{"id":34990,"date":"2020-04-02T07:43:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T07:43:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34990"},"modified":"2022-06-06T15:19:38","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T15:19:38","slug":"12-modi-per-dargli-spazio-senza-la-paura-di-perderlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/12-modi-per-dargli-spazio-senza-la-paura-di-perderlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Dagli spazio: 12 modi per evitare la paura di perderlo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Volete sapere come dargli spazio senza rischiare di perderlo? Siete nel posto giusto.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Proprio come in qualsiasi relazione sentimentale reale e a lungo termine, potrebbe arrivare un momento in cui le cose sembrano improvvisamente non funzionare.<\/p>\n<p>Potrebbe iniziare a comportarsi in modo distante, le cose che normalmente sembravano a posto sono tutt'altro, e il rapporto tra voi due sembra essersi un po' rotto.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-il-vostro-uomo-fa-queste-10-cose-probabilmente-e-arrivato-il-momento-di-scaricarlo\/\">Il tuo uomo<\/a> is acting differently, but you just can\u2019t seem to figure out what the hell is going on.<\/p>\n<p>Is it you? Is it something you did or is he simply struggling with something internally and he doesn\u2019t know how to handle it right?<\/p>\n<p>Quando la comunicazione non \u00e8 sana e uno dei due partner agisce al di fuori della sua norma senza fornire spiegazioni valide per il suo comportamento, la relazione pu\u00f2 risentirne.<\/p>\n<p><i>Si sente che lui <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/perche-gli-uomini-hanno-bisogno-di-spazio-in-una-relazione-e-come-affrontarlo\/\"><i>ha bisogno di spazio<\/i><\/a><i> e volete davvero darglielo, ma temete che possa piacergli troppo e che possa andarsene. Quindi cosa fate?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>How do you give him the space that he clearly needs, yet at the same time, still make sure he knows you\u2019re there for him, and you desperately want to get to the bottom of whatever is bugging him? How to know what your <\/i><i>l'uomo vuole<\/i><i> da te?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>The first thing that\u2019s important to note here is that guys handle their problems much differently from women.<\/p>\n<p>Di solito amano allontanarsi per un po' e occuparsi delle loro cose internamente.<\/p>\n<p>Si dedicano al lavoro un po' pi\u00f9 del solito, per distrarsi da ci\u00f2 che li preoccupa.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t like to hash it over too much, and they rely on their own abilities to solve their issues. Men are just wired differently.<\/p>\n<p>Le difficolt\u00e0 emotive non sono facili da affrontare per loro, quindi quando iniziano a sentire la tensione di tutto questo, la manifestano in modi che possono rivelarsi dannosi per le loro relazioni sentimentali.<\/p>\n<p>They usually don\u2019t mean to be that way; it\u2019s just a result of their inability to cope with their issues openly and honestly like women do.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78431 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna mette la mano sulle braccia dell&#039;uomo e lo guarda in un caff\u00e8 di strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ascolta, purtroppo, tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/il-vostro-amore-non-puo-cambiare-un-uomo-finche-non-decide-di-farlo-lui-stesso\/\">can\u2019t change<\/a> come \u00e8 il vostro partner. Lui \u00e8 quello che \u00e8 e voi dovete accettarlo come parte di lui e capire che non ha nulla a che fare con voi.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody has their own way of working out their issues, and you cannot control what happens in somebody\u2019s head and how they react to things and resolve them.<\/p>\n<p><i>Ma ci\u00f2 che si pu\u00f2 controllare \u00e8 il modo in cui <\/i><i>voi<\/i><i> reagire ad essi.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Potete scegliere di lasciarvi influenzare negativamente da queste cose, di starvene seduti in silenzio e tenere il broncio, oppure potete <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-dura-realta-della-rottura-con-un-narcisista-e-come-affrontarla\/\"><i>trattare con loro<\/i><\/a><i> come la donna adulta che siete e cercate di rendere il processo per dargli lo spazio che desidera disperatamente il pi\u00f9 indolore possibile.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 probabile che si tratti solo di una fase e che passer\u00e0. Trover\u00e0 una via d'uscita al suo dilemma emotivo e si scuser\u00e0 in seguito per aver lasciato che la vostra relazione si affaticasse.