{"id":34582,"date":"2020-03-20T12:52:50","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T12:52:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34582"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:13:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:13:18","slug":"uscire-con-donne-anziane-12-cose-che-vogliono-davvero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uscire-con-donne-anziane-12-cose-che-vogliono-davvero\/","title":{"rendered":"Uscire con le donne anziane: 12 cose che vogliono davvero"},"content":{"rendered":"

Gli appuntamenti a vent'anni e a quaranta sono due mondi diversi.mRicordi il caos che regnava nella tua testa quando eri un giovane adulto?<\/p>\n

Ricordate le cose banali che sembravano problemi insopportabili all'epoca?<\/p>\n

I bet you\u2019d give anything to go back to having problems you thought were the biggest you\u2019ll ever face.<\/p>\n

Ora, quando si guardano queste cose da una prospettiva diversa e con molta pi\u00f9 esperienza, la versione pi\u00f9 giovane di voi sembra cos\u00ec allettante.<\/p>\n

Gli appuntamenti sono cambiati in generale. Conoscere nuove persone \u00e8 pi\u00f9 disponibile che mai. Basta guardare Tinder o qualsiasi altra applicazione simile.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t like that when you were young. In your past, you didn\u2019t have a whole organization revolving around connecting people.<\/p>\n

If you met someone, you met them by accident and if you liked them, you went out on a date. That\u2019s how things worked.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, il punto \u00e8 che gli appuntamenti sono cambiati nel complesso, ma sono cambiati anche per voi.<\/p>\n

Your priorities back then and now are in no way similar. And believe me, this is a good thing because\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2022 there\u2019s no more relationship drama;<\/p>\n

\u2022 the chances of a committed relationship are higher;<\/p>\n

\u2022 You\u2019re able to recognize a douche miles away.<\/p>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

L'uomo di 40 anni e l'uomo di 20 sono due cose diverse.<\/p>\n

Now, you are so much more aware of who you are and what you want \u2013 or better said, you know what you don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

Forse ci sono voluti molti errori e molto tempo per arrivare a questo punto, ma ce l'avete fatta.<\/p>\n

There is no more relationship drama and it\u2019s much easier to recognize if you\u2019re facing a potentially serious relationship with a normal and earnest man.<\/p>\n

L'idea sbagliata che le donne si trovano ad affrontare quando arrivano ai quarant'anni \u00e8 che non hanno il diritto di scegliere come potevano fare prima.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s a joke. You have every right to be picky and choose carefully with whom you\u2019re going to date.<\/p>\n

Penso che tu abbia un diritto maggiore di farlo ora rispetto a quando eri pi\u00f9 giovane.<\/p>\n

After so many years\u2019 experience, you deserve to get what you want.<\/p>\n

Le donne anziane che hanno successo negli appuntamenti sanno esattamente cosa vogliono. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re interested in finding out what that is, here are the personality traits that older women really look for in a man:<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Un uomo maturo<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Una donna pi\u00f9 grande non \u00e8 interessata a ragazzi emotivamente immaturi.<\/p>\n

A dire il vero, nessuno lo \u00e8, soprattutto una donna anziana che \u00e8 leggermente avvantaggiata quando si parla di Riconoscere un uomo emotivamente immaturo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Lei vuole un uomo gentile, garbato e amorevole. Qualcuno che sia genuino e onesto non solo con lei, ma anche con se stesso.<\/p>\n

She wants a man who is emotionally independent because she doesn\u2019t need a child to take care of, but a man who will take care of her.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t play mind games because she\u2019s passed that a long time ago.<\/p>\n

Men who can\u2019t handle their own problems don\u2019t even have to bother trying to date her because if you can\u2019t deal with your own issues, how are you supposed to be someone\u2019s support?<\/p>\n

2. Un uomo con senso dell'umorismo<\/h2>\n
\"Coppia<\/figure>\n

La vita a volte pu\u00f2 diventare difficile. Le situazioni in cui ci si trova possono diventare pi\u00f9 di quanto si riesca a gestire e, proprio in quei momenti, \u00e8 necessario staccare la spina.<\/p>\n

In those situations, you need something to distract you and keep your mind off your problems \u2013 you need a laugh.<\/p>\n

Un uomo con un buon senso dell'umorismo vi far\u00e0 questo effetto. Vi far\u00e0 sorridere e vi tirer\u00e0 su il morale quando ne avrete pi\u00f9 bisogno.<\/p>\n

Also, a good sense of humor is a sign of intelligence. If he\u2019s funny, you can be sure he is more than just pretty to look at.<\/p>\n

3. Un uomo indipendente<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

By independent, I mean give a woman some space to breathe. An older woman doesn\u2019t have the need to be by her man\u2019s side all the time.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s not insecure or afraid of being cheated on the moment her man leaves her sight.<\/p>\n

Cercano volentieri un po' di spazio e di tempo per s\u00e9, per allontanarsi dall'altro.<\/p>\n

Hanno bisogno di avere i loro hobby, di stare da soli e di passare del tempo di qualit\u00e0 con i loro amici.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re used to dating younger women who have the need to spend all their free time with you, get that idea out of your head because it\u2019s not how it\u2019s going to work with dating an older woman.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t want a clingy man who denies her right to autonomy.<\/p>\n

4. Un uomo romantico<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Insecurity doesn\u2019t fade with years. It can be easier to control and it can appear less often, but it\u2019s always present. Where am I going with this?<\/p>\n

