{"id":35796,"date":"2020-05-22T10:13:02","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T10:13:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35796"},"modified":"2022-08-16T07:49:50","modified_gmt":"2022-08-16T07:49:50","slug":"7-tipi-di-testi-da-inviare-al-vostro-ex-per-riconquistarlo-con-esempi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-tipi-di-testi-da-inviare-al-vostro-ex-per-riconquistarlo-con-esempi\/","title":{"rendered":"7 tipi di messaggi da inviare al vostro ex per riconquistarlo (con esempi)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vi siete mai chiesti come riconquistare il vostro ex usando il potere dei messaggi di testo?<\/p>\n<p>Well, it is possible but only if you do it right (don\u2019t worry; the most difficult part will be covered by me!).<\/p>\n<p><strong>The reason why text messages are the best \u2018weapon\u2019 when it comes to getting your ex back is that they have the perfect amount of ambiguity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For example, if you call your ex all of a sudden, he might think that you need something (which doesn\u2019t have anything to do with you wanting him back) or if you send him an email it will probably end up without any chance of developing a meaningful conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Ma se gli inviate messaggi di testo appositamente studiati per incuriosirlo ma senza confermargli le vostre vere intenzioni, riuscirete a catturare la sua attenzione e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/gli-uomini-impazziscono-per-le-donne-che-fanno-queste-5-piccole-cose\/\">per farlo tornare ad essere attratto da voi<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>L'accento \u00e8 posto su <strong>\u2018specifically-designed text messages\u2019<\/strong> perch\u00e9 se inviate al vostro ex qualsiasi cosa, non otterrete gli stessi risultati (probabilmente non riuscirete a riconquistarlo).<\/p>\n<p>Correlato: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/segni-che-lex-vuole-tornare-disperatamente\/\">10 segni evidenti che il tuo ex ti rivuole (ma non lo ammette)<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84273\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna con il telefono in mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se inviate messaggi bisognosi come, <em>\u201cHey, I still have feelings for you. Please come back to me!\u201d<\/em> Lo spegner\u00e0 e non sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 interessato a risponderti.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate di non inviare mai nulla che sia in stretta relazione con l'essere bisognosi, arrabbiati, giudicanti o disperati.<\/p>\n<p>State lontani da tutti i tipi di testi negativi e concentratevi solo su quelli che seguono!<\/p>\n<p>Chi lo sa, forse <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/segni-evidenti-che-il-tuo-ex-sta-fingendo-di-averti-dimenticato\/\">il tuo ex fa finta di averti dimenticato<\/a> the same way you&#8217;re pretending to be over him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7 TIPI DI MESSAGGI DA INVIARE AL VOSTRO EX <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/15-modi-efficaci-per-far-si-che-lui-ti-rivoglia-in-poco-tempo\/\">PER RIPRENDERLO<\/a> (CON ESEMPI)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Come si pu\u00f2 vedere, i seguenti tipi di messaggi di testo sono suddivisi in 7 categorie.<\/p>\n<p>The first four are like \u2018ice-breakers\u2019 if you have had no contact with your ex since when you separated.<\/p>\n<p>Gli ultimi tre servono a creare attrazione e ad approfondire le conversazioni.<\/p>\n<p>Potete saltare queste categorie in base alla vostra situazione attuale!<\/p>\n<p>Correlato: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/segni-che-lex-vuole-tornare-disperatamente\/\">10 segni evidenti che il tuo ex ti rivuole (ma non lo ammette)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il testo della memoria<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84275\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-young-girl-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane ragazza felice che scrive sul suo telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-young-girl-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Come suggerisce il nome, i messaggi di testo ricordo servono a far sapere al vostro ex che qualcosa vi ha ricordato di lui.<\/p>\n<p>Pu\u00f2 essere una serie televisiva, una situazione di vita reale o qualsiasi altra cosa vi venga in mente.<\/p>\n<p>Il segreto \u00e8 mantenere un tono leggero e non dargli l'idea di avere un disperato bisogno di lui.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esempio: &nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHey, I was just walking down the (St. Johns) street and came across a new (Chinese) restaurant. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It instantly reminded me of you when you told me how much you liked their (specific food). Anyways, how have you been?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il testo del consiglio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84274\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-looks-down-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"la donna abbassa lo sguardo e digita sul suo telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-looks-down-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-looks-down-and-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-looks-down-and-typing-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il modo pi\u00f9 semplice per avviare un contatto con il vostro ex \u00e8 chiedergli di darvi consigli e aiuto per qualcosa.