<\/p>\n<p>You are going to realize that you\u2019ve made a big deal out of nothing, and you\u2019ll be perfectly fine and secure in what you have.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t always trust your head when it goes into panic mode. Sometimes it\u2019s just a little glitch, and it\u2019s only a matter of time before things get resolved.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t panic if you feel like you need to give him some space. That can actually prove to be healthy for your relationship in the long run.<\/p>\n<p>He is going to realize what a great woman he has by his side\u2014one that selflessly lets him deal with his stuff without nagging, and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-aspettatelo-non-ne-vale-la-pena\/\">lo aspetta<\/a> with zero judgment when he\u2019s back to his old self.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody\u2019s perfect, and we all go through our own shit. What really matters is how you choose to come out of it.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciategli lo spazio di cui ha bisogno, ma assicuratevi di fare tutto il necessario per mantenere il vostro spirito positivo per tutto il tempo.<\/p>\n<p><i>Ecco 12 modi per dargli spazio, con il minimo rischio di perderlo:<\/i><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lasciategli spazio e allontanatevi per un po'<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78429 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky.jpg\" alt=\"silhouette di donna che guarda il cielo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il modo pi\u00f9 ovvio, ma anche pi\u00f9 efficace, per dargli un po' di spazio \u00e8 fare proprio questo.<\/p>\n<p>Accept that this is how it is at this very moment and adjust. Don\u2019t text him all the time, and don\u2019t call too much.<\/p>\n<p>If he isn\u2019t texting you first, don\u2019t initiate conversation every single day because that is the exact opposite of what you\u2019ve promised him.<\/p>\n<p>Se vi state chiedendo cosa vuole il vostro uomo in questo momento, ascoltate il vostro istinto.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you think you will never be able to help him, the next day you won&#8217;t think like that.<\/p>\n<p>Let him figure it all out, and don\u2019t pry too much. I understand it\u2019s extremely difficult backing off from <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ecco-perche-bisogna-lottare-per-chi-si-ama\/\">la persona che ami<\/a>, but just remember that you\u2019re doing it all for the sake of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Se continui a comportarti cos\u00ec, alla fine torner\u00e0. E questo era il tuo piano fin dall'inizio, giusto?<\/p>\n<p>Let him know you\u2019ll be spending time with your best friend on Saturday, so if he has no plans, you can have brunch on Sunday, but don\u2019t pressure him.<\/p>\n<p>Be casual and chill. He should see you as a source of support and not somebody who can\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/dategli-3-giorni-2\/\">concedergli un po' di tempo per s\u00e9<\/a> when that\u2019s all he really needs.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s going to be tricky not receiving that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/25-cute-and-endearing-goodnight-texts-for-him-and-her\/\">testo della buonanotte<\/a> from him every night, but it\u2019s crucial that you keep to your word and make him see he can trust you. It\u2019s all going to be okay in the end.<\/p>\n<p>Be supportive of his struggles, respect his space, and let him know that whenever he\u2019s ready, you\u2019re here to talk it all out and figure out where you stand.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Concentratevi su voi stesse e smettete di trovare scuse per contattarlo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78430 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna che beve caff\u00e8 accanto alla finestra di casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve made a conscious decision to give him space, do just that. You don\u2019t need to make ridiculous excuses to text and call at all times because he will see right through them.<\/p>\n<p>If you keep badgering him after promising to step away for a bit, he\u2019s going to feel pressured and attacked, and it can only negatively affect how things will continue after this.<\/p>\n<p>No, he didn\u2019t forget that you exist, and no, he is not going to get used to a life without you because that is not the point of it all.<\/p>\n<p>The point is that he figures himself out\u2014alone. That&#8217;s why you should give him the boyfriend space he craves so much.