{"id":34377,"date":"2019-03-15T11:33:15","date_gmt":"2019-03-15T11:33:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34377"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:32:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:32:41","slug":"8-domande-da-porsi-se-si-continua-a-perdere-lamore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-domande-da-porsi-se-si-continua-a-perdere-lamore\/","title":{"rendered":"8 domande da porsi se si continua a perdere l'amore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si ama, si fa sempre in modo di dedicare tutto se stessi alla persona amata e non la si tradisce mai o non si fa nulla per renderla triste. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But there\u2019s this one problem that keeps popping up every time you find yourself in a relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si mantiene disinnamorarsi<\/a> senza sapere perch\u00e9 o come.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You rewind your every single word or action to understand why this phenomenon keeps repeating over and over again but you can\u2019t find any valid reason for it. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And as a result, you become so tired of it, swearing that you\u2019ll stay forever single.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re wondering why this keeps happening, the only true reason is that you\u2019re probably giving too much of yourself in every relationship you enter, which makes you lose yourself and fall out of love soon. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you give too much without receiving the same, you lose a sense of yourself and you\u2019re no longer the same person.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

By going out of your way to meet other people\u2019s expectations and desires, you are destroying yourself and your chance to be happy and that is why you fall out of love every time this happens.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se sospettate che questo possa essere il vostro caso, allora dovreste porvi le seguenti 8 domande per capire il nocciolo del problema!
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1. Vi trovate spesso in relazioni in cui i vostri bisogni non vengono ricambiati?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Reciprocity is the most important and crucial thing when it comes to establishing a healthy relationship and if your relationship lacks it, you\u2019ll soon find yourself falling out of love. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No matter how much you give, you will never be able to save your relationship because that\u2019s not how things work. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Reciprocit\u00e0 significa dare e ricevere in modo disinteressato e non solo ricevere.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you keep finding yourself in relationships where you\u2019re always the one who gives more and receives less, the reason behind it could be that you lost your sense of self-worth because your previous partners have made you feel like you\u2019re not abbastanza buono<\/a> e che non lo sarete mai, qualunque cosa facciate.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Siete sempre attratti fobici dell'impegno<\/a>?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re constantly attracting commitment-phobes, then there must be a valid reason for it. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c8 probabile che continuiate a innamorarvi di loro perch\u00e9 volete inconsciamente convincerli a impegnarsi con voi, e questo deriva ancora una volta dalle vostre esperienze passate.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You see, when you don\u2019t receive the same amount of love you keep giving to others, you subconsciously start thinking that you should be giving even more just to experience amore vero<\/a>. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E i fobici dell'impegno sono i migliori candidati.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Avete grandi aspettative nei confronti del vostro nuovo partner?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A volte si continua a perdere l'amore solo a causa delle grandi aspettative che si hanno prima di iniziare una relazione. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you meet someone new, do you always have this image in your mind of how things should look when you\u2019re together and what your future partner is supposed to do or not do?
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If yes, you\u2019re probably doing so because you\u2019re afraid that things will go in the wrong direction and you want everything to be perfect (which is totally understandable). <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But by doing so you\u2019re also creating the possibility of potential future disappointments, which will result in you falling out of love.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Cercate sempre di cambiare il vostro partner?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se \u00e8 del tutto normale non amare ogni singolo aspetto o difetto del nuovo partner, non \u00e8 normale cercare sempre di cambiarlo drasticamente. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The reason why this occurs might be also related to your past experiences where you weren\u2019t treated right and with care and now you\u2019re trying to prevent yourself from reliving the same thing again. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Purtroppo, non si riesce mai a cambiarli davvero e, a poco a poco, ci si ritrova invece a disamorarsi.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Avete sempre la tendenza a salvare il vostro partner da se stesso anche se sapete che la sua tossicit\u00e0 vi coster\u00e0 molto?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vi capita spesso di preoccuparvi pi\u00f9 per loro che per voi stessi?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vi ritrovate a compromettere la vostra felicit\u00e0 per amore della loro?
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se s\u00ec, significa che avete costantemente la tendenza a salvarli, anche se sapete che la loro tossicit\u00e0 finir\u00e0 per distruggervi. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ma il vero amore non consiste nel salvarsi a vicenda. Si tratta di essere pronti a ricambiare e a lottare con forza reciproca per ci\u00f2 che si ha.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Siete sempre gli unici a sacrificarvi e a fare sforzi per salvare la vostra relazione?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You might keep falling out of love because you can\u2019t help making enormous efforts for the sake of saving your relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You keep making excuses for your partner\u2019s unwillingness to do the same because you always do things on your own. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t wait for things to magically start functioning and this often costs you a lot.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Continuate a innamorarvi di coloro che vi fanno ballare al loro ritmo?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

L'innamoramento per coloro che ti fanno ballare al loro ritmo \u00e8 profondamente radicato nel desiderio di placare. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You feel good while you\u2019re giving and you forget about your own happiness. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si dimentica che l'amore deve essere reciproco e non deve servire a placare qualcuno. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E quando ci si rende conto che per tutto questo tempo si \u00e8 dato ciecamente e si \u00e8 ricevuto a malapena qualcosa in cambio, ci si disinnamora all'istante.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Do you feel like you\u2019re losing yourself while trying to meet their every need?
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you\u2019ve been in a relationship for some time, you often start feeling like you no longer know who you are. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You feel like you\u2019re no longer in touch with your true self and your own desires. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And all of this happens because you\u2019re selflessly trying to meet your partner\u2019s every need without expecting them to do the same.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You fall out of love because you\u2019re afraid of innamorarsi<\/a> in un certo senso. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Dai sempre il cento per cento di te stesso per far funzionare le cose e nel frattempo perdi il senso di chi sei. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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