{"id":35354,"date":"2019-04-11T09:52:17","date_gmt":"2019-04-11T09:52:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35354"},"modified":"2022-01-10T23:58:04","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T23:58:04","slug":"queste-4-convinzioni-tossiche-sono-cio-che-vi-impedisce-di-trovare-lamore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/queste-4-convinzioni-tossiche-sono-cio-che-vi-impedisce-di-trovare-lamore\/","title":{"rendered":"Queste 4 convinzioni tossiche sono ci\u00f2 che vi impedisce di trovare l'amore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ogni coppia al mondo ha i suoi problemi. Non lasciatevi ingannare dai post sui social media. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Una foto \u00e8 un momento nel tempo, ma una relazione vera e propria \u00e8 un impegno molto pi\u00f9 lungo.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So don\u2019t be too hard on yourself. Everybody out there is just trying to make it work to the best of their ability.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Alcuni hanno successo, altri finiscono per intraprendere la strada pi\u00f9 difficile.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But at the end of the day, we\u2019re all in the same boat, and when it comes to love, we all struggle.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nessuno \u00e8 immune dall'autoironia e da un'occasionale perdita di fiducia nell'idea di amore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Even that one couple that seems to have it all, I assure you, they don\u2019t.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nessuno si lava i panni sporchi in pubblico, e ci\u00f2 che si vede non \u00e8 sempre la realt\u00e0<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Keep that in mind the next time you feel everybody\u2019s got their shit figured out but you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re struggling con la ricerca dell'amore<\/a> and you\u2019re being too harsh on yourself, please don\u2019t. If you\u2019re not kind to yourself, how can you expect somebody else to be?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cancellate i pensieri tossici che vi affliggono in questo momento e cercate di dare un'impronta pi\u00f9 positiva alla vostra situazione, perch\u00e9 le cose migliorano.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

La vostra situazione attuale non \u00e8 la vostra destinazione finale!<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Decidete subito di cambiare la vostra mentalit\u00e0 e di togliervi dalla testa queste 4 convinzioni tossiche, perch\u00e9 sono l'unica cosa che vi impedisce di trovare l'amore!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Non siete degni di amore<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Indovinate un po'? S\u00ec, sei tu!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re only human, so cut yourself some slack. We can all be a bit selfish, impatient, and rash.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tutti commettiamo errori e decisioni sbagliate che incasinano la nostra vita.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But we also know that nobody is perfect, and neither are you. But that doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t deserve to find your amore vero<\/a>! Davvero!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once you realize that everybody just wings it most of the time and nobody really knows what the fuck they\u2019re doing, you\u2019re going to see that you\u2019re doing so much better than you actually think you are.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Fai schifo come fidanzata<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Okay, so you may have had a few failed relationships\u2026 but, who hasn\u2019t?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Name one person you know that has it all figured out and hasn\u2019t once fucked up their relationship. I\u2019ll wait.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can\u2019t, can you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That\u2019s because being perfect is a myth and has nothing to do with actual reality! We are all deeply flawed.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

We all tend to screw up every now and again, but that doesn\u2019t mean we suck at relationships.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

All it means is that we\u2019re all learning as we go, and the same goes for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you don\u2019t feel like you\u2019re good at relationships, you probably haven\u2019t met a guy that\u2019s right for you yet.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Con l'uomo giusto<\/a>, you\u2019re not going to feel like a failure, trust me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t let a bad relationship and an ill-fit boyfriend convince you otherwise.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. If it\u2019s not simple and easy, it\u2019s not worth the bother<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that\u2019s where you\u2019d be wrong. Nothing good and worthy in this life will ever come easy. When has it ever?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Everything that\u2019s going to make a dent in your life for the better is going to require some hardships and challenging days.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But just because it takes a lot of effort to get to that place, doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It means that once you get past all the difficult stuff, you\u2019re going to enjoy it that much more profoundly.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Fight for things that matter to you. Never give up at the first sign of trouble because if you do, you\u2019re never going to get to your happy place.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t be afraid of a challenge. Embrace it, work on it, and never give up if you can\u2019t go a day without thinking about it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. There\u2019s nobody out there for you<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If I had a nickel every time I thought that, it\u2019d be swimming in dough.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Everybody goes through a rough patch where it seems like you\u2019ve tried everything and there\u2019s simply nobody out there for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re not even sure if it\u2019s worth putting yourself out there anymore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But it is! There are so many people in this world that it\u2019s simply ridiculous thinking you\u2019ll never find your \u201cone.\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s going to take time and effort, and yeah, at times, you\u2019ll lose hope\u2026 but that\u2019s exactly when you should try even harder.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It can\u2019t be worse, right? So what have you got to lose if you believe in yourself for just a little while longer?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019d be surprised how far a little faith in yourself can take you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Chances are, when you stop the active pursuit of finding your match, you\u2019re going to have the best chances of doing so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Let your guard down, live your best life, and don\u2019t give up on yourself yet.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Uscire, ballare tutta la notte e rimanere positivi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1One day, he\u2019s going to just pop up in front of you, ask you for a dance, and you won\u2019t know what hit you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Life really does work that way. So let go of the toxic beliefs you\u2019ve convinced yourself of, and give yourself the benefit of the doubt.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re pretty amazing; you just need to believe in yourself for a change, then the world is going to seem much less daunting, and full of endless possibilities. Promise!<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Every couple in the world has their issues. Don\u2019t let social media posts fool you. A photo is a moment in time, but an actual relationship is a much longer commitment. So don\u2019t be too hard on yourself. Everybody out there is just trying to make it work to the best of their ability. Some…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":35355,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35354","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/jessica-oliveira-562074-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35354","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35354"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35354\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35355"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35354"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35354"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35354"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}