<\/p>\n<p>Alla fine della giornata, penser\u00e0 in modo diverso e potrebbe tornare da voi prima di quanto pensiate sia possibile.<\/p>\n<p>Non ha nulla a che fare con voi o con terzi.<\/p>\n<p>He is going to reach out when he\u2019s ready, and you\u2019ll talk then. If he doesn&#8217;t call you today, it doesn&#8217;t mean he won&#8217;t call you the next day.<\/p>\n<p>Mantenete la positivit\u00e0 e le cose andranno meglio di quanto pensiate.<\/p>\n<p>Anything else is just too needy and insecure, and you know that\u2019s not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/se-ti-senti-come-se-non-sapessi-piu-chi-sei-leggi-questo\/\">chi sei<\/a> o come volete che vi veda.<\/p>\n<p>Dovreste essere in grado di godervi la vita anche da soli. Ci sono tante cose da vedere e tante cose da fare, quindi concentratevi su tutto questo e il tempo voler\u00e0!<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re focused on the positives and choose to see the beauty in everything, it usually translates into real life.<\/p>\n<p>Tenete alto il morale e trovate sempre un motivo per sorridere!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Niente stalking sui social media!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78432 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"donna che scrive sul suo smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 controproducente per dargli spazio. Non siete al liceo, non gli mandate messaggi d'amore e non gli chiedete quando verr\u00e0 a trovarvi.<\/p>\n<p>Si tratta di un problema serio, che va trattato di conseguenza.<\/p>\n<p>It may seem innocent enough, but if you can\u2019t peel your eyes off his Facebook and Instagram accounts, you\u2019re going to make yourself go mad. The no contact rule is a lifesaver in situations like this.<\/p>\n<p>Siate pazienti e lasciategli il suo spazio per pensare a tutto.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t stalk him. Don\u2019t keep tabs on who he\u2019s following, whose photos he liked, and the comments he might have posted on somebody\u2019s video. Don&#8217;t even try to be sweet and cute by saying &#8216;hi&#8217; on Snapchat. I<\/p>\n<p>know a lot of women would do something like this, but now you know that it isn&#8217;t the right thing.<\/p>\n<p>Non importa quanto lo desideriate, rinunciate a mandargli messaggi. Perch\u00e9 se passate cos\u00ec tanto tempo a concentrarvi su di lui, vi perderete tutto il divertimento della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t mess with your head by imagining scenarios that aren\u2019t real, based on what you see on his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/heres-what-his-social-media-posts-reveal-about-him-and-your-relationship\/\">social media<\/a> profili.<\/p>\n<p>Just because he went out with his friends the night before, does not mean he\u2019s not struggling.<\/p>\n<p>All it means is he needed a breather. Sympathize with that, and don\u2019t judge.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate che lo state lasciando da solo per qualche tempo perch\u00e9 ha bisogno di spazio. Se gli piace passare il tempo con certe persone, accettatelo.<\/p>\n<p>As I\u2019ve already mentioned, people deal with their issues in their own ways. Nobody is right or wrong here. We\u2019re all just finding our way.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t overanalyze things, and keep an open mind. Nobody said it would be easy, but do your best to keep a level head.<\/p>\n<p>Non fate altro che peggiorare la vostra situazione. Quindi niente social media e niente stalking.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciate che le cose vadano al loro ritmo e fidatevi del vostro uomo. Fidatevi di me, alla fine della giornata sarete cos\u00ec orgogliosi di voi stessi se riuscirete a gestire tutto in questo modo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t interrogate him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78426 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna seria che parla con un uomo in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t go into it too aggressively. You don&#8217;t know the real reasons why your man is pulling away. Maybe he has some issues he doesn&#8217;t want to share with you.<\/p>\n<p>Tenete presente che nemmeno lui sa cosa diavolo gli passa per la testa, quindi le vostre 20 domande non faranno stare meglio nessuno.<\/p>\n<p>The hardest part is not taking it personally. All you want to know is why he isn\u2019t talking to you and why he can\u2019t just confide in you. What did you do?