{"id":35733,"date":"2020-04-19T12:28:37","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T12:28:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35733"},"modified":"2021-12-06T16:09:47","modified_gmt":"2021-12-06T16:09:47","slug":"9-motivi-per-cui-una-relazione-non-funzionera-anche-se-i-vostri-sentimenti-sono-reali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-motivi-per-cui-una-relazione-non-funzionera-anche-se-i-vostri-sentimenti-sono-reali\/","title":{"rendered":"9 motivi per cui una relazione non funzioner\u00e0, anche se i vostri sentimenti sono reali"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Odiamo sentirlo, odiamo ammetterlo a noi stessi, ma purtroppo a volte l'amore non \u00e8 sufficiente per far durare una relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, it\u2019s essential, but it\u2019s just a part of the puzzle. There are other crucial puzzle pieces that have to fit together to form the bigger picture.<\/p>\n<p>What we usually forget is the most obvious thing there is that love takes two \u2013 two people making efforts, investing equally, and meeting each other halfway.<\/p>\n<p>Falliamo nelle nostre relazioni ogni volta che iniziamo a pensare di amare cos\u00ec profondamente da essere sufficienti per due.<\/p>\n<p>It never is. It\u2019s always missing something.<\/p>\n<p>Take a look at the 9 most common reasons your relationship won\u2019t work, even if your feelings are real:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">I vostri piani futuri non sono gli stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82566\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-talking-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seria che parla in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-talking-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-talking-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-talking-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t see himself getting married. You can\u2019t imagine yourself living in the countryside.<\/p>\n<p>One of you doesn\u2019t want to have children and other can\u2019t imagine a future without them. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And no matter how strongly you feel for each other, you will at one point have to face the fact that you will be miserable if you sign up for a life you don\u2019t really want.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">There are trust issues that can\u2019t be solved<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82567\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-arguing-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che discute in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-arguing-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-arguing-in-the-living-room-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sappiamo tutti che le relazioni non sono sostenibili se c'\u00e8 un'assenza di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-avrebbe-problemi-di-fiducia-se-tu-non-avessi-avuto-problemi-di-bugie\/\">nessuna fiducia<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Yet sometimes we try and do our best to restore that trust, to make things work, because we care so much and don\u2019t want to let go.<\/p>\n<p>If someone betrayed us or in any way made us doubt them, that seed of doubt will be implanted permanently and you won\u2019t be able to get rid of it.<\/p>\n<p>Prima o poi, vi accorgerete che non c'\u00e8 altra scelta se non quella di rompere.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">His family doesn\u2019t accept you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82568\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-talking-to-mother-in-low.jpg\" alt=\"donna che parla con la madre in basso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-talking-to-mother-in-low.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-talking-to-mother-in-low-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-talking-to-mother-in-low-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is a really difficult pill to swallow because it actually doesn\u2019t have anything to do with the two of you or your love, but it\u2019s ruining your relationship anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono madri, per esempio, che pensano che nessuno sia abbastanza buono per i loro figli.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono anche situazioni in cui alcuni membri della famiglia vogliono farvi sembrare una persona cattiva e altri esempi simili di intromissione familiare non necessaria.<\/p>\n<p>If he is close and attached to his family and he can\u2019t stand up to them when they mistreat you or silence them when they start filling his head with nonsense, it\u2019s only a matter of time before they manage to drive the two of you apart.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ogni giorno \u00e8 pi\u00f9 drammatico del precedente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82569\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-kitchen.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che litiga in cucina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-kitchen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-kitchen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-kitchen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pregate per una relazione senza drammi, ma sembra impossibile.<\/p>\n<p>You and your partner are on each other\u2019s case 24\/7 and you always find new things to argue about or at least discuss at great length.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t remember the last time you had a whole week of peace and harmony. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Dopo uno o due giorni tranquilli, arrivano le tempeste e nel complesso si \u00e8 pi\u00f9 tristi che felici.<\/p>\n<p>Nonostante l'amore e l'innegabile attrazione che condividete, semplicemente non siete compatibili.<\/p>\n<p>Non siete in grado di vedervi negli occhi e probabilmente non c'\u00e8 alcuna possibilit\u00e0 che lo facciate mai.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u201cIs he really my forever person?\u201d is echoing in your head<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82570\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-thinking-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che pensa in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-thinking-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-thinking-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-thinking-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are some things that aren\u2019t working in your relationship, no matter how hard you try or how much you invest.