Ci vuole molta energia, pazienza e fede per superare una rottura cos\u00ec traumatica, soprattutto quando si tratta della persona intorno alla quale si \u00e8 progettata tutta la vita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La parte pi\u00f9 stancante del processo di superamento di lui \u00e8 rappresentata dalle sue incessanti suppliche di riprenderlo.
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He\u2019ll faithfully promise it was merely a lapse in judgement that meant less than nothing and he would never dream of doing it again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As if it wasn\u2019t difficult enough as it is, now you have to fight your persistent urge to forgive him because you just don\u2019t want to stop loving him. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n E chi pu\u00f2 biasimarvi!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Fino a poco tempo fa, era il vostro mondo. <\/em> Era <\/em>il tuo migliore amico<\/em><\/a>, your rock, and the person you could laugh for hours on end with\u2026 <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n And now, he\u2019s just somebody you barely recognize anymore, but don\u2019t want to let go of.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019ve recently been cheated on and you\u2019re contemplating taking him back, I feel you. I really do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s truly devastating letting go of somebody who means that much to you, but sometimes, even though you can\u2019t see it at the time, that is exactly what you should do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Avrei voluto sapere alcune cose prima di perdonare il mio ex traditore<\/a> and went back into that emotional turmoil, but trust me, it\u2019s never the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Learn from somebody who\u2019s been through the wringer, and let my mistakes help you make the best decision for yourself. Ecco tutte le cose di cui dovete essere consapevoli prima di decidere di riprenderlo. If you forgive him and decide to take him back, at first, it\u2019s going to feel like pure bliss. <\/p>\n\n\n\n He\u2019ll be on his absolute best behaviour and he\u2019ll make amends every chance he gets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vi riempir\u00e0 di amore, affetto e gratitudine e vi sentirete come una regina. You will be able to temporarily ignore the cold fact that he did in fact cheat on you. You\u2019ll try to put it behind you, and for a while, you\u2019ll succeed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ma poi un giorno torner\u00e0 strisciante. He\u2019s going to say something or do something that\u2019s immediately going to take you back to the day you found out, and you will remember what he\u2019s capable of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019ll try to ignore it, but it won\u2019t be possible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ti ha dato per scontata, ha deciso di andare a letto con un'altra donna<\/a>, and you\u2019ll never be able to fully forgive and forget, no matter how hard you\u2019ll want to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019ll actively try to move on and stop focusing on what he did. You may even consider therapy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019ll do whatever it takes and you will truly try to move past this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But the thing is, it\u2019s always going to be in the back of your head. <\/p>\n\n\n\n When you walk down the street and he merely glances at another woman passing by, you\u2019ll be pissed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He\u2019ll be texting somebody, and all you\u2019ll be able to think about is who the other person is and if he\u2019s making a fool out of you again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nessuna terapia riuscir\u00e0 a farvi dimenticare, e la paranoia e la rabbia saranno sempre presenti. Learning to live with this is a long, draining process that doesn\u2019t always work, and sometimes, that ends up being for the best.<\/p>\n\n\n\n At times, you\u2019ll wonder what she looks like. Is she prettier, thinner, or younger than you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Is she more easy-going and carefree? Does she make him laugh like you can\u2019t? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Or is she simply a beast in the sheets that you just can\u2019t compete with?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tutte queste domande vi balzeranno in testa e vi renderanno insicuri al massimo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s going to be exhausting as hell comparing yourself to his ragazza laterale<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019ll hate it that he made you so weak and self-conscious, but it\u2019s going to be your reality whether you like it or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You won\u2019t be able to get her out of your head. You\u2019ll try to find out her name, where she lives, and whatever else you can get your hands on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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<\/p>\n\n\n\n1. I problemi del passato non smetteranno mai di tormentarvi (per quanto li ignoriate).<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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<\/p>\n\n\n\n2. Getting past his infidelity is going to be hard work and it won\u2019t happen overnight<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
<\/p>\n\n\n\n3. Le vostre insicurezze stanno per venire a galla.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
4. The fact that \u201cthe other woman\u201d is still out there somewhere will be torture<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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