<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s your first mistake. You didn\u2019t do anything. This is his internal problem and he is the only one who can fix it for himself.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t do anything until he takes the initiative and works on his own shit.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciategli spazio e vedrete cosa succeder\u00e0. Pensateci in questo modo.<\/p>\n<p>If you were mentally (or in any other way) struggling with something but you didn\u2019t really want to talk about it, how would it make you feel if he invaded your personal space and didn\u2019t give you a second to figure it out by yourself?<\/p>\n<p>Non \u00e8 cos\u00ec bello, vero? Quindi, tenetelo a mente ogni volta che volete tormentarlo con domande e metterlo inutilmente sotto pressione.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re going to give him space, try to respect that, and let him come to you when <i>lui<\/i> \u00e8 pronto.<\/p>\n<p>Credetemi, la cosa peggiore che possa accadere \u00e8 spingerlo a fare cose per cui non \u00e8 pronto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t chase after him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78428 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg\" alt=\"vista laterale di una donna con i capelli legati in piedi accanto alla finestra e che guarda fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s the point? If he\u2019s going to find his way back, he\u2019s going to do it on his own.<\/p>\n<p>If he chooses someone else, it is okay as well. Love can&#8217;t be forced, so why try in the first place?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make him feel suffocated and pressured into making a decision before he\u2019s ready.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t spend so much time focusing on him. I know a lot of women do this, but I am begging you not to do it. Trust me, it won&#8217;t bring you where you want to be. Just do your own thing in your own space.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t resort to any grand gestures or ways to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/come-attirare-la-sua-attenzione-7-metodi-comprovati-che-funzionano-sempre\/\">attirare la sua attenzione<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>That is below you. You know him better than anyone, so you know how that\u2019s going to make him feel.<\/p>\n<p>Tenete la testa alta e le speranze ancora pi\u00f9 alte.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel like texting him, just think about it. Will it help you to make him run into your arms? I don&#8217;t think so.<\/p>\n<p>Inseguirlo far\u00e0 il contrario di ci\u00f2 che volete. Lo allontaner\u00e0 ancora di pi\u00f9 e quindi \u00e8 molto improbabile che voglia <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/20-segnali-inequivocabili-del-ritorno-del-vostro-ex\/\">tornare<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make yourself seem desperate and incapable of being on your own.<\/p>\n<p>Non \u00e8 una caratteristica attraente e per un po' di tempo dovreste stare bene da soli.<\/p>\n<p>Just leave the situation as it is, and don\u2019t try to impact the way things turn out. It\u2019s not up to you.<\/p>\n<p>Just have faith he\u2019ll come back to you, and keep yourself preoccupied in the process. Trust me, no contact is what both of you need right now!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quit thinking you\u2019re losing him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78433 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che guarda il suo telefono durante la notte a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s stronger than you and that it\u2019s hard to control the scenarios your mind creates. But that is the worst thing that you can do now.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s daunting, imagining what he\u2019s up to and what he\u2019s doing without you, but please, quit thinking the worst.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s a fair possibility that he might leave. But giving him his guy space is a must because that is the only way he can stay alone with his thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>La sua scelta di rimanere da solo \u00e8, purtroppo, un possibile risultato di questa situazione, e voi dovete essere preparati a questo. Ma non c'\u00e8 nulla di definitivo.<\/p>\n<p>That is merely the worst case scenario, and guess what? You\u2019ll survive if it comes to it!<\/p>\n<p>Se continuate a entrare in modalit\u00e0 panico, potrebbe trattarsi solo delle vostre paure che salgono in superficie e hanno la meglio su di voi.