{"id":35737,"date":"2020-04-19T12:40:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T12:40:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35737"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:39:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:39:09","slug":"non-sposatevi-prima-di-conoscere-queste-5-cose-sul-vostro-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-sposatevi-prima-di-conoscere-queste-5-cose-sul-vostro-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"Non sposatevi finch\u00e9 non conoscete queste 5 cose sul vostro partner!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you deeply love someone and your love is reciprocated, there\u2019s nothing greater in the world than the feeling of becoming one and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-scuse-che-gli-uomini-adducono-quando-non-si-sentono-pronti-a-sposarsi\/\">sposarsi<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ma affrettare il matrimonio prima di porsi alcune domande cruciali potrebbe non avere un esito positivo, a prescindere da quanto ci si ami.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless of whether you\u2019ve been dating for quite a long time now or if you\u2019ve been together for years, there are some important questions that you need to ask yourself in order to be ready to tie the knot!<\/p>\n<p>You see, making a vow is a great responsibility toward yourself and your partner and in order for your marriage to blossom and to reach the ultimate happiness, you need to ask yourself if you\u2019re both ready to sacrifice, fight the tough moments and never give up, no matter what happens.<\/p>\n<p>To be one hundred percent sure that you\u2019re both ready to tie the knot, here is a list of 5 things that you need to know about your partner before deciding to get married!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Le loro opinioni sull'avere figli (e sul numero)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93456\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice che si coccola sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Having children is no longer a \u2018prerequisite\u2019 like it was in olden times but many people do not foresee the fact that not everyone is interested in having children after getting married.<\/p>\n<p>Si dimenticano di chiedere al partner le sue opinioni in merito all'avere figli perch\u00e9 danno gi\u00e0 per scontato che probabilmente \u00e8 interessato a farlo.<\/p>\n<p>Or they talk to their partner about it but forget to ask about the number of children, which again might result in disagreeing (when it\u2019s kind of too late).<\/p>\n<p>Per evitare qualsiasi tipo di delusione futura, \u00e8 sempre una buona idea parlare apertamente di queste cose con il partner e chiedergli di confermarle ancora una volta, se necessario.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not on the same page regarding having children, you might break your vows sooner than you thought because your marriage won\u2019t be as you\u2019ve imagined it, so never forget to discuss this with your partner!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La loro situazione finanziaria<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93457\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che beve caff\u00e8 e parla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pensate a tutte le scene dei film in cui le coppie di sposini litigano e discutono di soldi.<\/p>\n<p>Si tratta di una dura realt\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not familiar with how your partner behaves regarding their finances, your marriage could easily turn into a nightmare.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete sapere se il vostro partner \u00e8 ragionevole con il denaro e se ha dei debiti che potrebbero influire pesantemente sul vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>And even if you know that your partner is financially secure and can afford to spend lots of money (on unnecessary things), you should never come to the conclusion that you\u2019re pretty much safe with them.<\/p>\n<p>La loro situazione finanziaria potrebbe precipitare nel giro di un mese e tutti i sogni del vostro brillante <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-segni-rivelatori-del-fatto-che-vede-un-futuro-con-te\/\">futuro insieme<\/a> anche con esso.<\/p>\n<p>Pensate sempre in modo razionale quando si tratta di finanze.<\/p>\n<p>Non prestate mai attenzione solo alla quantit\u00e0 di denaro che hanno, ma piuttosto a come lo gestiscono, perch\u00e9 questo vi risparmier\u00e0 molte sofferenze nella vostra vita insieme!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Come trattano gli altri (famiglia, estranei, ex)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93458\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"due amici seduti sulla panchina a parlare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do they hold grudges with a particular family member or their ex? Are they rude to strangers, bartenders and others that they don\u2019t know?<\/p>\n<p>Il modo in cui trattano gli altri \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 importanti a cui prestare attenzione, perch\u00e9 il loro comportamento si rifletter\u00e0 anche sulla vostra futura vita insieme.<\/p>\n<p>Pay attention to how they interact with their family, so that you\u2019re familiar with any potential drama.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, dovreste osservare il loro comportamento quando parlano dei loro ex.<\/p>\n<p>Se trattano tutte le loro ex con rispetto, tratteranno anche voi allo stesso modo.<\/p>\n<p>Ma se parlano continuamente male di loro, significa che sono emotivamente immaturi e hanno ancora bisogno di tempo per entrare in contatto con i loro sentimenti e la loro interiorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Le loro preferenze in materia di intimit\u00e0 fisica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93459\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che si bacia a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La vera intimit\u00e0 fisica con il partner \u00e8 come la scintilla del vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>Finch\u00e9 vi toccherete e mostrerete apprezzamento l'uno per l'altro mentalmente e fisicamente, il vostro matrimonio sar\u00e0 l'incarnazione della felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t get me wrong. This is not only concerned with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/13-signs-you-are-not-just-having-sex-you-are-making-love\/\">fare l'amore con il proprio partner<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Comprende tutte quelle piccole cose che si fanno e i gesti che si compiono l'uno per l'altro, come tenersi per mano, abbracciarsi da dietro, baciarsi prima di separarsi, toccarsi le dita dei piedi quando si \u00e8 a letto e simili.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete sapere quale tipo di contatto fisico rende felice il vostro partner e dovete aspettarvi che lui sappia lo stesso e si comporti di conseguenza.<\/p>\n<p>Marriage requires hard work and you need to make sure that your partner is willing to \u2018cooperate\u2019 and make an effort to please you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Come gestiscono le situazioni difficili<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93460\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio che abbraccia una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tutti noi prima o poi affrontiamo momenti difficili e li gestiamo in modo diverso.<\/p>\n<p>But when you\u2019re married to someone, there is no room for acting irresponsibly or childishly in difficult situations.<\/p>\n<p>So, you need to pay attention to how your partner is behaving when he\u2019s in trouble or in a stressful situation with his job, personal life, family or similar.<\/p>\n<p>Si tira indietro e ignora il problema o lo affronta con coraggio e inizia subito a trovare soluzioni?<\/p>\n<p>If he seems to \u2018shit his pants\u2019 when he has to make a difficult decision or deal with something stressful, this is neither a good sign nor a desirable quality when it comes to marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete essere sicuri al cento per cento che il vostro partner sia emotivamente e fisicamente pronto ad affrontare le molteplici barriere che potreste incontrare nella vostra vita insieme e che possiate sempre contare su di lui, perch\u00e9 questa \u00e8 l'unica strada per un matrimonio sano e di successo, pieno di benedizioni!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93455\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"Non sposatevi finch\u00e9 non conoscete queste 5 cose sul vostro partner!\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93454\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non sposatevi finch\u00e9 non conoscete queste 5 cose sul vostro partner!\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you deeply love someone and your love is reciprocated, there\u2019s nothing greater in the world than the feeling of becoming one and getting married. But rushing into marriage before asking yourself some crucial questions might not result positively, no matter how much you love each other. Regardless of whether you\u2019ve been dating for quite&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":93461,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35737","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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