{"id":34655,"date":"2020-08-22T10:02:50","date_gmt":"2020-08-22T10:02:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34655"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:51:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:51:24","slug":"6-modi-confortanti-che-vi-aiuteranno-a-superare-la-mancanza-di-lui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-modi-confortanti-che-vi-aiuteranno-a-superare-la-mancanza-di-lui\/","title":{"rendered":"6 modi consolatori che vi aiuteranno a superare la mancanza di lui"},"content":{"rendered":"

La mancanza di qualcuno \u00e8 una delle emozioni pi\u00f9 profondamente desolanti che una persona possa provare nel corso della sua vita.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 quasi come se dentro di voi ci fosse un buco che nulla pu\u00f2 riempire, e il vuoto si sente dolorosamente e frequentemente.<\/p>\n

Quando si \u00e8 lontani da la persona che ami<\/a> in qualsiasi forma, il dolore \u00e8 quasi palpabile.<\/p>\n

As much as you want to and even try to think about anything other than missing him, it\u2019s like your brain is wired so that he is your one single thought no matter how much effort you put into preoccupying yourself with other things.<\/p>\n

A volte capita di essere lasciati e di ritrovarsi con il cuore spezzato in tanti piccoli pezzi che non si pu\u00f2 pensare di raccogliere da soli. \u00c8 troppo doloroso.<\/p>\n

Sapete di essere <\/strong>meglio senza di lui<\/strong><\/a>, and you wish you could tell your brain that, so it could finally stop reminding you of him\u2026 but you just can\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c8 una costante nel vostro processo di pensiero e vi uccide ogni volta che il suo volto compare nella vostra mente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You are broken. You need him. You want him\u2026 and you desperately miss him. So what do you do?<\/p>\n

Come si fa a dimenticare colui che ha fatto s\u00ec che i giorni corressero pi\u00f9 velocemente e le notti sembrassero secondi?<\/p>\n

Come si fa a vivere la propria giornata all'improvviso senza la propria met\u00e0?<\/p>\n

Does it ever get easier to pretend like you don\u2019t miss feeling his breath next to yours?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 pi\u00f9 facile abituarsi a dormire da sola nel letto che hai condiviso con lui per tanto tempo?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going to sugar coat it and say it\u2019s going to be a piece of cake. It\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

Sentire la sua mancanza \u00e8 una cosa fottuta, e abituarsi a vivere una vita piena senza di lui richieder\u00e0 tempo, pazienza e lacrime.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to look at his side of the bed and weep that he\u2019s not there keeping you warm.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to randomly hear a song he absolutely loves, and you\u2019ll suddenly feel the loneliness more than ever before.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s going to be a tough process, but it\u2019s going to happen. You are going to dimenticarlo<\/a>. Non oggi, non domani, forse nemmeno il mese prossimo.<\/p>\n

But one day, you\u2019ll just wake up, and you\u2019ll realize that you\u2019ve finally slept soundly without tears streaming down your face.<\/p>\n

E questa sar\u00e0 una piccola (ma significativa) vittoria!<\/p>\n

Non succede mai da un giorno all'altro.<\/p>\n

You cannot tell yourself: \u2018\u201cOkay, I no longer want to miss him!\u2019\u2019 and expect it to stop.<\/p>\n

But it is going to happen when you least expect it, and it\u2019s going to feel like such a relief when you finally do.<\/p>\n

If there is a loved one you miss enormously and you wish you could ease the pain and make life more bearable, keep on reading\u2026 it gets better.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ho raccolto alcuni modi per confortarvi e aiutarvi ad affrontare la mancanza della persona che amate.<\/p>\n

Per me sono stati una salvezza quando mi stavo riprendendo da una brutta rottura e spero davvero che avvicinino anche voi alla guarigione e alla felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

6 modi confortanti che vi aiuteranno a superare la mancanza di lui<\/strong><\/p>\n

Embrace what you\u2019re feeling and give yourself time to heal from this<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