<\/p>\n<p>It is normal to fear losing your partner, but just because it scares you, doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/cose-la-dipendenza-emotiva-10-modi-per-superarla-con-successo\/\">superarlo.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t help but be a complete and total wreck, perhaps this is not the healthiest relationship for you. Just think about that.<\/p>\n<p>True love doesn\u2019t make you feel nauseated. It doesn\u2019t create twisted scenarios in your head and play <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/mi-rifiuto-di-essere-vittima-dei-vostri-giochi-mentali\/\">giochi mentali<\/a> con voi.<\/p>\n<p>And most importantly, love doesn\u2019t make you feel insecure. It makes you feel safe, protected, and secure in what you have.<\/p>\n<p>Se vi sentite male quando c'\u00e8 e quando non c'\u00e8, significa che non \u00e8 quello giusto per voi. Forse sareste molto pi\u00f9 felici con qualcun altro.<\/p>\n<p>Even during a \u201ctimeout,\u201d you wouldn\u2019t be going through this.<\/p>\n<p>Think about that while you\u2019re on your own and try to figure out what it is that\u2019s really scaring you.<\/p>\n<p>E ricordate che siete voi a gestire la vostra vita e potete prendere tutte le decisioni che ritenete giuste.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Spostare l'energia verso se stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78422 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside.jpg\" alt=\"vista posteriore donna che allarga le mani all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ripensare continuamente a questa situazione nella vostra testa vi svuoter\u00e0 di tutte le energie e della positivit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Thinking about the reasons why men pull away won&#8217;t help you to bring your man back.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re going to be left jaded and frustrated. Stop while you\u2019re still you! Focus on yourself. Your world is so much bigger than that one person!<\/p>\n<p>I know he\u2019s not just anyone and he\u2019s extremely important to you, but so are many other people, yourself included!<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re giving him space, do the same for yourself. Don&#8217;t contact him, don&#8217;t send text messages and don&#8217;t go to places he might be.<\/p>\n<p>Try to find what it is that keeps you happy when he\u2019s not around.<\/p>\n<p>Scoprite quali sono le vostre passioni e da dove viene la vostra voglia di vivere.<\/p>\n<p>Concentratevi sui vostri sentimenti. Lavorate per mettervi nel posto pi\u00f9 sano possibile dal punto di vista mentale ed emotivo.<\/p>\n<p>Try to just close your eyes, wash those worries away, and appreciate what\u2019s around you.<\/p>\n<p>Trascorrete il tempo libero con i vostri migliori amici e concentratevi di pi\u00f9 su di loro e su voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s really easy to be happy; all you need to do is give it a shot! He is special, and he is amazing, but so are you, and so is the rest of your world.<\/p>\n<p>Trova <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/entertainment\/qual-e-la-chiave-della-vostra-felicita\/\">la vostra felicit\u00e0 <\/a>in altri luoghi e vi sentirete improvvisamente un milione di chili pi\u00f9 leggeri.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Qualunque cosa accada, sappiate che starete bene.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78423 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out.jpg\" alt=\"donna carina seduta in un caff\u00e8 e guardando fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Remember all those things you didn\u2019t think you\u2019d ever survive? Well, look at you now! Alive, healthy, and thriving! This is the exact same thing.<\/p>\n<p>It may seem like losing him could be the end of the world, but it\u2019s really not.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you did lose him, you\u2019d find your way back to happiness again.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s important to know is that you do not need another person to feel whole.<\/p>\n<p>Hai solo bisogno di un po' di spazio per organizzare i tuoi pensieri e di lasciargli un po' di spazio per gli uomini. Credetemi, questo \u00e8 il miglior consiglio che possiate ricevere in materia di relazioni.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re already a complete, functioning human being all by yourself. Nothing can change that.<\/p>\n<p>Once you are able to be happy and fulfilled when you\u2019re on your own, only then will you be truly ready for whatever may come your way.<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re waiting to see if he can find his way back to you, keep your thoughts positive.