<\/p>\n<p>Regarding this, you need to find something that he is really good at so that he doesn\u2019t realize that you\u2019re just fooling around with him.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete trovare qualcosa che lo interessi e che lo faccia sentire un supereroe, il che lo avviciner\u00e0 immediatamente a voi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esempio:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHey, my nephew has difficulty with this weird math problem and none of us could solve it. Can I ask you about it?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If he says yes (and he most definitely will), always remember to thank him after he finishes it and you may as well add again that famous question, \u201c<em>How have you been?\u201d<\/em> per iniziare una conversazione significativa con lui.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/un-testo-di-12-parole-per-riconquistarlo\/\">Testo di 12 parole per riconquistarlo: 10 modi per usarlo + esempi<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il testo dell'elefante nella stanza<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84276\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-wearing-jacket-and-brown-scarf-typing-on-her-phone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna con giacca e sciarpa marrone che scrive al telefono all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-wearing-jacket-and-brown-scarf-typing-on-her-phone-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-wearing-jacket-and-brown-scarf-typing-on-her-phone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-wearing-jacket-and-brown-scarf-typing-on-her-phone-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se la vostra relazione \u00e8 finita in termini non proprio positivi, cio\u00e8 se voi o il vostro ex avete tradito l'altro, se vi siete comportati in modo bisognoso o avete commesso molti errori che vi hanno impedito di concludere le cose in modo pacifico, allora dovete riconoscere l'elefante nella stanza.<\/p>\n<p>In sintesi, dovete fare tabula rasa e potete farlo nel modo seguente.<\/p>\n<p>First, you have to apologize for whatever happened during the break-up, acknowledge that you\u2019ve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-segnali-che-indicano-che-non-avete-ancora-accettato-la-vostra-rottura\/\">ha accettato la rottura<\/a> (that you\u2019re over it) and you need to reassure him that you\u2019ve changed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esempio:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI\u2019m so sorry that we needed to end things like that. I wanted you to know that I\u2019ve accepted things as they are and I\u2019m over everything bad that happened. I\u2019ve realized that I was needy and I started working on myself.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Un testo di compleanno<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84277\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-girl-looking-at-her-phone-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Ragazza felice che guarda il suo telefono al bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-girl-looking-at-her-phone-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-girl-looking-at-her-phone-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-girl-looking-at-her-phone-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando si tratta di mandare un messaggio al proprio ex nel giorno del suo compleanno, \u00e8 sempre meglio mantenerlo breve, diretto e senza parole inutili che potrebbero dargli un'impressione sbagliata. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>La cosa pi\u00f9 importante da ricordare \u00e8 di non usare mai un messaggio di auguri per esprimere le proprie emozioni o parlare della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>It should only include parts that are relevant to the occasion, which is enough to let your ex know that you think of him but you\u2019re not desperate or needy for him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esempio:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHey, happy birthday! I hope you have a great year ahead.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Costruire un testo di attrazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84278\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-plaid-shirt-and-leaning-on-wooden-floor-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente che indossa una camicia a quadri e si appoggia al pavimento di legno e digita sul suo cellulare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-plaid-shirt-and-leaning-on-wooden-floor-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-plaid-shirt-and-leaning-on-wooden-floor-and-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-plaid-shirt-and-leaning-on-wooden-floor-and-typing-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once you\u2019ve initiated a conversation for the first time, you have to then work on rebuilding the attraction using text messages.<\/p>\n<p>In questo caso, \u00e8 necessario prestare attenzione alle sue preferenze, alla sua personalit\u00e0 e a ci\u00f2 che lo interessa veramente.