find a way of sorting themselves out and she firmly believes that one of these days, life will pay you back for everything you\u2019ve done to her.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to get dirt on her hands and that is exactly what she would have to do if she continued to deal with you.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, <strong>sa che con il tempo diventerebbe solo prigioniera del suo desiderio di vendetta. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sa che la consumerebbe e la sopraffarebbe completamente e che le impedirebbe di lasciarla nel passato, al suo posto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110849\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa seduta su una grande finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-big-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quindi, <strong>invece di permettere che tutto ci\u00f2 che le avete fatto pesasse su di lei e diventasse il suo bagaglio emotivo, lascer\u00e0 andare tutti i risentimenti e i rancori nello stesso modo in cui ha lasciato andare voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Invece di cercare vendetta, sar\u00e0 la persona pi\u00f9 grande e vi augurer\u00e0 il meglio.<\/p>\n<p>Invece di permettere che il desiderio di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/la-miglior-vendetta-e-andare-avanti\/\">vendetta<\/a> to weigh her down, she will find the strength to forgive you for all of your misdeeds, even if it\u2019s the last thing she wants to do.<\/p>\n<p>No, she won\u2019t take you back, she won\u2019t listen to your reasoning, and she definitely won\u2019t forget what you did, but she\u2019ll forgive you because it is the first step in her journey toward healing and moving on.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110841\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Strong-Women-Dont-Seek-Revenge-They-Let-Karma-Do-Its-Dirty-Work-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Le donne forti non cercano la vendetta, ma lasciano che il karma faccia il suo lavoro sporco\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Strong-Women-Dont-Seek-Revenge-They-Let-Karma-Do-Its-Dirty-Work-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Strong-Women-Dont-Seek-Revenge-They-Let-Karma-Do-Its-Dirty-Work-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Strong-Women-Dont-Seek-Revenge-They-Let-Karma-Do-Its-Dirty-Work-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you break a strong woman\u2019s heart, you expect for hell to break loose. You know that this girl is capable of anything and you probably think that you should fear for your life. When you hurt a strong woman, you expect the worst. You didn\u2019t just crush her heart \u2013 you crushed her ego&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":110853,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34348","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Strong-Women-Dont-Seek-Revenge-They-Let-Karma-Do-Its-Dirty-Work-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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