<\/p>\n<p>Siete voi i responsabili della vostra vita e solo voi potete sentirvi bene nella vostra pelle.<\/p>\n<p>Make yourself aware that you\u2019ve already survived so much, and you can handle this as well.<\/p>\n<p>So if he chooses a different path, you\u2019ll be ready and able to cope with it in a healthy way.<\/p>\n<p>And if he comes back, you\u2019ll know that you don\u2019t <i>necessit\u00e0<\/i> lui perch\u00e9 tu sia felice, ma ti piace che lui ti mantenga cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Have faith that things always end up the way they\u2019re supposed to<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78420 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane ragazza triste seduta da sola su una pietra all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Just because he seems perfect and your relationship is making you so happy, doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that he is perfect for <i>voi<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>Pu\u00f2 ancora essere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-bellezza-di-incontrare-un-bravo-ragazzo-dopo-una-relazione-tossica\/\">un bravo ragazzo<\/a>non va bene per voi. Abbiate fiducia che le cose si risolveranno per il meglio.<\/p>\n<p>If he can\u2019t seem to find his way back and decides to break it off with you, have some faith that this is how it\u2019s supposed to be.<\/p>\n<p>A guy who is right for you would never leave and decide that you\u2019re not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-si-puo-perdere-luomo-che-e-destinato-ad-essere-tuo\/\">destinato ad essere<\/a> together, don\u2019t you think?<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t control how a person feels. When he\u2019s not where you are, it\u2019s only fair to let him go.<\/p>\n<p>Let him find what\u2019s right for him, and give yourself a chance to find somebody who will never leave.<\/p>\n<p>Right now, it\u2019s difficult to see this as a fact because you are too emotionally invested, but one day down the line, you\u2019re going to realize that this was in fact true.<\/p>\n<p>When enough time has passed, and when you\u2019re with somebody new who can appreciate you and make you feel secure, you\u2019re going to see how you\u2019re supposed to feel beside the one who\u2019s right for you.<\/p>\n<p>And then, you\u2019ll never let your mind play tricks on you again. People who are meant to be will always gravitate towards each other.<\/p>\n<p>Una grande relazione \u00e8 difficile da sviluppare, quindi dovreste avere abbastanza pazienza se volete essere felici in amore.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You can\u2019t change how somebody feels, no matter how hard you try<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78440 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-sitting-beside-man-on-a-park-bench.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata seduta accanto a un uomo su una panchina del parco\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\"><\/p>\n<p>If your man is going through some serious issues and he is really taking his time, accept that you can\u2019t just change how he feels.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t interrogate him about why men pull away and why he is acting like that.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 l'unico che ha il potere di far sentire meglio se stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Ha solo bisogno di un po' di spazio per organizzare i suoi pensieri e capire cosa fare dopo.<\/p>\n<p>Alcuni ragazzi affrontano questo tipo di problemi al liceo, mentre altri li affrontano quando sono completamente maturi.<\/p>\n<p>It sucks, and it\u2019s so frustrating, but all you can really do is just give him space, take a step back, and hope it all works out in your favor.<\/p>\n<p>Spero che tu riesca a riconquistare il tuo uomo e che non debba mai pi\u00f9 vivere una situazione simile.<\/p>\n<p>But at the same time, if things just don\u2019t go the way you want them to, that is okay, too.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes things need to fall apart in order for you to see what\u2019s really <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/le-vibrazioni-non-mentono-se-senti-che-non-e-giusto-per-te-probabilmente-non-lo-e\/\">giusto per voi<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>A volte, lasciare andare ci\u00f2 che sembra buono per voi \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno per vederlo per quello che \u00e8 realmente.<\/p>\n<p>Never force anything. That is not the foundation upon which you want to base your relationship. If it\u2019s not working out, let it go.