{"id":35625,"date":"2020-10-17T13:26:12","date_gmt":"2020-10-17T13:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35625"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:01:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:01:34","slug":"7-cose-intelligenti-da-fare-dopo-essere-stati-ghosted","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-intelligenti-da-fare-dopo-essere-stati-ghosted\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose intelligenti da fare dopo essere stati spiati"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si inizia una relazione di qualsiasi tipo, soprattutto una relazione intima, si spera che essere vittima di un fantasma<\/a> \u00e8 l'ultima cosa che vi accadrebbe.<\/p>\n

Ma, purtroppo, al giorno d'oggi accade molto spesso.<\/p>\n

And the worst thing is that ghosted people often feel confused and disappointed because they don\u2019t know why it happened to them.<\/p>\n

They always think that they are the guilty ones, while, in most cases, the real guilty ones don\u2019t even think about it.<\/p>\n

Un'esperienza del genere pu\u00f2 essere molto spiacevole, ma se si sa cosa fare, pu\u00f2 essere meno dolorosa.<\/p>\n

Ecco quindi alcuni consigli che possono aiutarvi dopo aver subito un ghosting.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think you are the guilty one<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La maggior parte delle persone inizia subito a pensare di essere colpevole, ma non \u00e8 cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Se siete vittime di un ghosting, sappiate che siete voi la vittima dell'intero processo.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t freak out and don\u2019t think that something is wrong with you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have anything to do with it. You just had bad luck to bump into someone who didn\u2019t appreciate you and that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n

Quindi, smettete di preoccuparvi delle piccole cose e andate avanti. Credetemi, meno ci pensate e pi\u00f9 sar\u00e0 facile per voi.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t change yourself<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

You know that saying, \u201cOne man\u2019s trash is another man\u2019s treasure\u201d?<\/p>\n

If you weren\u2019t enough for one man and he ghosted you, it doesn\u2019t mean that something is wrong with you and that you should change.<\/p>\n

If one man doesn\u2019t like you just the way you are, it doesn\u2019t mean that another man will think the same.<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 qualcuno che si innamorer\u00e0 perdutamente di voi, con tutta la vostra follia, il vostro bisogno e il vostro sarcastico senso dell'umorismo.<\/p>\n

There is a man who won\u2019t try to change even a bit about you because he will love you madly.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t change yourself for a man who doesn\u2019t deserve you. Stay faithful to yourself no matter what others think.<\/p>\n

Se non siete pronti per un cambiamento e questo avviene, vi mancherete terribilmente.<\/p>\n

Esprimere i propri sentimenti<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quando si scopre di essere vittima di un fantasma, \u00e8 bene parlarne.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 necessario esprimere i propri sentimenti e lasciare che i vostri migliori amici<\/a> sapere cosa sta accadendo nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

If you keep it to yourself, you will just overthink and you won\u2019t figure out why that happened to you in the end.<\/p>\n

Ma se ne parlate con qualcuno che vi \u00e8 vicino, andr\u00e0 meglio.<\/p>\n

You will realize that you are not the guilty one and that you shouldn\u2019t feel bad about it.<\/p>\n

Also, your friends will show you how to move on and how to get over someone who didn\u2019t even want to give himself time to get to know you better.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 se cos\u00ec fosse, non se ne sarebbe mai andato.<\/p>\n

Bruciare i ponti tra voi due<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you were being ghosted and if you don\u2019t know why, the best thing you can do is to cut all ties with him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t seek any explanations because that won\u2019t make you feel better.<\/p>\n

It will just make the whole situation worse and you won\u2019t get the answers you want.<\/p>\n

Se volete davvero dimenticare qualcuno, dovreste cercare di dimenticare tutto di lui.<\/p>\n

If he didn\u2019t want to make some effort to get to know you, then you shouldn\u2019t be desperate and chase him.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 l'uomo che vi merita e non sarete mai veramente felici con lui.<\/p>\n

Quindi, lasciate perdere prima di farvi ancora pi\u00f9 male. Credetemi, \u00e8 la cosa migliore che possiate fare per voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Essere felici perch\u00e9 se n'\u00e8 andato<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Maybe you felt it from the first contact, but you didn\u2019t want to believe it.<\/p>\n

Maybe you felt he was never as into you as you him, but you didn\u2019t pay attention to that.<\/p>\n

Ma ora, dopo che tutto \u00e8 andato al suo posto, tutto ha un senso.<\/p>\n

Tutto \u00e8 chiarissimo e tu sei arrabbiata con te stessa per non averlo tagliato fuori dalla tua vita prima.<\/p>\n

But you shouldn\u2019t worry about that because it is never too late for the good things. If he left you, don\u2019t cry.Instead, be happy.<\/p>\n

Siate felici perch\u00e9 vi siete salvati dal dolore e dall'agonia. Ora che siete di nuovo liberi, godetevi la vita e prendetevi cura della vostra mente e del vostro corpo.<\/p>\n

Fate tutto ci\u00f2 che vi aiuta a sentirvi meglio e vivete ogni giorno come se fosse l'ultimo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t overthink why it happened<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quando si perde qualcuno o qualcosa di inaspettato, \u00e8 probabile che si abbia l'impulso di pensare troppo al motivo per cui \u00e8 successo.<\/p>\n

You will try to find reasons, but you won\u2019t be able to do a whole lot about it. That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t ruminate on it at all because it will be only worse.<\/p>\n

If someone left you without any explanation, you shouldn\u2019t be the one to chase after him and ask why he did it.<\/p>\n

La cosa migliore da fare in una situazione del genere \u00e8 lasciarsi andare.<\/p>\n

If it mattered to them, they would stick, but obviously, they don\u2019t see themselves with you to stay and fight for what you have.<\/p>\n

Credetemi, quando accetterete quello che \u00e8 successo e lascerete andare tutto, troverete finalmente la pace che meritate.<\/p>\n

Andare avanti<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Andare avanti pu\u00f2 essere molto difficile, ma \u00e8 quello che dovete fare se volete essere di nuovo felici.<\/p>\n

Solo perch\u00e9 un uomo ha rinunciato a te,<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean that you are not good enough.<\/p>\n

It just means that he was the wrong one and you should try to find someone who will look at you like you\u2019re the apple of his eye.<\/p>\n

When you finally move on, you will realize that you were holding onto something that wasn\u2019t real for so long, and because of that, you couldn\u2019t find the right one for yourself.<\/p>\n

It will be hard in the beginning, but once you experience real happiness, you will understand that good things don\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n

Una volta superato ci\u00f2 che vi impediva di essere felici, farete il miglior regalo a voi stessi.<\/p>\n

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