{"id":34365,"date":"2020-03-15T10:44:18","date_gmt":"2020-03-15T10:44:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34365"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:07:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:07:52","slug":"35-microtattiche-che-i-narcisisti-usano-per-controllare-le-loro-vittime","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/35-microtattiche-che-i-narcisisti-usano-per-controllare-le-loro-vittime\/","title":{"rendered":"35 microtattiche che i narcisisti usano per controllare le loro vittime"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1. Il narcisista vi minaccia per intimidirvi. Vuole che smettiate di pensare con la vostra testa e che lo ascoltiate ciecamente.<\/p>\n<p>2. They are capable of going at you for putting up with someone\u2019s ill-treatment, while at the same time, they disrespect you on a daily basis without thinking that it\u2019s their problem.<\/p>\n<p>It can never be their problem. It\u2019s always someone else\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p>3. Fanno complimenti sospetti, che il pi\u00f9 delle volte sono pi\u00f9 simili a un insulto che a una lode.<\/p>\n<p>4. They sabotage you because they can\u2019t handle your success. In their world, they are the best, the smartest, and the prettiest; everyone else is worthless.<\/p>\n<p>5. Creano un'immagine esterna perfetta di s\u00e9. A un perfetto estraneo, appaiono impeccabili e di successo.<\/p>\n<p>6. They will go to all lengths just to keep the image they\u2019ve built alive. If that means they have to crush someone to achieve it, they won\u2019t think twice about it.<\/p>\n<p>7. They will never initiate something. Kindly enough, they will let you tackle the problem and after you solve it, they\u2019ll convince you that you did a lousy job and they could have done it so much better.<\/p>\n<p>8. They don\u2019t even think of you as a person, as an independent individual. They consider you an extension of themselves.<\/p>\n<p>9. La paura \u00e8 la loro arma principale. Usando la paura, hanno il controllo completo su di voi.<\/p>\n<p>10. Whenever something is wrong, they blame you and tell you that you\u2019re too emotional to handle life.<\/p>\n<p>11. Vulnerability is not a plus; it\u2019s a weakness in the eyes of every narcissist because they are wired differently.<\/p>\n<p>12. La loro sicurezza non \u00e8 falsa. Pensano davvero di essere il meglio che si possa avere.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85487\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>13. They will blow some past event out of proportion and convince you it happened just the way they told you, only you forgot it because you were \u2018too emotional.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>14. They set traps for you on purpose so they can appear as your \u2018savior\u2019 when you fall.<\/p>\n<p>15. They\u2019ll hurt you on purpose so that they can use their carefully thought-out plan to \u2018apologize\u2019 \u2013 in other words, to win you over.<\/p>\n<p>16. Non perdono mai l'occasione di umiliarti pubblicamente.<\/p>\n<p>17. Minacciano di distruggere o prendere le vostre cose.<\/p>\n<p>18. Vi umiliano ogni volta che ne hanno l'occasione, eppure si chiedono perch\u00e9 la vostra fiducia sia cos\u00ec bassa.<\/p>\n<p>19. Non riescono a controllare le proprie emozioni perch\u00e9 non sono in contatto con esse.<\/p>\n<p>20. They are always threatening to walk out on you because they want you to beg them to stay. They need to hear you need them and you can\u2019t live without them.<\/p>\n<p>21. One way to ensure they have complete control over you is to make sure you think you\u2019re unlovable. They need you to think so little of yourself and that you thank God you have them in your life. Because according to your narcissist, you\u2019re lucky anyone loves you really.<\/p>\n<p>22. Essi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-signs-you-are-being-verbally-abused-and-how-to-walk-away-from-it\/\">abusare verbalmente<\/a> you every time you don\u2019t do what they want you to do.<\/p>\n<p>23. Your entire relationship revolves around control. Narcissists need to have control. If they don\u2019t, they are ready to emotionally destroy you to the point you can\u2019t recognize yourself, just to get you to entertain their every whim.<\/p>\n<p>24. If at any point of your relationship you sober up and try to find a way out, if you stand up to them, they won\u2019t have it. Right after your rebellion, they will punish you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85490\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato che punta il dito contro una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>25. Vi catturano nella loro rete e vi rendono quasi impossibile liberarvi.<\/p>\n<p>26. When it suits them, they show emotions and they give love, but when it doesn\u2019t, they take it away, which is heartbreaking for anyone who isn\u2019t a sociopath.<\/p>\n<p>27. Sono responsabili delle finanze.<\/p>\n<p>28. Indagano sempre alle vostre spalle perch\u00e9 hanno bisogno di sapere tutto ci\u00f2 che accade intorno a loro.<\/p>\n<p>29. Every decision you make, they will second-guess. It\u2019s not because they don\u2019t trust you, it\u2019s because they want you to doubt yourself after a number of \u2018you\u2019re not capable of anything\u2019 remarks.<\/p>\n<p>30. Si assicurano che essere se stessi sia inaccettabile. Vogliono cambiare la vostra persona e distruggere la vostra autostima, in modo che iniziate a credere di dover cambiare, perch\u00e9 chi siete veramente non va bene.<\/p>\n<p>31. They constantly point out your flaws and they tell you right to your face that you need to change what they don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p>32. Every mistake you make will be used against you. It\u2019s like you\u2019re not allowed to make a mistake, while on the other hand, their mistakes don\u2019t count because they will never admit to making them.<\/p>\n<p>33. Se si prova il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/lostruzionismo-e-un-metodo-di-trattamento-silenzioso-perfetto-per-i-narcisisti\/\">trattamento silenzioso<\/a>Faranno di tutto per provocarvi e per farvi parlare, in modo da poter ribaltare ancora una volta la situazione.<\/p>\n<p>34. Non vi lasceranno mai soli perch\u00e9 hanno bisogno di questa relazione molto pi\u00f9 di voi.<\/p>\n<p>You are their narcissistic supply, something they can\u2019t live without.<\/p>\n<p>Per questo motivo, si nutriranno di voi, spingendovi contemporaneamente ad andarvene e cercando di tenervi con s\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>35. Sadly, in the end, the good person ends up emotionally beaten while the bad guy moves on to the next victim, looking perfect in a stranger\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85484\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"35 microtattiche che i narcisisti usano per controllare le loro vittime\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85483\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"35 microtattiche che i narcisisti usano per controllare le loro vittime\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/35-Micro-Tactics-Narcissists-Use-To-Control-Their-Victims-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. A narcissist threatens you to intimidate you. He wants you to stop thinking for yourself and to blindly listen to him. 2. They are capable of going at you for putting up with someone\u2019s ill-treatment, while at the same time, they disrespect you on a daily basis without thinking that it\u2019s their problem. 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