{"id":35497,"date":"2020-05-16T09:21:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T09:21:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35497"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:44:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:44:18","slug":"5-motivi-per-lasciare-andare-un-ragazzo-che-non-e-sicuro-di-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-lasciare-andare-un-ragazzo-che-non-e-sicuro-di-te\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per lasciare andare un ragazzo che non \u00e8 sicuro di voi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Anche se \u00e8 il ragazzo pi\u00f9 sexy che abbiate mai visto, non lasciate mai che lui o chiunque altro vi dia per scontate.<\/p>\n

La vita \u00e8 davvero breve e trascorrerla con qualcuno che deve pensarci due volte a stare con te \u00e8 semplicemente folle.<\/p>\n

Maybe you don\u2019t think of it that way, maybe you think he\u2019ll change in time, that he just needs time to set his priorities and get his life in order but what you don\u2019t take into account is that time flies by much faster than you think and with just the snap of your fingers, you\u2019ll find yourself crying over a life wasted on a man who never gave all of him.<\/p>\n

Dite addio ai sentimenti contrastanti nella vostra relazione semplicemente perch\u00e9 voi, mia cara, meritate molto di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

I know that getting rid of a person who meant something to you is not an easy thing to do but when you look at everything you might miss out on because you\u2019re wasting time with a man who doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/a>, it’s better to end it now.<\/p>\n

Ecco i motivi per cui dovete lasciarlo andare perch\u00e9 \u00e8 un po' insicuro nei vostri confronti: <\/strong><\/p>\n

He wants to break up but doesn\u2019t have the courage<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Devi fare il lavoro sporco per lui.<\/p>\n

You have no other choice if you want to get out of that relationship while you\u2019re still pretty normal and pretty sane.<\/p>\n

His feelings for you have probably changed but he doesn\u2019t have the courage to admit it, so he strings you along.<\/p>\n

Or the other possible reason why he hasn\u2019t broken up with you is that he needs you.<\/p>\n

Tutti noi abbiamo dei momenti in cui ci sentiamo vulnerabili, bisognosi e soli.<\/p>\n

In quei momenti, cerchiamo la compagnia o la cosa pi\u00f9 vicina all'amore per confortarci.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what he does. He chooses to go to you because he doesn\u2019t want to be alone.<\/p>\n

In those moments, you\u2019re more than enough for what he needs. He goes back to you, you take him in and you connect.<\/p>\n

But what happens when he\u2019s in a period of feeling strong and secure? In those moments, he becomes unsure about you once again.<\/p>\n

Si chiede se siete la persona giusta per lui.<\/p>\n

This is why you should walk away from that relationship. If you stay, you\u2019ll continue living through periods of happiness followed by periods of pain.<\/p>\n

Volete davvero che la vostra felicit\u00e0 dipenda dallo stato emotivo in cui si trova lui?<\/p>\n

Cosa succede quando trova il coraggio?<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

It\u2019s simple.<\/p>\n

You get your heart broken and he walks away from your relationship without a single worry on his mind because he\u2019s been feeling like doing this for a long time and now he has finally done it.<\/p>\n

If only you were quicker\u2026 it wouldn\u2019t cost you the tears and the broken heart. Think about it.<\/p>\n

Why would you wait to get dumped in the vain hope of him coming around? You\u2019re risking your life from that point on.<\/p>\n

The fact of who dumped who has everything to do with this case. Don\u2019t be stupid by taking the bullet which you weren\u2019t supposed to take.<\/p>\n

Ci sono altri uomini l\u00e0 fuori<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Why waste your life on someone who sometimes loves you and sometimes doesn\u2019t?<\/p>\n

By staying with a man who is unsure about you, you\u2019re unconsciously depriving yourself of meeting a man who\u2019ll be all in when it comes to you.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have moments of doubt, he\u2019ll never question your love for him or his love for you.   <\/p>\n

Even when he\u2019s with you, you\u2019re not getting all of his attention<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Un uomo che non \u00e8 sicuro di voi non \u00e8 impegnato in una relazione fino in fondo.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 mai pienamente presente, n\u00e9 investe alcuna capacit\u00e0 nel costruire ci\u00f2 che avete per essere migliori e pi\u00f9 forti.<\/p>\n

There are things that people do for each other because of love, things that they don\u2019t feel like doing but they do anyway just to make that person happy.<\/p>\n

The man you\u2019re dating won\u2019t sacrifice his time, nor will he put more effort into doing something he doesn\u2019t feel like doing, even if it means you\u2019re going to enjoy his gesture.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care enough for you to go the extra mile.<\/p>\n

A man who isn\u2019t sure about you will always keep you at arm\u2019s length. He will hold back his feelings and he will never fully open up to you.<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che si pensa che tutto vada bene.<\/p>\n

Pensate che una relazione debba essere cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you\u2019re used to getting so little because no one showed you how much you\u2019re supposed to get.<\/p>\n

When you think about this situation from an objective point of view, you\u2019ll realize that his behavior is not fair.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s taking advantage of you<\/a>, il vostro tempo e il vostro amore.<\/p>\n

Le relazioni sono gi\u00e0 abbastanza difficili anche con la persona giusta<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Anche se si trova la persona giusta, anche questa relazione ha bisogno di lavoro.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not so easy to include someone in your life even if they are the person you\u2019ve been waiting for.<\/p>\n

Ci vogliono molti compromessi e sforzi per far funzionare le cose.<\/p>\n

The harder you try, the happier you\u2019ll be.<\/p>\n

Relationships are pointless if you\u2019re not trying to be everything your person needs. Being just enough won\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n

Trying hard and becoming just enough will drain you and you\u2019ll get to the point where you won\u2019t be able to keep up anymore.<\/p>\n

Senti, ci sar\u00e0 sempre un momento in cui il tuo uomo si trover\u00e0 in un posto strano della sua vita.<\/p>\n

He will always be unsure about something because he isn\u2019t in the right place or he is dealing with something that is too much to handle.<\/p>\n

But you know what? Those are his problems and if he\u2019s the one who has to deal with them, it\u2019s only fair for him to let you go.<\/p>\n

You are not put on this earth to entertain someone. You won\u2019t give your love and your energy to someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate either and uses you instead.<\/p>\n

The time has come for you to ask yourself: \u201cAnd what about me?\u201d<\/p>\n

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