{"id":35267,"date":"2020-07-09T12:55:59","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T12:55:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35267"},"modified":"2021-10-29T15:27:16","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T15:27:16","slug":"6-tratti-malvagi-che-accomunano-tutti-i-narcisisti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-tratti-malvagi-che-accomunano-tutti-i-narcisisti\/","title":{"rendered":"6 tratti malvagi che accomunano tutti i narcisisti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In order to be able to steer clear of narcissistic assholes once and for all, it\u2019s important to recognize certain traits and qualities that they all share, which will make it easier to notice them and keep away from them in future.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sometimes, it\u2019s easier to turn a blind eye and hope you\u2019ll be spared the heartbreak and deceit, but unfortunately, that\u2019s not reality most of the times.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve had the displeasure of encountering at least one guy with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/abuso-narcisistico\/\">abuso narcisistico<\/a> tendenze nella vostra vita fino a quel momento che vi hanno stravolto la vita e vi hanno fatto desiderare di non averlo mai incontrato.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><em>Sembrano essere ovunque al giorno d'oggi, e pi\u00f9 si cerca di fare attenzione e di evitarli, pi\u00f9 sembrano essere <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-reasons-many-toxic-guys-drawn\/\"><em>attratti da te<\/em><\/a><em>. It\u2019s like a vicious circle you can\u2019t get out of\u2026<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I narcisisti hanno un modo di trascinarvi nella loro rete di bugie e manipolazioni con una tale facilit\u00e0 che non potete semplicemente biasimarvi se finite per cascarci.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>All'inizio non appaiono mai come sono realmente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They wear a mask up until the moment they know they\u2019ve got you hooked, and that\u2019s when their real face is finally out in the open.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Per aiutarvi a smettere di innamorarvi di questi stronzi sociopatici, ecco le qualit\u00e0 pi\u00f9 comuni che tutti i narcisisti condividono.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Questo dovrebbe aiutarvi a riconoscerli in tempo e a risparmiarvi l'inevitabile sofferenza e il rimpianto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. They don\u2019t give a shit how they make you feel<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Provocare dolore alle persone li rende felici. Possono cercare di nasconderlo, ma raramente ci riescono.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Il narcisista non solo se ne fregher\u00e0 se le sue azioni o le sue parole vi feriscono, ma godr\u00e0 se lo faranno!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Questo \u00e8 come un carburante per loro. Pi\u00f9 vi vedono reagire negativamente a qualcosa che hanno fatto, pi\u00f9 sono felici e compiaciuti di se stessi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Spesso far\u00e0 di tutto per ferirvi, solo per potersene crogiolare.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s sick and twisted and if you notice your guy secretly doing this. Dump his conniving ass this minute.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Non si pentiranno mai delle loro azioni di merda.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Questa \u00e8 la loro area di competenza. Non importa quanto sia schifosa la cosa che fanno, si convinceranno di essere nel giusto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And in their head, they can do no wrong, because they\u2019re simply better than you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Regardless of how negatively it has affected you or anyone else, they don\u2019t believe in apologies and they will never show any signs of regret for how they make you feel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And if you ever do hear \u201csorry\u201d from them, it\u2019s going to be the fakest apology you\u2019ve ever heard!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They\u2019ll make sure you notice how much they don\u2019t mean it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. They\u2019re like a ticking time bomb (you never know when they\u2019ll go off!)<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Nel profondo, i narcisisti sono estremamente vulnerabili, nel senso che la pi\u00f9 piccola cosa potrebbe turbarli oltre ogni dire e mandarli su tutte le furie.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They may seem calm and collected on the surface, but one wrong word, and they\u2019ll go off on you like crazy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You\u2019re always left wondering if the next thing you say or do is going to be that thing that sets them off and you\u2019re always secretly afraid because you don\u2019t know how badly they\u2019re going to react.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They have so much pent-up anger inside that it\u2019s never safe upsetting them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>E se pensate di andarvene, sapete bene quanto questo potrebbe farli impazzire, quindi assecondate quello che dicono e cercate di farli felici a vostre spese.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Fanno un gran parlare di tutto<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They are known to believe they are better than anyone else, but just in case, they\u2019ll make up stories that will make them appear that way and convince you of it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They are masters of manipulation and they can turn any story into an event of a lifetime, intriguing you so much that you\u2019ll actually believe it\u2019s true, which it rarely is.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Hanno bisogno di avere il proprio ego sempre in alto e di mantenere alto il loro senso di autostima, quindi spesso esagerano per mantenere la farsa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Vi fanno sentire inutili e incapaci di fare qualcosa di buono.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>As if it\u2019s not already a complete nightmare being around them, they will go out of their way to point out what a useless piece of shit you are and bury you deeper in self-pity and despair.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Per quanto ci si sforzi di compiacere il narcisista, nulla di ci\u00f2 che si fa \u00e8 giusto e anche se lo \u00e8, non lo ammetter\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Tutto ci\u00f2 che fanno \u00e8 farvi sentire come se nulla di ci\u00f2 che fate fosse sufficiente, e questo solo perch\u00e9 hanno bisogno di tenervi con s\u00e9.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If they made you feel good about yourself, they would risk giving you the courage and confidence to realize you\u2019re better than that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>So they keep you feeling like shit to make you stay, knowing you can\u2019t find better than them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Controllano segretamente tutto ci\u00f2 che fate<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sono estremamente manipolatori e non c'\u00e8 nulla che possiate fare senza prima sottoporglielo. &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ti fanno sentire in colpa se fai programmi con i tuoi amici senza consultarli, cos\u00ec finisci sempre per chiedere il permesso per le cose pi\u00f9 casuali.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You can\u2019t get out of the house without telling them exactly where you\u2019ll be and with whom, and even then, you need to check in with them hourly.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Vi sentite intrappolati e controllati, ma temete che se vi opponete a loro non farete altro che peggiorare la situazione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You are basically under their control, and you don\u2019t see the light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Se questa \u00e8 la vostra realt\u00e0 e riconoscete uno di questi tratti crudeli, avete a che fare con un maestro manipolatore con tendenze narcisistiche e dovete scappare il prima possibile.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Don\u2019t be afraid to ask for help, and do whatever is best for you. Good luck!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-35276\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T151324.306-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"6 tratti malvagi che accomunano tutti i narcisisti\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T151324.306-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T151324.306-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T151324.306.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In order to be able to steer clear of narcissistic assholes once and for all, it\u2019s important to recognize certain traits and qualities that they all share, which will make it easier to notice them and keep away from them in future. Sometimes, it\u2019s easier to turn a blind eye and hope you\u2019ll be spared&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":35268,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35267","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/backlight-backlit-dawn-1204135.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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