{"id":34813,"date":"2020-03-26T13:46:22","date_gmt":"2020-03-26T13:46:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34813"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:54:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:54:42","slug":"non-aspettero-che-tu-sia-pronto-per-una-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-aspettero-che-tu-sia-pronto-per-una-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Non ho intenzione di aspettare che tu sia pronto per una relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ho gi\u00e0 sprecato troppo tempo e troppi sentimenti e desideri per permettere che questo continui ancora.<\/p>\n

It was so easy to fall into this emotional limbo with you and now I am forever stuck somewhere between a friend and a lover and that\u2019s not where I want to be.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want things to be either or\u2014I want everything.<\/p>\n

I want to hear the words \u201cgirlfriend\u201d, \u201cus\u201d and \u201cIn the future, we will…\u201d come out of your mouth.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want this mess of on-again-off-again. This caldo e freddo<\/a>, siamo insieme poi non siamo insieme, mi sta facendo impazzire.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to make excuses for why you haven’t texted or called. I don\u2019t want to be here only when it\u2019s convenient.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be your stop along the way, I want to be your destination.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t force you to do anything, I know that love can\u2019t be forced but I won\u2019t stay if you are not one hundred percent committed to me. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to play games, I think I am a bit too old for that.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t communicate your feelings and tell me what it is that you want from me, you are not the man for me.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to guess your feelings from the way you say or text things. I don\u2019t want to read between the lines.<\/p>\n

Voglio apertura e chiarezza, tanto per cambiare.<\/p>\n

Yes, I want commitment but that doesn\u2019t mean I want you to marry me. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Significa che voglio che tu ci dia la possibilit\u00e0 di avere una relazione. Significa che voglio provare a vedere dove ci porter\u00e0 questa storia.<\/p>\n

Significa che voglio che tu mi dica che siamo esclusivi e che hai occhi solo per me.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t see a reason here for your unreadiness. I don\u2019t see that there is something to fear or run away from.<\/p>\n

I am tired of thinking of all the things that we could be but we\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Sono stanco di desiderare che le cose siano qualcosa che non sono. <\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s time for you to decide whether you want us to be together or not. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t settle for bits and pieces of your love, I want all of it.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to beg for your time, I want you to show me that you want to spend time with me.<\/p>\n

Voglio che tu corrisponda ai miei sforzi e ai miei investimenti, niente di pi\u00f9 e niente di meno.<\/p>\n

I am not going to wait around for you to be ready, I can\u2019t do that anymore. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If we can\u2019t be in a real relationship, we won\u2019t be in an almost one either. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ho smesso di svendermi.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Ho smesso di pensare che forse non sono abbastanza perch\u00e9 Sono pi\u00f9 che sufficiente<\/a> e sono, come ogni altro essere umano, degno di amore.<\/p>\n

Merito di pi\u00f9. Merito di avere tutto. Ora lo so.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am asking you to choose. That\u2019s why I am ready to say goodbye to everything that\u2019s holding me close to you.<\/p>\n

Alla fine, voglio che tu sappia che non ho rimpianti quando si tratta di me e di te. Sono felice che sia successo.<\/p>\n

Sono grata per tutti i bei ricordi e i momenti felici.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I just can\u2019t live for those moments anymore. I need the whole package. I need a real relationship; anything else is just not enough. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If you decide to let me go, that\u2019s OK too.<\/p>\n

It will hurt like hell, it will rip my heart into pieces but I\u2019ll be all right because what we have now is also causing me more pain than bliss.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t force you to be ready but I can stand alone. I\u2019ll be good on my own because if I am being honest with myself, I never really had you.<\/p>\n

Ho avuto l'idea di noi, ho avuto la visione di ci\u00f2 che avremmo potuto essere, ho avuto parti del tuo cuore, ma non \u00e8 mai stato completamente mio.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s all I want from you, your entire heart, and if I can\u2019t have that then I don\u2019t need anything from you.<\/p>\n

If I can\u2019t have that, I wish you all the luck in life but your life won\u2019t include me, not anymore.<\/p>\n

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I\u2019ve already wasted too much time and too many feelings and wishes to allow this to continue any longer. It was so easy to fall into this emotional limbo with you and now I am forever stuck somewhere between a friend and a lover and that\u2019s not where I want to be. I don\u2019t want…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":82087,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34813","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/I\u2019m-Not-Going-To-Wait-Around-For-You-To-Be-Ready-For-A-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34813","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34813"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34813\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82087"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34813"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34813"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34813"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}