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Nobody has the right to tell you how long it\u2019s acceptable to grieve. Only you know yourself and exactly how you\u2019re feeling inside.<\/p>\n

This is why it is important to let yourself feel what you\u2019re feeling.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost somebody important to you, and it\u2019s tough finding your way back to your old self.<\/p>\n

Lasciate uscire le vostre emozioni e piangete se ne avete bisogno!<\/p>\n

Only after you\u2019ve let yourself experience the pain and sadness will you be able to get through it once this stage is over.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t rush it. Take as long as you need, and slowly find your way back.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to be sad, and it\u2019s okay to feel lost. As long as you see a glimmer of hope at the end of the tunnel that will lead you back to the light.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s there, and it\u2019s waiting for you when you\u2019re ready to see it.<\/p>\n

Never forget that the pain is only temporary. Your happiness awaits whenever you\u2019re ready to get back to it.<\/p>\n

Ti manca lui <\/em>o solo l'idea di avere qualcuno al proprio fianco?<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

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Questo mi ha davvero colpito. Dopo la mia ultima rottura, ero assolutamente distrutta e inconsolabile.<\/p>\n

Piangevo giorno dopo giorno e niente di ci\u00f2 che qualcuno diceva o faceva mi aiutava a stare meglio. Tutto ci\u00f2 che volevo era che lui tornasse tra le mie braccia e non mi lasciasse mai pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

But what I failed to see back than (because I refused to admit it to myself) was that it wasn\u2019t him who I was missing so badly.<\/p>\n

Era semplicemente avere qualcuno al mio fianco.<\/p>\n

I was so used to being in a relationship, that being alone was torture. It\u2019s like I lost a limb that I couldn\u2019t function without anymore.<\/p>\n

But the thing is\u2026 I was perfectly capable of being on my own.<\/p>\n

I did love having a man by my side, but he wasn\u2019t the reason I felt whole. It was me. I was completely fulfilled on my own.<\/p>\n

Ha solo aumentato la mia felicit\u00e0!<\/p>\n

And when I realized how pathetic I was being in my refusal to let go, I finally got myself together and realized that for as long as I refuse to admit that I can do this, it\u2019s going to be torture.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the best advice I can give you!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let yourself feel like you\u2019re not enough! Don\u2019t let yourself think that you NEED a man to feel whole!<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t! You absolutely CAN and will get over him and kick ass while doing so.<\/p>\n

Realize that you\u2019re strong enough to stand alone until l'uomo giusto<\/a> entra nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Because when he appears, you are never going to have to learn how to get over him. Because you\u2019re never going to be left without him.<\/p>\n

Ricordate a voi stessi le cose che amate e che vi appassionano.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il momento migliore per tornare a fare le cose che amavate fare prima di incontrare lui!<\/p>\n

Avete tanto tempo libero a disposizione e non c'\u00e8 niente di meglio che dedicarlo agli hobby e alle persone che amate.<\/p>\n

Riscoprite chi eravate e imparate ad amare di nuovo quella ragazza!<\/p>\n

The only way you\u2019re going to stop missing him is by doing things that don\u2019t remind you of him.<\/p>\n

Ha cantato in una band? Ama la pittura? \u00c8 un appassionato giocatore di pallavolo?<\/p>\n

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Do whatever you did back when you didn\u2019t know him, and get back to your roots.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to have a blast rediscovering your old self, and you are genuinely going to stop missing him from all the fun you\u2019ll be having.<\/p>\n

Ci saranno sempre momenti difficili e giorni bui. \u00c8 perfettamente normale.<\/p>\n

But for as long as you keep finding those little reasons to get up each and every day and decide to wake up with a positive mindset, you\u2019re going to be just fine.<\/p>\n

Have a girls\u2019 night in with all your favorite ladies<\/h2>\n

\"donne<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the best cure for anything? Spending time with your besties of course!<\/p>\n