<\/p>\n<p>Mentre siete impegnati a trovare il modo di farlo tornare, la vita vi passa davanti.<\/p>\n<p>Open your eyes to it, and you just might find what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n<p>Che senso ha avere un ottimo rapporto con un'altra persona quando si ha un ottimo rapporto con se stessi?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Chiedetevi che tipo di relazione volete davvero<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78427 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"vista laterale di una bella donna seduta su un tavolo con un computer portatile\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il tipo di ragazzo che ha bisogno di molto spazio \u00e8 qualcuno con cui volete davvero stare?<\/p>\n<p>Vi piace come vi fa sentire stare con una persona che non \u00e8 sicura di voi e del tempo che passate insieme? Pensateci un attimo.<\/p>\n<p>Giving him space is a noble gesture, and sometimes it\u2019s what\u2019s needed, but if he is taking his time, and he demands space more than just that one time, is he really somebody you want to be with?<\/p>\n<p>Is it possible that maybe you\u2019re just not right for each other? That does not have to be the case at all, but if it\u2019s in the least bit possible, it\u2019s worth thinking about.<\/p>\n<p>Che tipo di uomo sta cercando? Lo vedi in lui?<\/p>\n<p>Se la risposta \u00e8 s\u00ec, allora aspettatelo e mantenete la vostra fede.<\/p>\n<p>But if he is leaving you uncomfortable and insecure, perhaps you\u2019re not as happy as you\u2019d like while <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/if-you-have-to-bend-over-backward-to-be-with-him-hes-not-the-one\/\">essere con lui<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Esaminate le vostre opzioni, chiedetevi cosa volete da una relazione e perseguite esattamente questo obiettivo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Trascorrere del tempo con persone che vi rendono felici<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78425 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie.jpg\" alt=\"Gruppo di amici sorridenti che si scattano un selfie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 l'occasione perfetta per trascorrere del tempo di qualit\u00e0 con coloro che rendono la vostra vita un po' migliore e vi fanno ridere un po' di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t forget about your family and friends. While he is searching for his way back, you focus on other people that you cherish in life.<\/p>\n<p>Go on a night out with your besties, and put your worries to the side! Go visit your family if they don\u2019t leave nearby, and spend a weekend unwinding with them.<\/p>\n<p>Fate una piacevole passeggiata in citt\u00e0, sedetevi in un parco e leggete un buon libro.<\/p>\n<p>Ma qualsiasi cosa facciate, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-7-peggiori-messaggi-di-testo-da-inviargli-durante-un-litigio\/\">don&#8217;t send him any text messages<\/a> quando si rimane da soli. Questo roviner\u00e0 tutto.<\/p>\n<p>E s\u00ec, questo \u00e8 un consiglio che tutti gli allenatori di relazioni consigliano, il che lo rende uno dei migliori consigli sulle relazioni.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-un-vecchio-amico-ti-contatta-allimprovviso\/\">Ritrovare i vecchi amici<\/a> you may have neglected a bit. You\u2019ll see how little it takes to just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-persona-giusta-non-ti-fara-passare-linferno-per-essere-felice-2\/\">essere felici<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>And then, whatever he decides, you\u2019ll be able to handle it all right, knowing you have an amazing support system around you that\u2019s not going to let you wander in sorrow.<\/p>\n<p>Questo vi ricorder\u00e0 anche quanto siete amati e quanto le persone tengono a voi.<\/p>\n<p>La vostra autostima torner\u00e0 al top e la vostra anima semplicemente fiorir\u00e0.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78424 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Dagli spazio: 12 modi per evitare la paura di perderlo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Want to know how to give him space but not risk losing him in the process? You\u2019re in the right place. Just like in any real, long-term romantic relationship, there might come a time in yours where things suddenly just seem to be off. He may start acting distant, things that normally seemed fine are&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":78437,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34990","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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