{"id":35219,"date":"2019-04-09T06:48:59","date_gmt":"2019-04-09T06:48:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35219"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:45:54","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:45:54","slug":"3-metodi-intelligenti-per-superare-in-astuzia-un-narcisista-e-lasciare-la-relazione-per-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/3-metodi-intelligenti-per-superare-in-astuzia-un-narcisista-e-lasciare-la-relazione-per-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"3 metodi intelligenti per superare in astuzia un narcisista (e lasciare la relazione per sempre)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Qual \u00e8 la chiave principale per respingere un narcisista?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/e-cosi-che-ci-si-libera-per-sempre-di-uno-psicopatico-narcisista\/\">Il metodo della roccia grigia<\/a> \u2013 become as dull as dishwater.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I narcisisti sono attratti da persone compassionevoli e amorevoli, che irradiano energia e sono pieni di empatia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pi\u00f9 una persona mostra emozioni, pi\u00f9 sar\u00e0 attraente per un narcisista.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Il motivo \u00e8 molto semplice. I narcisisti hanno bisogno di essere riforniti. Hanno bisogno dell'attenzione e dell'ammirazione delle loro vittime.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s what feeds their egos and gives their lives meaning.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In altre parole, <strong><em>il narcisista usa il partner come fonte di approvvigionamento narcisistico impersonale.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L'amore non si trova in queste relazioni.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Il fatto di essere visti e percepiti come un'offerta narcisistica vi rende deboli e facili da controllare.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Only if you let someone treat you like shit will you come out as a victim, but if you play your moves smart and sneaky as they do, you\u2019ll be able to outsmart a narcissist.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L'esperienza di un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/abuso-narcisistico\/\">relazione narcisistica<\/a> is probably one of the worst things you\u2019ll live through in your life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Those people suck you dry; they steal every little emotion from you \u2013 that\u2019s the first step to gain complete control over you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quando ci riescono, vi tengono in pugno. Controllano le vostre emozioni e i vostri pensieri.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da quel momento in poi, siete il loro burattino, vi muovete dove vi dicono di muovervi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">All'inizio, pensavate di amarlo. Gli avete dato un mare di seconde possibilit\u00e0, nonostante i suoi continui tradimenti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c8 stato a causa di tutte le <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-tattiche-di-pulizia-che-i-narcisisti-utilizzano-per-prosciugare-i-loro-corpi\/\">tattiche di pulizia<\/a> e il senso di colpa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s what brought you back every time you decided to leave. But the fact is, you keep coming back until you hit rock bottom.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Finch\u00e9 avrete anche solo un po' di forza, troveranno un modo per attirarvi di nuovo nella relazione per prendervi quel poco che vi \u00e8 rimasto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Quando non avrete pi\u00f9 nulla, solo allora potrete andarvene. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>You won\u2019t be interesting anymore. You\u2019ll be dull and unimportant.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Only, you don\u2019t have to risk your sanity to<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-lasciare-un-narcisista-tutto-intero\/\"> lasciare un narcisista<\/a>. You don\u2019t have to come to your lowest point to leave.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Provate a utilizzare alcuni di questi metodi intelligenti e poco impegnativi per superare in astuzia un narcisista.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. Il metodo Gray Rock<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Il punto \u00e8 diventare davvero una roccia grigia. Una roccia cos\u00ec noiosa e poco attraente che nessuno la guarderebbe due volte.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Using the grey rock method, you\u2019ll become completely unattractive for him to interact with.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Il vostro partner violento perder\u00e0 interesse per voi e alla fine vi lascer\u00e0 da soli.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Look at it this way. Imagine him being a small boy and small boys want toys to play with \u2013 only a narc doesn\u2019t want toys because his toys are people.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gioca con le persone e con i loro sentimenti e questo ha gravi conseguenze.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In a narc\u2019s eyes, you are the same as the toy. He knows he can do whatever he wants with you because he has the authority.