<\/p>\n<p>Si vuole ideare il messaggio di testo perfetto che abbia tutti gli elementi cruciali per <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-ways-to-make-him-stick-to-you-like-glue\/\">scatenare il suo interesse per voi<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esempi: <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se \u00e8 pi\u00f9 introverso, \u00e8 meglio inviargli un messaggio come questo:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI went to my aunt\u2019s place yesterday. I played with her birds, we played hide and seek in the forest (along with my little nephew) and later she read us some amazing horror stories. It was perfect and I wish you had been there.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Se invece \u00e8 un tipo pi\u00f9 estroverso, \u00e8 meglio inviare qualcosa di pi\u00f9 simile a questo:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI just went to this crazy party last night with my friends and it was totally amazing! I wish you had been there with me\/us!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Creare un legame e un testo di fiducia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84281\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"giovane ragazza che scrive sul suo telefono all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci vuole molto tempo per ricostruire il legame e la fiducia con il vostro ex e inviargli messaggi di testo che gli assicurino le vostre pure intenzioni vi permetter\u00e0 di fare met\u00e0 del vostro lavoro.<\/p>\n<p>Sii onesta con lui e digli come stanno realmente le cose, perch\u00e9 questo \u00e8 l'unico modo per riconquistarlo!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esempio:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHonestly, a part of me still wants you back but I\u2019m okay with whatever happens. I understand why we broke up and I\u2019ve learned so much from it. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I\u2019ve realized that it is kind of good that it happened because now I am able to see things differently. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I feel good right now and I\u2019m texting you just because I miss being in touch with you. I\u2019m just interested in seeing what happens.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Chiedergli di uscire<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84280\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-glass-of-juice-while-sitting-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna che tiene in mano uno smartphone e un bicchiere di succo di frutta mentre \u00e8 seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-glass-of-juice-while-sitting-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-glass-of-juice-while-sitting-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-glass-of-juice-while-sitting-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once you\u2019ve gone through all of the previous steps and types of text messages and now you\u2019re texting or speaking to him regularly, it is finally time to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/come-chiedere-a-un-ragazzo-di-essere-il-vostro-fidanzato-10-modi-per-farlo\/\">chiedere al proprio ex di uscire<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But remember to proceed with this type of text message only if you\u2019ve received all positive answers to your previous ones.<\/p>\n<p>Il modo migliore per chiedere al vostro ex di uscire \u00e8, ancora una volta, quello di essere semplici e diretti al punto.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to make a big deal out of it and you don\u2019t want to pressure him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esempio:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Here is the perfect way to ask him out: \u201c<em>Hey, I\u2019ll be in (area near your ex\u2019s place or office) tomorrow, you wanna catch up for coffee?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Se sembra titubante, rassicuratelo ancora una volta che si tratta solo di un caff\u00e8 e di una semplice uscita (non ha nulla a che vedere con un vero appuntamento).<\/p>\n<p>And when he realizes how much he enjoys your company, he might as well ask you out next time\u2014on a real, official date!<\/p>\n<p>Correlato: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/come-vendicarsi-del-proprio-ex-12-modi-provati-per-farlo\/\">Come vendicarsi del proprio ex: 12 modi comprovati per farlo<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84271\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/7-Types-Of-Texts-To-Send-Your-Ex-To-Get-Him-Back-With-Examples-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 tipi di messaggi da inviare al vostro ex per riconquistarlo (con esempi)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/7-Types-Of-Texts-To-Send-Your-Ex-To-Get-Him-Back-With-Examples-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/7-Types-Of-Texts-To-Send-Your-Ex-To-Get-Him-Back-With-Examples-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever wondered how to get your ex back by using the power of text messages? Well, it is possible but only if you do it right (don\u2019t worry; the most difficult part will be covered by me!). The reason why text messages are the best \u2018weapon\u2019 when it comes to getting your ex back is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":84272,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35796","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/7-Types-Of-Texts-To-Send-Your-Ex-To-Get-Him-Back-With-Examples.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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