{"id":35783,"date":"2019-04-22T09:50:06","date_gmt":"2019-04-22T09:50:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35783"},"modified":"2021-12-20T17:04:59","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T17:04:59","slug":"7-bandiere-rosse-che-provano-che-lui-e-davvero-sbagliato-per-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-bandiere-rosse-che-provano-che-lui-e-davvero-sbagliato-per-te\/","title":{"rendered":"7 bandiere rosse che dimostrano che lui \u00e8 davvero sbagliato per te"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ci sono molti aspetti di una relazione che sono necessari per farla funzionare.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s never just one thing that went wrong when a relationship fails, there are always many factors that contributed to its eventual doom.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Uno dei fattori pi\u00f9 importanti in una relazione \u00e8 la messaggistica tra voi e il vostro partner.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>In questo modo potete scoprire molte cose sul vostro uomo, senza che lui debba dire molto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quando si inizia una nuova relazione, la parte dei messaggi \u00e8 quasi sempre la pi\u00f9 esaltante.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You\u2019re blowing up each other\u2019s phones 24\/7 and you absolutely beam the minute you see his name on your screen.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>The conversations are never-ending and you feel like there\u2019s nothing he can say that could possibly wipe that smile off your face!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ma con il passare del tempo e con l'inizio di una relazione pi\u00f9 seria, i suoi messaggi prendono una brutta piega.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He gets too comfortable because he knows he\u2019s got you hooked, and his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-cattive-abitudini-di-messaggistica-che-gli-faranno-perdere-interesse\/\">abitudini di invio di SMS<\/a> non sono neanche lontanamente paragonabili a quelli degli inizi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This is what will tell you if your man is actually a total douche, or if he\u2019s worth sticking it out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>The way he texts you after he\u2019s won you over will reveal his true nature and intentions, if you just pay attention!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><em>Diffidate di questi 7 tipi di messaggi che ricevete da lui. Sono la prova che lui \u00e8 davvero sbagliato per te e che dovresti scaricarlo il prima possibile!<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Ignora le vostre emozioni e vi d\u00e0 della pazza quando volete togliervi un peso dallo stomaco.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You text him about an issue that you have, or something that you feel you two should talk about, and he totally dismisses what you\u2019re saying, feeling zero need to even think about your idea or suggestion.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He makes you feel like you\u2019re acting like a crazy person for simply trying to get a reply that won\u2019t completely disregard <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/se-reprimete-le-vostre-emozioni-dovreste-leggere-questo-2\/\">le vostre emozioni<\/a>!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You can\u2019t get anything off your chest and every time you want to text him about anything that isn\u2019t convenient for him, it makes your gut churn.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Non risponde mai ai vostri messaggi in modo specifico, le sue risposte sono sempre vaghe.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You want to find out more about him and his life but every time you ask him a specific question, he\u2019s totally vague.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s like he doesn\u2019t want to share deeper stuff with you and he just blows you off with an extremely short text, and it\u2019s really hurtful for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quando volete prenderlo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/quando-portare-la-propria-relazione-al-livello-successivo\/\">al livello successivo<\/a> attraverso gli sms, ci si scontra con un muro di mattoni che sembra completamente impenetrabile.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Tende a mandarvi messaggi soprattutto a tarda notte.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And you know what that means. If you\u2019re only on his mind during night time, it almost always means he\u2019s merely looking for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/i-gave-you-the-best-of-me-but-you-still-treated-me-like-a-booty-call\/\">una visita di cortesia<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You tell yourself that\u2019s not the case, and it\u2019s just a coincidence, but it all points to it being indeed so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You don\u2019t feel like he takes you seriously at all, because if he did, wouldn\u2019t he text you during the day as well?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. If he does text you during the day, it\u2019s mostly because he needs something<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You can\u2019t shake off the feeling like he\u2019s just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-segnali-allarmanti-che-lui-ti-sta-usando-emotivamente\/\">utilizzando voi<\/a>. Whenever you see his name light up your screen, you know that it\u2019s either sex-related or he needs a favor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s not like you don\u2019t want to help him, because you do, but it\u2019s different when that\u2019s all he ever seems to want from you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He makes it seem as if there\u2019s something more there, but it\u2019s really just the fact that you\u2019re convenient for him, and that really sucks.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Scrive solo di se stesso e dei propri interessi<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Raramente chiede come stai. Raramente manda un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/lelenco-definitivo-degli-sms-del-buongiorno-per-lei\/\">testo di buongiorno.<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He might reply if you text him first, but that\u2019s about it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Most of his texts are about him and his own shit, and he doesn\u2019t seem to care much about what\u2019s up with you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He doesn\u2019t make an effort to really get to know the ins and outs of your life and you don\u2019t seem to be very high up on his list of priorities.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>\u00c8 interessato solo a se stesso e alle cose che gli accadono.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. \u00c8 passivo-aggressivo via sms per le questioni pi\u00f9 piccole.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sa cosa dire per farti sentire uno schifo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s like he makes it seem like he doesn\u2019t mean anything bad by it, but his texts are almost designed to be a subtle dig at you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It hurts being treated that way. He is simply not considerate of how his shitty texts affect you at all, and he doesn\u2019t seem to want to change at all.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you do something wrong, he\u2019s going to make you feel guilty about it in a way that will be so passive-aggressive that he deserves an Oscar for the most dramatic performance over text.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Ci mette una vita a rispondere<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Non risponde quasi mai entro un'ora dal vostro messaggio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You know that he has his phone on him literally all the time, but every time you text him, even the littlest things, he\u2019s going to take ages to reply. Then you think to yourself: <em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-risponde-ai-messaggi\/\">Why won&#8217;t he text me back<\/a>?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>E anche se accade un miracolo e risponde in un tempo decente, la sua risposta \u00e8 di solito una risposta che non richiede alcun feedback.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You just don\u2019t seem to matter to him enough to consider that your time is valuable as well, and that his texting habits are nothing but a toxic waste of time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If this is the case, he is seriously wrong for you on so many levels.A guy like that is wrong for almost anyone, so don\u2019t beat yourself up about it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Non tutti i ragazzi sono cos\u00ec, quindi scaricate il suo culo pigro e smettetela di lasciarlo fare. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/lifes-too-short-to-waste-your-time-teaching-him-how-to-be-a-good-boyfriend\/\">perdere tempo<\/a>. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/12-motivi-per-cui-non-ti-scrive-mai-per-primo-ma-risponde-sempre-quando-gli-mandi-un-messaggio\/\">Don&#8217;t text him<\/a>. Meritate molto di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-35787\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-22T114955.089-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 bandiere rosse che dimostrano che lui \u00e8 davvero sbagliato per te\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-22T114955.089-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-22T114955.089-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-22T114955.089.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are many aspects of a relationship that are required to make it work. It\u2019s never just one thing that went wrong when a relationship fails, there are always many factors that contributed to its eventual doom. One of those important factors in a relationship is the texting between you and your partner. 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