{"id":35296,"date":"2019-04-10T07:50:07","date_gmt":"2019-04-10T07:50:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35296"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:20:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:20:14","slug":"non-temere-le-sue-parole-temere-il-suo-silenzio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-temere-le-sue-parole-temere-il-suo-silenzio\/","title":{"rendered":"Non temere le sue parole, temere il suo silenzio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Da sempre, questa ragazza non \u00e8 stata solo la tua amante e la tua partner romantica. Si \u00e8 sempre comportata anche come la vostra migliore amica.
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She\u2019s been one of the rare honest people in your life, the one who\u2019s never had a problem calling you out on your actions and telling you the harsh truth. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quella che ha sempre creduto che ci fosse qualcosa di buono in te e che ha fatto del suo meglio perch\u00e9 quel bene prevalesse.
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Da sempre, questa ragazza ha cercato di <\/strong>salvarti<\/strong><\/a> da se stessi.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She hoped that she\u2019d be the one to inspire you to become better, the one whose love will make you change.
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She\u2019s been the only one who fought for you, even if that meant fighting against you.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quello che non ha mai pensato di arrendersi e di lasciarti in sospeso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quella che era pronta a smuovere le montagne per te, anche se tu non hai mai mosso un dito per lei.
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Quella che ti ha dato tutta se stessa, senza chiedere nulla in cambio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La ragazza che aveva sempre l'energia per spiegarti dove sbagliavi, la ragazza che lottava con i tuoi demoni e la ragazza che cercava di allontanarti dalla tua oscurit\u00e0. <\/strong>
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However, instead of appreciating all of her effort, the truth is that she\u2019s been annoying the hell out of you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

After all, you\u2019re a grown-ass man, and you don\u2019t need her telling you what to do.
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You don\u2019t need someone nagging you and questioning your every move. You don\u2019t need someone calling you all the time and worrying about nonsense. Someone who yells and argues with you about every little thing.
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Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014one of these days, she\u2019ll have had enough. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of these days, she\u2019ll give you exactly what you want<\/strong>\u2014she\u2019ll leave you alone, and <\/strong>lei se ne andr\u00e0<\/strong><\/a> da voi, per non tornare mai pi\u00f9.<\/strong>
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Tuttavia, you won\u2019t be happy and relieved. <\/strong>Instead, you\u2019ll be sadder than you\u2019ve ever been. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E you\u2019ll miss each one of these things that were getting on your nerves.<\/strong>
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Uno di questi giorni, le sue parole si trasformeranno in silenzio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Suddenly, you won\u2019t have anyone patiently waiting for you to come home and anyone worrying sick if you\u2019re alright.
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There won\u2019t be any more of her paragraph-long text messages, any more missed calls. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Basta con le sue esplosioni di gelosia e con le sue paure di perdervi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Basta con le sue lacrime, basta con le sue suppliche per farti rinsavire e basta con le seconde possibilit\u00e0.
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One of these days, this girl will stop making excuses for your crappy behavior, and finally, she\u2019ll turn her back on you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She won\u2019t have any more time for your false promises and for your lies.
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Suddenly, she\u2019ll be OK with whatever you do.<\/strong> Nothing will bother her, and she\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re not worthy of her trouble. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That you\u2019re not worthy of her sleepless nights and of all the years she\u2019s wasted, waiting for you to Mettetevi d'accordo<\/a>.
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Just like that, you\u2019ll see that she no longer cares. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Che all of the pain you\u2019ve caused her managed to kill all the love she felt for you and turn it into indifference.<\/strong>
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No, this won\u2019t be one of her tactics to scare you. She won\u2019t pretend that she\u2019s stopped loving you just so you\u2019d realize that you are losing her. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

She won\u2019t walk away just so you\u2019d start chasing her.
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This time, it will really be over. And that is when you\u2019ll understand everything, when you\u2019ll realize that all of this time, you were the one who needed her and not the other way around.<\/strong>
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That is when everything she\u2019s been trying to tell you will find its way to your heart and mind. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019ll understand that she loved you like no other, and you should have treated her differently while you still had the chance to do so. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When this happens, you\u2019ll be completely crushed and devastated, and you\u2019ll be ready to do whatever it takes to have all of the parts you thought you didn\u2019t like about her back. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, no, you shouldn\u2019t be worried about this girl leaving you as long as she is investing her time and energy in you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, once her words turn into silence, know that you\u2019re gone from her heart from good, and there is nothing you will be able to do to change that. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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For as long as you can remember, this girl was not just your lover and romantic partner. She always acted like your best friend as well. She\u2019s been one of the rare honest people in your life, the one who\u2019s never had a problem calling you out on your actions and telling you the harsh…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":35297,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/StockSnap_Q2S0SPEI4C-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35296"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35296\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}