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pu\u00f2 creare scenari a suo piacimento e farvi ballare con la musica che suona. I Narcotici hanno il controllo totale su di voi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. Ignorarlo<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Narcissists are unable to produce emotions, that\u2019s why they feed off of yours. It\u2019s in their interest to provoke any kind of reaction from you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It doesn\u2019t matter if it\u2019s love or rage, the emotion is what counts. They need to see your reaction to their behavior.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le persone normali interpreterebbero il fatto che siete arrabbiati come qualcosa che probabilmente hanno fatto di sbagliato, ma non un narcisista.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Your every emotion, anger or happiness, they will see as love because they don\u2019t know what love is. They can\u2019t understand love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By playing their game, you\u2019re only entering deeper into their trap. Another way to get rid of a narcissist is to tell them everything to their face.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se pensate che vi stiano mentendo, chiamateli bugiardi davanti a tutti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Smettete di soddisfare le loro aspettative e di credere alle loro promesse e ai loro gesti grandiosi. \u00c8 tutta una menzogna.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E finch\u00e9 darete attenzione al loro comportamento, continueranno a fare la stessa cosa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Smettete di alimentare il loro ego facendogli credere di essere importanti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anche quando si affronta un narcisista, il lavoro non \u00e8 finito. La lotta \u00e8 appena iniziata.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you show them they won\u2019t be able to control you that easily, they will come at you with everything they\u2019ve got.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Useranno ogni tecnica subdola e ogni manipolazione possibile per riportarvi sulla loro strada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La prima cosa che faranno \u00e8 cercare di trovare un'altra vittima di cui nutrirsi. Non gli state dando abbastanza rifornimento narcisistico e loro ne hanno un gran bisogno.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They are like junkies in a desperate need of a fix. No matter what they have to do and who they have to hurt, they\u2019ll do it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If that plan fails, they will start behaving differently \u2013 they will start acting as normal people do in normal relationships.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Si scuseranno per il loro comportamento e giureranno di non farlo mai pi\u00f9. Si inginocchieranno per chiedervi perdono.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La loro paura \u00e8 reale in quel momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They are sincerely scared you\u2019re going to leave them, but not because they love you, but because they need their supply.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ignore those false emotions and don\u2019t be crazy to give them a second chance.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>3. Lodarlo<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Questo \u00e8 il metodo pi\u00f9 pericoloso e rischioso da adottare.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you really think you\u2019re able to lie like that without giving away your true intentions, then, by all means, do it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not only will you succeed, but you\u2019ll <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/come-ferire-emotivamente-un-uomo-narcisista-6-modi-efficaci-per-farlo\/\">ferire un narcisista<\/a> nel processo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Li riempite di attenzioni, date loro tutto ci\u00f2 che desiderano. Dite loro quanto sono belle, premurose e intelligenti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lie all you want, but it\u2019s crucial to stay believable, otherwise he\u2019ll put you through hell.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Allo stesso tempo, pianificate la vostra fuga. Calcolate attentamente tutto nei minimi dettagli prima di decidere di partire.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Make sure he doesn\u2019t expect you to make that move, or else &nbsp;the whole plan may go to waste.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is a way to leave a narcissist, but there isn\u2019t a way to do it without having consequences.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Qualunque cosa accada nella vostra vita dopo aver frequentato un narcisista, preparatevi a guarire e a ricominciare a credere in voi stessi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By using these methods, you\u2019ll be able to do it faster and maybe less painfully.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-35222\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T084805.809-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"3 metodi intelligenti per superare in astuzia un narcisista (e lasciare la relazione per sempre)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T084805.809-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T084805.809-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T084805.809.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is the main key to repel a narcissist? The gray rock method \u2013 become as dull as dishwater. Narcissists are attracted to compassionate and loving people, people who radiate energy and are bursting with empathy. The more emotions a person shows, the more attractive they are going to be to a narcissist. 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