If a woman is a bit older than the average girls you\u2019ve dated, it doesn\u2019t mean she doesn\u2019t need romance in her life.<\/p>\n

She is a woman after all and a compliment or two every now and then wouldn\u2019t hurt. It would give her the confidence boost every woman needs.<\/p>\n

Ma soprattutto, il romanticismo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che rende gli appuntamenti divertenti. Come sarebbe senza?<\/p>\n

5. Un uomo che non ha paura di chiamare<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Texting is for insecure boys. When you don\u2019t have the guts to say something you want, you\u2019ll text it; it\u2019s so much easier.<\/p>\n

If she asks you something you don\u2019t have to answer right away, you can come up with the perfetto tex<\/a>o la risposta che pensate voglia sentire.<\/p>\n

You see, older women know this and if you text her rather than call her, she\u2019ll know that you are not serious about your relationship.<\/p>\n

Quindi, prendete il telefono come un uomo, perch\u00e9 gli sms sono per i ragazzi.<\/p>\n

If you have something to say, be a man and call her or tell it to her face. Don\u2019t hide behind texts.<\/p>\n

6. A man who doesn\u2019t care about the past<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

She wants a man who doesn\u2019t care what happened before him.<\/p>\n

An older woman has a life behind her and it may be an unpleasant one \u2013 a life she\u2019s trying to let go of.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s probably been divorced or she has been in a toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

Whatever her past looked like, she has moved on from it and she doesn\u2019t need reminders and your questions about \u201cwhat happened.\u201d<\/p>\n

Se vuole che tu lo sappia, lo condivider\u00e0 con te.<\/p>\n

In questo momento sta cercando un nuovo inizio. Un nuovo inizio con voi.<\/p>\n

7. Un uomo che presta attenzione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

In a perfect world, this should be the customary behavior of a normal guy with a woman of any age, but it\u2019s especially important when dating an older woman.<\/p>\n

Ascoltate le sue esigenze e i suoi desideri. Prestate attenzione quando parla, perch\u00e9 sta dicendo molto di pi\u00f9 di quello che sentite all'inizio.<\/p>\n

Non datela mai per scontata se volete che la vostra relazione abbia un lieto fine.<\/p>\n

Prestate attenzione ai dettagli, che sono sicuramente la chiave per una relazione di successo.<\/p>\n

8. Un uomo che non \u00e8 solo un uomo di aspetto<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

An older woman doesn\u2019t need superficial emotions. She wants to date a man who loves her for her personality.<\/p>\n

After all, if a man doesn\u2019t like his partner\u2019s personality traits, physical beauty will eventually fade.<\/p>\n

Se una persona \u00e8 di buon carattere, gentile e affettuosa, il suo aspetto esteriore diventa pi\u00f9 attraente per qualcuno.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why love at first sight usually fades. Beauty doesn\u2019t last forever.<\/p>\n

9. Un uomo sicuro di s\u00e9<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

These women have seen everything there is to see. They\u2019ve encountered every possible type of a man there is.<\/p>\n

Niente pu\u00f2 ingannarli, perch\u00e9 hanno visto tutto.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t try to hide anything from her and don\u2019t pretend to be someone you\u2019re not. She will see right through you from the first contact you make.<\/p>\n

Your approach alone and your first impression will give away who you really are. You can\u2019t make a fool out of her or play her in any way.<\/p>\n

If you want to ask her out, be confident and upfront. Believe in yourself, because if you don’t how do you expect her to believe in you?<\/p>\n

10. Un uomo che vuole migliorare se stesso<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Le persone devono lavorare su se stesse finch\u00e9 vivono. Facciamo sempre degli errori e dobbiamo sempre imparare da essi.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 l'unico modo per migliorare e diventare migliori.<\/p>\n

The easiest thing you can do is to brush aside issues when things aren\u2019t peachy.<\/p>\n

You can turn off your phone and spend a few nights watching Netflix, but that won\u2019t keep you on top for long.<\/p>\n

Women don\u2019t want men like that by their side.<\/p>\n

Le donne vogliono uomini che lavorino costantemente su se stessi, cercando di trovare la migliore soluzione possibile per ogni situazione in cui si trovano.<\/p>\n

Devono avere a cuore se stessi e il loro successo. Devono impegnarsi per diventare la versione migliore di se stessi.<\/p>\n

That way you\u2019re doing both yourself and the person you’re with a favor. By seeing you grow, they will wish to become more like you.<\/p>\n

11. Qualcuno che sia il suo migliore amico<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Il fulcro di ogni relazione seria \u00e8 l'amicizia. Quando si tratta di relazioni a lungo termine, ogni donna anziana cerca sia un amico che un amante.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get this wrong and assume you can\u2019t have fun with an older woman.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 nuova a storie di una notte e a incontri occasionali.<\/p>\n

Only, those things are not what she really wants \u2013 unless when it comes to blowing off some steam, anything goes.<\/p>\n

12. Un uomo che ha la vita in ordine<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Okay, he can be a bit off course. After all, no one\u2019s perfect. But for the most part, he has it all sorted out and planned.<\/p>\n

Le donne pi\u00f9 anziane, quando escono con voi, si aspettano che abbiate una sorta di piano per il futuro.<\/p>\n

They are not looking for a project to have fun with and they are definitely not planning to spend the best years of their lives on someone who hasn\u2019t grown up yet.<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

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