{"id":35144,"date":"2019-04-08T09:25:57","date_gmt":"2019-04-08T09:25:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35144"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:22:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:22:18","slug":"superare-lignoto-per-far-durare-la-vostra-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/superare-lignoto-per-far-durare-la-vostra-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Superare l'ignoto per far durare la vostra relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Forse la cosa pi\u00f9 temuta nell'intraprendere una nuova relazione \u00e8 l'inevitabilit\u00e0 di incertezza<\/em>.<\/b> And yet it\u2019s a natural part of every relationship, romantic or not, and therefore unavoidable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you feel like you need some direct answers as to why you and your partner aren\u2019t gelling, you\u2019re sick of trying to read his mind all the time, or you can\u2019t understand why you two aren\u2019t communicating as you should, you\u2019re certainly not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The question is \u2013 how can you get what you need from this connection and from your partner without pulling away?<\/b> Spesso, quando ci sentiamo frustrati, inavvertitamente prendiamo le distanze e finiamo per ferire la persona a cui teniamo, magari in modo permanente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se ci sentiamo a disagio nell'esprimere ci\u00f2 di cui abbiamo bisogno, non farlo affatto non \u00e8 certo la soluzione.<\/b> There are effective ways to manage difficult conversations, so your bond can grow stronger rather than abruptly dissolving. Don\u2019t let doubt take over. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imparate a essere assertivi senza essere eccessivamente aggressivi, in modo da creare fiducia nell'accoppiamento e resistere anche nei momenti pi\u00f9 difficili.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le relazioni, per loro stessa natura, possono essere spaventose.<\/b> Possono scatenare una montagna russa di emozioni. La paura di perdere l'indipendenza, di spezzare il cuore, di perdere se stessi o il proprio partner nel processo, sono tutte molto reali. Questo perch\u00e9 non si pu\u00f2 controllare un'altra persona. Si ha il controllo solo su se stessi e sulla propria met\u00e0 del tutto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Learning to set boundaries is vital so others understand what you are willing to accept and what you\u2019re not without being too forceful and pushing away.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important to remember that no one, yourself included, is perfect, and you can\u2019t expect to change anyone over time. Never enter into a relationship thinking you\u2019ll be able to \u201cfix\u201d your partner\u2019s flaws and everything will \u201ceventually\u201d be perfect. That\u2019s simply not the case. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If there are things in the very beginning that you would consider to be red flags, walk away. Those things that gave you pause at the start aren\u2019t likely to simply dissipate with time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si pu\u00f2 smettere di essere ossessionati dall'ignoto migliorando la comunicazione, invece di allontanarsi ogni volta che si percepisce una brutta sensazione dall'altra persona.<\/b> There may be things that come up which don\u2019t sit well with you but aren\u2019t necessarily significant enough to justify throwing in the towel. These are the things that can improve with healthy interaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

By learning to stand your ground while being willing to listen to your partner\u2019s side of the story and remaining open to compromise, you can build a solid foundation. This way you\u2019re not always walking away, left alone, trying to figure out when that perfect person might show up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important to make time for some self-reflection, too. If you are always the one walking away feeling defeated and as if you\u2019ll never find someone who will make you happy, you have to try to understand where this perspective is coming from. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siate onesti con voi stessi e disposti a riconoscere gli schemi malsani su cui potete lavorare per migliorare la vostra vita sentimentale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019ve recently entered into a new relationship and are having second thoughts, take the time to reflect on your current relationship and what you like and dislike about it. You can ask yourself the following to see if your connection is worth hanging onto or if it\u2019s truly not right for you:
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cosa provo per questa persona? Tengo veramente a lui?
Sono la persona giusta per lui?
Voglio renderlo felice?
Quando questa persona \u00e8 felice, mi rende felice a mia volta?
Do I miss him when he\u2019s gone?
Posso fidarmi di lui?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you have genuine feelings for this person but are still feeling as if you should walk away, ask yourself what\u2019s missing. What\u2019s lacking? What could be improved?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se pensate di poter migliorare le cose comunicando efficacemente con l'altra persona, provateci. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re stuck on something that you are not comfortable discussing, is this also something that you can live without? If not, and if your partner cannot offer it to you, maybe it truly is time to move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The bottom line is, all relationships take work, and some work better than others. However, you\u2019ll have to stay open and honest with yourself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re always walking away, wondering when you\u2019ll meet that perfect person who will make you happy indefinitely, is there something about yourself that is causing continual disappointment? A volte basta una maggiore comprensione di s\u00e9 per capire come far durare un legame.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Perhaps the most dreaded thing about entering into a new relationship is the inevitability of uncertainty. And yet it\u2019s a natural part of every relationship, romantic or not, and therefore unavoidable. If you feel like you need some direct answers as to why you and your partner aren\u2019t gelling, you\u2019re sick of trying to read…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":35162,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35144","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/adolescent-converse-all-star-converse-all-star-1021145-1024x686.jpg",1024,686,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35144","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35144"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35144\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35162"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35144"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35144"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35144"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}