{"id":35410,"date":"2020-04-12T07:46:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T07:46:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35410"},"modified":"2022-01-10T01:06:21","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T01:06:21","slug":"una-volta-tornato-non-dimenticate-come-se-ne-e-andato-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-volta-tornato-non-dimenticate-come-se-ne-e-andato-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando torna, non dimenticate come se n'\u00e8 andato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Forse ora non lo vedete, ma le persone tornano sempre.<\/strong> Non subito, non quando si vuole e ci si aspetta che lo facciano, ma prima o poi lo fanno.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Dopo tutto, ogni assassino alla fine torna sulla scena del crimine, giusto?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That is exactly the way people come back to the ones they\u2019ve damaged; to the ones they\u2019ve hurt and to the ones they should have appreciated more.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sometimes they do it to try to repair what they broke. Sometimes they return just to make sure they\u2019ve managed to kill you spiritually.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A volte lo fanno per nutrire il loro ego e per dimostrare a se stessi che possono avervi ogni volta che ne hanno voglia. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E a volte lo fanno nel tentativo di ottenere il vostro perdono e di cancellare la loro coscienza colpevole.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Persone come back when you\u2019ve almost forgetten all about them<\/a>, as if they sense that you\u2019ve moved on and that they\u2019re slowly losing a place in your heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tornano quando iniziano a sentire davvero la vostra assenza, quando finalmente vedono il vostro valore, e quando understand what they\u2019ve lost<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The same thing will happen with your ex\u2014the one who broke you to pieces, the one who made you question yourself, and the one who convinced you that you aren\u2019t meant to be loved.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Con colui che ha distrutto il tuo mondo e ti ha cambiato per sempre.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You might not see it now, but eventually, he\u2019ll come back to you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Un giorno, quando non sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 il primo e l'ultimo pensiero che vi passer\u00e0 per la testa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One day, when you start to live again and when you convince yourself that you\u2019ve finally gotten over everything he\u2019s done to you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Just like that, he\u2019ll show up out of nowhere to ask for your forgiveness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019ll come crawling back, telling you that he realized what he\u2019s done, and he\u2019ll beg you for another chance.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vedete, questo ragazzo \u00e8 abituato al fatto che voi lo perdoniate. \u00c8 abituato a vedervi come la sua rete di sicurezza e come quella che lo riprende sempre, a prescindere da tutto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Di conseguenza, si aspetter\u00e0 che si faccia di nuovo spazio nella sua vita.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will expect you to tell him that you\u2019ve spent all of this time patiently waiting for him and that you\u2019ve never ha smesso di amarlo<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That is exactly why he\u2019ll come to you once he loses everything and once everyone else turns their backs on him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Una volta che avr\u00e0 fatto un tentativo con tutte le altre donne con cui ha avuto l'opportunit\u00e0 di stare, e una volta che avr\u00e0 capito che nessuna potr\u00e0 mai amarlo come lo hai amato tu.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once he reaches rock bottom, he\u2019ll remember you as his last resort, and he\u2019ll want you to save him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando questo accade, tutti i ricordi che avete avuto con lui vi passeranno davanti agli occhi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And for a moment, you\u2019ll really wish to continue where you guys left off\u2014you\u2019ll wish to give your love another opportunity.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tuttavia, this is when you\u2019ll have to be strong enough not to allow nostalgia affect your decisions. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you\u2019ll have to look at things realistically and remember everything this man has done to you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once he comes back, you\u2019ll have to be strong enough not to forget about the way he left.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Not to forget how he abandoned you when you needed him the most and how he didn\u2019t give a damn how his departure might affect you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll need to remember how he betrayed your trust and how he left you hanging.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Non ha mai pensato a come ti sentivi e a quello che ti stava facendo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll need to remember all the tears you cried for him, all the sleepless nights you spent wondering <\/strong>why weren\u2019t you enough<\/strong><\/a> e cosa avreste potuto fare di diverso per tenerlo. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tutti i traumi e le cicatrici che si \u00e8 lasciato dietro.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once he comes back, you\u2019ll have to be selfish enough not to care about his well-being.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Selfish enough not to think about what he needs and feels, and for once, you\u2019ll have to put yourself first.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When this happens, you\u2019ll have to treat this guy the same way he treated you when he walked away<\/strong>\u2014a cuore freddo. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll have to slam the door straight in his face, and turn your back on him once and for all.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00ec, all'inizio potreste sentirvi in colpa per aver fatto una cosa del genere. Potreste persino mettere in dubbio la vostra decisione, chiedendovi se avete fatto la cosa giusta.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tuttavia, prima che ve ne rendiate conto, vi colpir\u00e0...era l'unica cosa che si meritava. Soprattutto, era qualcosa che doveva a se stesso.  <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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