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<\/p>\r\n\r\nNon accontentatevi mai di meno di quanto meritate!<\/p>\r\n
Have you ever stopped and really thought about why you\u2019re doing the complete opposite?<\/p>\r\n
Insomma, nessuno vi obbliga a farlo, nessuno vi vieta di chiedere ci\u00f2 che meritate. Quindi, di nuovo, perch\u00e9 vi accontentate?<\/p>\r\n
When you exclude emotions from reason, it\u2019s more than logical to abandon a relationship that is making you unhappy.<\/p>\r\n
It\u2019s perfectly normal to leave with no strings attached and find your happiness elsewhere. Sadly, nothing is that simple as long as emotions get the better of you.<\/p>\r\n
Even if you don\u2019t love the person you\u2019re unhappy with, you\u2019ve grown used to them and there is no way you could just leave without feeling something\u2026 anything.<\/p>\r\n
That\u2019s when emotions make a big deal and guilt you into staying unhappy. You feel sorry for the person; you feel sorry for the lost time and you keep hoping that something will gradually change.<\/p>\r\n
You don\u2019t want to just quit and let everything you\u2019ve worked hard for go to waste.<\/p>\r\n
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Di solito la colpa \u00e8 di questi sentimenti, ma ancora pi\u00f9 comune \u00e8 che le persone che si accontentano di poco sono incredibilmente insicure<\/strong> e lo fanno perch\u00e9 hanno poca o nessuna fiducia in se stessi.<\/p>\r\n We all have that seed of doubt, the mistrust in ourselves, planted deep inside us, but the way we\u2019re handling it is what counts.<\/p>\r\n C'\u00e8 chi tiene sotto controllo le proprie insicurezze e chi invece si lascia divorare dai dubbi. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n For as long as you don\u2019t put an end to it, you aren\u2019t going to be happy.<\/p>\r\n Change your attitude from \u201cI\u2019m not good enough to be with someone\u201d to \u201cI want someone who actually deserves me\u201d and your unhappiness is going to come to an end.<\/p>\r\n That part of your life will turn into nothing more than a huge mistake from which you\u2019ve learned the most important lesson.<\/p>\r\n The reason why you\u2019re settling can be this, or it can be because you\u2019re just paura di essere single<\/strong>.<\/p>\r\n I understand it\u2019s scary, especially if you\u2019ve spent most of your life as part of a duo and now you have to go back to the game, but you\u2019re not sure if the rules have changed.<\/p>\r\n You\u2019re not sure if you\u2019re going to make it. Let me tell you something, every change is scary, but you can never know for sure that it\u2019s a bad thing.<\/p>\r\n E tutti noi siamo cos\u00ec. Se le cose cambiano e si trasformano in qualcosa che non conosciamo, pensiamo subito che sia un male per noi.<\/p>\r\n That is a load of crap! That is the fear talking out of you \u2013 the fear that is your biggest enemy.<\/p>\r\n Something that is pulling you down and pulling you back, something that isn\u2019t allowing you to grow.<\/p>\r\n Questa paura di essere single \u00e8 strettamente correlata alla paura dell'abbandono<\/strong>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n We are \u2013 and I\u2019m using \u201cwe\u201d because I\u2019m talking about all of us, not just you \u2013 we are all putting an enormous amount of pressure on ourselves because of these abandonment issues.<\/p>\r\n Stiamo cercando di salvare una relazione in crisi, anche se questo significa trovare scuse per un comportamento tossico. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n To anyone else, leaving a loveless relationship seems the right road to take, but for you, it\u2019s a dark path full of obstacles and challenges.<\/p>\r\n It\u2019s the leap to the unknown; it\u2019s a huge risk you aren\u2019t willing to take just yet!<\/p>\r\n\r\n I bet you\u2019ve thought exactly the same as what I\u2019m I about to say: \u201cIt\u2019s better to be in a crappy relationship than spend the rest of your life alone!\u201d<\/p>\r\n This is when everything goes to hell. This one sentence craps all over your life. This one sentence defines you who you are and how you\u2019re going to deal with love.<\/p>\r\n Prendendo questo tipo di posizione ci si ritrova in una situazione da cui \u00e8 difficile uscire. I have a story to share with you\u2026 <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n Avevo una relazione senza amore. All'inizio era una relazione come tutte le altre.<\/p>\r\n Eravamo nella fase della luna di miele ed eravamo cos\u00ec felici. Sembrava che nulla potesse dividerci.<\/p>\r\n Sadly, as time passed by, I fell out of love. He wasn\u2019t that interesting anymore because he didn\u2019t try hard enough, which led me to believe he didn’t care.<\/p>\r\n![\"Donna](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Thoughtful-woman-looking-through-window.jpg\")
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