{"id":35637,"date":"2019-04-17T13:53:58","date_gmt":"2019-04-17T13:53:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35637"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:14:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:14:20","slug":"24-cose-affascinanti-per-cui-gli-uomini-sono-insicuri-e-che-non-immaginereste-mai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/24-cose-affascinanti-per-cui-gli-uomini-sono-insicuri-e-che-non-immaginereste-mai\/","title":{"rendered":"24 cose affascinanti per cui i ragazzi sono insicuri (che non immaginereste mai)"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. I vostri precedenti fidanzati.<\/strong> Gli uomini sentono di dover essere all'altezza delle vostre aspettative. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They believe you\u2019ll compare them to your exes which puts huge pressure on their performance and their behavior in a relationship.
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2. Il loro aspetto.<\/strong> Pensavate che solo le donne si preoccupassero del loro aspetto e vedessero solo i difetti del loro corpo? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men do that, too. I can\u2019t even tell you how many times my guy friends asked me for style tips and advice on how to look better or what to wear.
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3. Tu che guardi altri uomini.<\/strong> Questa \u00e8 la prova che gli uomini hanno due pesi e due misure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s okay for them to check out other women and you\u2019re not supposed to be bothered with that because, well, they are guys and they have to do it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, quando i ruoli si invertono, quando si guarda un altro ragazzo, il livello di insicurezza di un uomo sale alle stelle.
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4. Precedenti partner sessuali.<\/strong> There are men out there who can\u2019t stand the fact their girlfriend had sexual partners in the past. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vogliono essere gli unici. Cos'\u00e8 questa se non una chiara insicurezza?
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5. Non essere in grado di sostenervi finanziariamente.<\/strong> La maggior parte degli uomini associa la propria mascolinit\u00e0 alla capacit\u00e0 di sostenere economicamente la partner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They think they are not man enough if they can\u2019t earn enough money for you to be taken care of.
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6. Essere magri.<\/strong> Le persone magre hanno gli stessi problemi delle persone grasse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why is it okay for someone to walk up to a really skinny person and say to their face they are really skinny and ask why they don\u2019t get fat? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s the same as walking up to a fat person and asking them why they don\u2019t lose weight.
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7. Il loro pene.<\/strong> Quale lunghezza \u00e8 appropriata, cosa \u00e8 troppo grande e cosa \u00e8 troppo piccolo? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sono le domande che assillano gli uomini e quelle a cui non otterranno mai risposte concrete.
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8. Essere sensibili.<\/strong> It\u2019s not a secret that women prefer men who openly talk about their emotions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being sensitive is an advantage but what you never thought of is that most of them are very scared to open up because they fear they\u2019ll cross the line. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanno paura di dire troppo e di essere lasciati per questo.
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9. Competenze in camera da letto.<\/strong> Soprattutto quando sono con qualcuno per la prima volta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That first performance matters despite the myth that it is okay to be a bit clumsy because you don\u2019t know exactly what that person wants and likes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

At the beginning of a relationship, you don\u2019t talk about that stuff so much, so it\u2019s normal that you\u2019re clueless.
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10. La loro personalit\u00e0. <\/strong>Just take a look at any self-help guide for men and you\u2019ll see how big of a deal the issue with personalities is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Guys are afraid they aren\u2019t interesting or fun enough. They are afraid the woman they\u2019re with will soon get bored and leave.
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11. Essere single per un po'.<\/strong> Tutti conosciamo quel ragazzo che \u00e8 l'ultimo tra i suoi amici senza una fidanzata o una moglie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, he isn\u2019t having the best time ever, even if he\u2019s cheering for staying single and without commitment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What actually goes around in his head is he\u2019s scared of dying alone and he\u2019s wondering what\u2019s wrong with him since he\u2019s the last one still single.
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12. Not being \u2018manly\u2019 enough.<\/strong> Not all guys enjoy sports or similar \u2018manly\u2019 things. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alcuni preferiscono sedersi a guardare un film o un programma televisivo piuttosto che il calcio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That doesn\u2019t make them less of a man but not feeling pressure about it presents a big problem to a man like that.
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13. Avere le tette da uomo.<\/strong> Yes, that\u2019s a real thing and yes, it presents a huge complex to men who have that problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci sono uomini che lavorano sul proprio corpo e sono in ottima forma, con pacchi da sei e corpi da urlo, ma le tette da uomo si rifiutano di andarsene.
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14. Disfunzione erettile.<\/strong> That can happen to any man and it\u2019s every guy\u2019s biggest fear.
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15. Avere il controllo della propria vita.<\/strong> In realt\u00e0, questo aspetto \u00e8 strettamente legato alla capacit\u00e0 di sostenere finanziariamente qualcuno. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quindi \u00e8 ovvio che anche loro vogliono essere in grado di mantenersi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t want to depend on anyone or ask anyone for any help, especially the financial kind.
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16. Perdere i capelli.<\/strong> It\u2019s less stressful when men start losing their hair at an age appropriate for that to happen but when younger men, men in their thirties or even younger, start losing their hair, it creates insecurities and self-hatred. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ogni uomo teme che ci\u00f2 accada.
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17. Non essere abbastanza alti.<\/strong> O di essere troppo alti. Di solito le ragazze cercano uomini un po' pi\u00f9 alti di loro, ma non troppo. Gli uomini lo sanno bene.
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18. Dover ballare.<\/strong> A lot of men don\u2019t like to dance and they avoid it at all costs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Frankly, they have the feeling you\u2019re killing it out there while they look like they\u2019ve been fighting with diarrhea while dancing.
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19. Ci\u00f2 che la famiglia pensa di loro.<\/strong> What guys think of other guys doesn\u2019t matter that much. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La loro pi\u00f9 grande preoccupazione \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che le donne e la loro stessa famiglia pensano di loro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you don\u2019t believe what I\u2019m saying, just take a look at how many marriages have fallen apart because of the meddling of the in-laws.
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20. Altri ragazzi della stessa et\u00e0.<\/strong> Gli uomini si confrontano tra loro, soprattutto quelli della stessa et\u00e0. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If most of them have a family or a great job, then the ones who don\u2019t have that will feel bad because they have the feeling they should be on the same level as other people of the same age.
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21. Impegno.<\/strong> Purtroppo \u00e8 vero. In realt\u00e0, gli uomini hanno paura di rimanere soli e di impegnarsi <\/a>allo stesso tempo, il che non ha alcun senso.
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22. Essere sicuri di s\u00e9 dopo essere stati traditi.<\/strong> After being hurt, it\u2019s hard to get back out there because you’re expecting bad things to happen to you once again.
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23. The number of women they\u2019ve slept with.<\/strong> Questo pu\u00f2 andare in entrambe le direzioni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Possono essere troppi, il che d\u00e0 l'impressione che questi uomini siano dei donnaioli, oppure possono essere pochi, il che mette in dubbio le loro prestazioni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

24. Piacere.<\/strong> Like any woman, a man would also like to be popular. Every person has the need to be socially approved, it\u2019s in human nature. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you think men don\u2019t have this need, you\u2019re wrong. Everyone feels the need to be loved. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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