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Sono loro che possono tirare fuori il meglio di voi, quindi lasciate che vi aiutino in questo momento difficile!<\/p>\n

Organize a girls\u2019 night in, get some wine, cake and chick flicks, and let the games begin!<\/p>\n

Have you ever had a bad time with your girls? I don\u2019t think so\u2026 so remind yourself of why you love them, and let them be your rock.<\/p>\n

Only one rule\u2026 no boy talk!<\/p>\n

Una serata dedicata esclusivamente a voi e alle vostre donne e a un po' di sano e vecchio divertimento!<\/p>\n

Potrete giocare a giochi di societ\u00e0, parlare dei vostri ricordi pi\u00f9 antichi, ricordare le storie pi\u00f9 imbarazzanti e ridere a crepapelle.<\/p>\n

Niente \u00e8 off limits, tranne i ragazzi. Per una notte, cancellateli dalla vostra lista e lasciate che i tempi siano belli.<\/p>\n

Andare in palestra e sudare via le preoccupazioni<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Forse non mi crederete, ma l'esercizio fisico \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 straordinarie che si possano fare dopo una brutta rottura!<\/p>\n

Potete letteralmente sudare e lasciare tutti i vostri problemi in palestra! Vi sentirete cos\u00ec liberi e liberati. Ve lo prometto!<\/p>\n

Ero cos\u00ec titubante a provare, ma alla fine ho ceduto e mi sono iscritta, e non mi sono mai guardata indietro!<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 qualcosa nel duro lavoro, nell'esercizio fisico e nell'aiutare il proprio corpo a guarire e ad essere il pi\u00f9 forte possibile, che ti fa sentire davvero fantastica!<\/p>\n

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You won\u2019t know it until you try it. It\u2019s going to give you a new purpose, and you\u2019re never going to be able to stop going once you get used to it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s always a struggle in the beginning, so don\u2019t let it scare you away! But once your body gets used to the regimen, it\u2019s going to be freaking fantastic!<\/p>\n

And suddenly, you\u2019re going to be okay again. Just like that!<\/p>\n

Guardate i vostri film preferiti e leggete i vostri libri preferiti.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Perdersi in un mondo pieno di numerosi personaggi e situazioni intriganti \u00e8 un modo fantastico per trascorrere del tempo di qualit\u00e0 con se stessi, senza lasciarsi sfuggire la sua mancanza o anche solo pensare a lui.<\/p>\n

Andate a vedere quel film che sapete che vi fa sempre sorridere. Perdetevi in un mondo immaginario e tifate per il vostro personaggio preferito.<\/p>\n

If it\u2019s a sad movie, so be it! Cry your eyes out and let it all out. If it\u2019s a comedy that cracks you up every single time, even better.<\/p>\n

Ridete di gusto e divertitevi perch\u00e9 ve lo meritate. Qualsiasi cosa vi aiuti ad affrontare la situazione \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che dovreste fare.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re into books, grab your favorite, and let yourself wander off in a story that makes you feel as if you\u2019re the one living it.<\/p>\n

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Ogni volta che vi accorgete che vi manca, decidete di aiutarvi a smettere. In questo caso i film e i libri sono utili.<\/p>\n

Sono le migliori distrazioni dal mondo reale, dai veri problemi e dalle vere lacrime.<\/p>\n

E tutti hanno bisogno di una fuga, a volte.<\/p>\n

With a little luck, it\u2019s going to preoccupy you so much that you\u2019re not going to think about him or your tough times for the rest of the day.<\/p>\n

For as long as you\u2019re adamant at helping yourself get through this, you\u2019re going to succeed.<\/p>\n

Go at your own pace, and don\u2019t listen to anybody telling you otherwise.<\/p>\n

Siamo tutti individui e viviamo le cose a modo nostro. Fate ci\u00f2 che funziona per voi e ascoltate il vostro istinto.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 tutto ci\u00f2 che potete fare, ed \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che sufficiente.<\/p>\n

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