{"id":35126,"date":"2019-04-08T07:34:59","date_gmt":"2019-04-08T07:34:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35126"},"modified":"2022-02-10T12:13:36","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T12:13:36","slug":"lasciarsi-e-difficile-da-fare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lasciarsi-e-difficile-da-fare\/","title":{"rendered":"Lasciarsi \u00e8 difficile da fare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ending a relationship is never easy, and the days, weeks, or even months leading up to letting go can be pretty rough. Some situations are easier to break free from than others, but if you\u2019ve been with someone for a long time and your heart is invested, it\u2019s never simple.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

However, even if you have been with this person for a long time, sometimes you feel like it\u2019s headed south or there\u2019s just no future, and you just know it\u2019s time to cut your losses. After all, your soulmate may be waiting once you make it to the other side!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quindi, come si fa a farlo? Come si pu\u00f2 abbandonare una relazione con grazia? <\/b><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

While you probably won\u2019t walk away without some strife, there are certain things you can do to make things go a bit more smoothly. Here\u2019s some tips for letting go.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Attenzione alle parole.<\/b> We\u2019ve all heard the sticks and stones saying, but words can cut deep. And, once they leave your lips, there\u2019s no turning back.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you want to make a separation go as smoothly as possible, don\u2019t stoop so low that you end up saying things you don\u2019t mean or will regret later on. Even if you feel a certain way about someone and what you think of them is hurtful, it\u2019s best to keep it to yourself. Inciting a verbal battle with someone will only complicate the situation.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ma, mantenete la vostra posizione.<\/b> Even if you take the high road, there\u2019s no telling what the other person will do. We can only control our own actions and reactions.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, if your soon-to-be-ex starts verbally diminishing you, be the bigger person. Stand firm, let them know that you don\u2019t appreciate how they\u2019re handling things, and refuse to reciprocate. If your partner insists on belittling you, this should only further justify your decision to sever ties.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t lose control.<\/b> Minding your words and refusing to provoke an argument are much easier said than done. And, holding in pain and resentment is not going tough\u2014it\u2019s unhealthy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But you\u2019ll have to learn how to take out any anger in a positive way. Hit the gym, journal, meditate, or go out with friends and chat all you want about your situation.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Just don\u2019t lose control and start tossing out his things, burning pictures, or doing anything else so extreme it will come back to haunt you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lasciateli stare.<\/b> Se state scegliendo di porre fine a una relazione<\/a>, you\u2019ll have to give the other person some space. This shouldn\u2019t be a game, and neither of you should treat it like one. If you are living together and they want to move out, let them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Go spend some time with friends or family while they gather their things. Or, you could choose to hit the road yourself, depending on your specific situation. If they stop communicating, don\u2019t desperately pick up the phone. It\u2019s hard, but you\u2019ll have to resist, and let the break-up run its course.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s also probably best to stop communicating altogether for a while to give things a chance to cool off even if you two decide to remain friends.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

There are some post-break-up stages you\u2019ll likely want to go through on your own, particularly if either of you decided to enter into a new romance. You have to reconnect with yourself first.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Non fate mai paragoni con voi stessi.<\/b> If you find out your ex is dating someone new, remember, it\u2019s someone new. Don\u2019t compare yourself to her, because she will never be you and vice versa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Everyone is different, no one is perfect, and the worst thing you can do is start to analyze every little thing about this new bond, trying to determine what she has that you don\u2019t. It\u2019s simply a waste of time. Focus on yourself and getting to the point where you want to be before moving forward.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Breaking up with someone, no matter how much time you\u2019ve spent together, is never easy.<\/b> Assicuratevi di circondarvi di una rete di amici e familiari che vi sostengano e dedicate del tempo a guarire dall'interno.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Make sure you focus enough time on yourself, quietly self-reflecting on where you\u2019ve been, where you are, and where you\u2019re headed before jumping into a new partnership. Be good to yourself, stay true to your values, and know \u2013 this too shall pass.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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