<\/p>\n<p>Si ha la sensazione che tutto provenga dalla propria parte e che l'altra persona non partecipi attivamente.<\/p>\n<p>You love, but you don\u2019t know if you are loved back the same way and it\u2019s killing you bit by bit.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you find yourself unable to shake off the feeling that something better might be out there.<\/p>\n<p>Trust your gut. The thing with a forever person is that you don\u2019t have to wonder, you know.<\/p>\n<p>Non tutto deve essere perfetto, ma due persone che vogliono stare insieme e si amano infinitamente sono ci\u00f2 che fa la differenza.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Non siete in grado di colmare la distanza fisica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82571\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata in piedi accanto al muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-standing-by-the-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-standing-by-the-wall-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Le relazioni possono essere difficili.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relazione-a-distanza-ultimo-test-amore\/\"> Relazioni a distanza<\/a> pu\u00f2 essere ancora pi\u00f9 difficile.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s extremely difficult to maintain a relationship when you are not living in the same city, state, or even continent.<\/p>\n<p>Se non state facendo piani per vivere nello stesso posto un giorno, se nessuno di voi \u00e8 pronto a trasferirsi, allora state solo ritardando l'inevitabile.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t be a long distance couple forever, now can you?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La lussuria \u00e8 un concetto sconosciuto nella vostra relazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82573\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta lontano dal suo fidanzato\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-apart-from-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Da qualche parte in fondo alla linea, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/11-lusty-signs-sexual-tension\/\">tensioni sessuali<\/a> ceased to exist and now you are nothing more than two friends sharing the apartment or keeping each other from singledom. That&#8217;s just not the real deal.<\/p>\n<p>L'altro scenario possibile \u00e8 che abbiate intrapreso una relazione perch\u00e9 avete sviluppato forti sentimenti di amicizia per una certa persona e avete pensato che la scintilla si sarebbe accesa in seguito.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sorry to break it to you, but it never will.<\/p>\n<p>La chimica, la lussuria, l'attrazione e il sesso sono ci\u00f2 che separa una relazione dall'amicizia e, sebbene non siano le componenti pi\u00f9 importanti, svolgono un ruolo importante.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c8 geloso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82575\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/jealous-man-looking-at-woman-typing.jpg\" alt=\"uomo geloso che guarda una donna che scrive a macchina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/jealous-man-looking-at-woman-typing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/jealous-man-looking-at-woman-typing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/jealous-man-looking-at-woman-typing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I believe that there is a healthy dose of jealousy in every relationship and that\u2019s more than okay.<\/p>\n<p>A volte pu\u00f2 essere persino lusinghiero. Ma una volta superato questo limite salutare, una relazione pu\u00f2 sembrare un vero e proprio inferno.<\/p>\n<p>If your partner wants to know your every move, gets angry every time you speak with someone of the opposite sex, accuses you of cheating for no good reason, it\u2019s safe to say that he is overly jealous and that he will mentally suffocate you. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">E' violento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82576\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che urla a una donna che piange\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-crying-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 bisogno di dire che si tratta di una relazione malsana e che dovreste uscirne il prima possibile se vi trovate in un rapporto che \u00e8 in qualche modo abusivo.<\/p>\n<p>Sentiamo molte donne dire che amano il loro maltrattatore nonostante tutti i danni mentali o fisici che gli infligge.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s really hard to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-modi-per-superare-un-legame-traumatico-e-lasciare-una-relazione-abusiva\/\">rompere quel legame malsano <\/a>sentono, ma prima lo fanno meglio \u00e8.<\/p>\n<p>Il vero amore non vi far\u00e0 mai del male in alcun modo; tutto il resto \u00e8 una menzogna.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82565\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/9-Reasons-A-Relationship-Won\u2019t-Work-Even-If-Your-Feelings-Are-Real-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"9 motivi per cui una relazione non funzioner\u00e0, anche se i vostri sentimenti sono reali\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/9-Reasons-A-Relationship-Won\u2019t-Work-Even-If-Your-Feelings-Are-Real-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/9-Reasons-A-Relationship-Won\u2019t-Work-Even-If-Your-Feelings-Are-Real-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We hate to hear it, we hate to admit it to ourselves, but sadly sometimes love isn\u2019t enough to make a relationship last. Sure, it\u2019s essential, but it\u2019s just a part of the puzzle. There are other crucial puzzle pieces that have to fit together to form the bigger picture. What we usually forget is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":82577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35733","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/9-Reasons-A-Relationship-Won\u2019t-Work-Even-If-Your-Feelings-Are-Real.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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