{"id":3556,"date":"2020-08-16T08:36:19","date_gmt":"2020-08-16T08:36:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3556"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:10:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:10:09","slug":"segni-che-non-sei-uno-che-non-ha-colpa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-non-sei-uno-che-non-ha-colpa\/","title":{"rendered":"Segni che non sei \"quella giusta\" per lui (e non \u00e8 colpa tua)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A volte due persone si incontrano e sono perfette l'una per l'altra. Sono come due pezzi di un puzzle.<\/p>\n<p>But, sometimes, no matter how well two people click, they\u2019re just not for each other. Maybe, in theory, your relationship is perfect, but it\u2019s a whole different story in practice.<\/p>\n<p>I know that sometimes, despite the fact you\u2019re aware that your relationship isn\u2019t going anywhere, you trick yourself into believing there\u2019s still hope\u2014when there\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>This sucks so badly, but the truth is that two amazing people don\u2019t have to hit it off.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you\u2019re just not right for each other, and sometimes you\u2019re just paranoid and you\u2019ve made yourself believe you don\u2019t belong by his side.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not sure which of these two scenarios is yours, check out the signs that will make you see if you\u2019re not \u2018The One\u2019 for him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Non c'\u00e8 fiducia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110496\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna triste seduta sul divano da sola\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><br \/>\nHe doesn\u2019t trust you and trust is the most important thing in every relationship\u2014it\u2019s the foundation.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t have trust, you can be positive that your relationship will crack sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>Fighting for a relationship without trust is just avoiding the inevitable\u2014avoiding the crash.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 nella nostra natura umana avere qualcuno al nostro fianco per sentirci stabili e protetti.<\/p>\n<p>We know we have someone who will comfort us when we\u2019re sad and someone who will enjoy our happiness with us.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why we need to develop that bond of trust with that special someone we chose.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why YOU need to realize you\u2019re not the one for him if there is no trust in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-segni-precoci-che-il-ragazzo-non-e-a-posto\/\">5 segni precoci che il tuo ragazzo non \u00e8 giusto per te<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tiene i suoi problemi per s\u00e9<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110498\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda triste e solitaria\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><br \/>\nThere\u2019s no communication between the two of you. Whenever there\u2019s a problem, he quiets down and pulls back.<\/p>\n<p>You were probably in situations like this, begging him to tell you what\u2019s wrong, but he continuously refused to, numerous times.<\/p>\n<p>He tried to convince you everything is peachy, although you know it\u2019s not. If he avoids talking about his problems with you, he doesn\u2019t feel your support.<\/p>\n<p>Il sostegno \u00e8 uno dei motivi principali per cui ci sforziamo di trovare una persona con cui stare insieme. Ci vuole tempo per sviluppare un sistema di sostegno in una relazione.<\/p>\n<p>But, in your case, if you\u2019ve been in a long-term relationship and still, there\u2019s no feeling of support, something is wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Dovreste aver sviluppato un legame profondo fino ad ora, che comprende il sostegno reciproco.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Si sente che manca qualcosa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110499\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>You feel that you\u2019re not loved as you deserve to be.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe this seems like it\u2019s your problem but, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aha-now.com\/understanding-true-love-between-two-people\/\" rel=\"noopener\">quando le due persone si amano<\/a>Hanno bisogno (e di solito lo fanno) di trovare un modo per amarsi nei modi in cui hanno bisogno di essere amati.<\/p>\n<p>Di solito ci vuole tempo perch\u00e9 due persone capiscano come amarsi, ma se avete la sensazione che il vostro partner non stia nemmeno cercando di decifrare il codice su come amarvi, siate certi di non essere la persona giusta per lui.<\/p>\n<p>Bisogna capire che le relazioni non possono mai essere perfette.<\/p>\n<p>But there is something more you have to know\u2014putting a constant effort in your relationship is the key to its success.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">C'\u00e8 troppa o poca passione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110501\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna sola con gli occhiali sdraiata sul divano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Passion is that essential key for every relationship. It\u2019s the first thing the two of you will feel\u2014it\u2019s the reason why you are together.<\/p>\n<p>Passion is that feeling when the two of you touch and something deep inside you burns and it\u2019s good\u2014it\u2019s perfect.<\/p>\n<p>No relationship can survive if there\u2019s no passion.<\/p>\n<p>But also, a lot of passion can be destructive because passion goes along with\u2014jealousy, fear, or sadness which show their faces when there\u2019s too much passion involved.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t have a feeling of security<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna giovane e triste seduta sul divano a pensare\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>You have to ask yourself: \u201cDoes he make me safe?\u201d, \u201cDo I feel like home everywhere I go with him?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Queste sono le cose pi\u00f9 importanti perch\u00e9, in fin dei conti, tutti cerchiamo sicurezza. Vogliamo tutti qualcuno al nostro fianco che si prenda cura di noi e che ci rialzi quando cadiamo.<\/p>\n<p>A volte nelle relazioni manca quel segmento importante.<\/p>\n<p>But, when you think about it, no matter if the two of you are the best couple there can be, if you don\u2019t feel safe in each other\u2019s arms, you\u2019re not going to last.<\/p>\n<p>And that is completely fine\u2014that is not your fault. That is just how things are and probably should be for some reason.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t force love to happen because you\u2019re maybe forcing \u2018The wrong love\u2019 which could make you miss \u2018The Right One\u2019.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/relazione-giusta-si-sentiranno-tossiche-quelle\/\">Ecco come si sentir\u00e0 la relazione \"giusta\" dopo tutte quelle tossiche<\/a><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110686\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Segni che non sei &quot;quella giusta&quot; per lui (e non \u00e8 colpa tua)\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, two people get together and they are perfect for each other. They are like two pieces of a puzzle. But, sometimes, no matter how well two people click, they\u2019re just not for each other. Maybe, in theory, your relationship is perfect, but it\u2019s a whole different story in practice. I know that sometimes, despite&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":110495,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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