{"id":35886,"date":"2020-06-24T09:19:13","date_gmt":"2020-06-24T09:19:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35886"},"modified":"2022-08-12T08:03:23","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T08:03:23","slug":"5-segnali-di-allarme-che-indicano-che-la-vostra-relazione-e-la-vera-causa-della-vostra-depressione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-segnali-di-allarme-che-indicano-che-la-vostra-relazione-e-la-vera-causa-della-vostra-depressione\/","title":{"rendered":"5 segnali di allarme che indicano che la vostra relazione \u00e8 la vera causa della vostra depressione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Before you\u2019re certain that you\u2019re actually depressed, it\u2019s a smart choice to first take a look at the people around you and make sure that they\u2019re not in fact the ones making you feel this way.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>La depressione \u00e8 una condizione grave che non va mai presa alla leggera.<\/p>\n<p>Oftentimes, it\u2019s extremely hard to recognize that you have it, as it is almost like an invisible cloud that simply overcomes your every day and leaves you feeling powerless.<\/p>\n<p>La voglia di vivere che avevate una volta \u00e8 sparita.<\/p>\n<p>Svegliarsi al mattino inizia a sembrare una fatica e trovare un motivo per non piangersi addosso quel giorno \u00e8 quasi impossibile.<\/p>\n<p>You are but a shadow of your former self and everywhere you look, there isn\u2019t a single thing that gives you joy or a glimpse of happiness.<\/p>\n<p>Nei giorni in cui vi sentite persi, incompresi e completamente impotenti, \u00e8 davvero importante osservare attentamente le persone che vi sono pi\u00f9 vicine.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98191\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna depressa seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non \u00e8 raro che le persone a cui dovremmo essere pi\u00f9 vicini siano in realt\u00e0 quelle che ci fanno sentire uno schifo, senza che ce ne rendiamo conto.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-sposatevi-prima-di-conoscere-queste-5-cose-sul-vostro-partner\/\">Il vostro partner<\/a> is somebody who is supposed to make you feel better on days when you don\u2019t feel like yourself.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 la persona che dovrebbe incoraggiarvi e farvi vedere la forza e il potere che avete dentro di voi quando non riuscite a vederlo da soli.<\/p>\n<p><em>Il vostro partner vi fornisce parole di incoraggiamento e vi aiuta a sentirvi voi stessi nei giorni bui?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Oppure vi sta sottraendo pezzi di felicit\u00e0 e vi sta lentamente facendo perdere il controllo della vostra vita. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sono-inutile\/\">sentirsi inutile<\/a> e impotente ogni giorno che passa?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Se avete la sensazione che la vostra relazione di coppia stia aumentando la vostra infelicit\u00e0 e vi faccia sentire depressi, qui potrete trovare le risposte che cercate.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ecco 5 segnali di allarme che indicano che la vostra relazione \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 la vera causa della vostra depressione.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Il vostro partner vi fa sentire piccoli o insignificanti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98192\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart.jpg\" alt=\"coppia in lite seduta sul letto a distanza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-in-argue-sitting-on-the-bed-apart-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>L'uguaglianza \u00e8 la chiave di ogni relazione sana.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 importante che sia voi che il vostro partner apprezziate ci\u00f2 che ciascuno di voi apporta alla relazione e che non vi mettiate mai l'uno contro l'altro.<\/p>\n<p>If your partner and his actions make you feel worthless or small in any way, that is a toxic environment to be in and is in no way something you should tolerate\u2014ever.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t make you feel good about yourself and puts you down whenever he feels like it, get out of there and don\u2019t let him make you feel like less than you are.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo cos\u00ec \u00e8 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/un-uomo-come-lui-non-vale-le-tue-lacrime\/\">non vale le tue lacrime<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Your partner doesn\u2019t shy away from criticizing you or pointing out your mistakes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98193\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che parla con una donna arrabbiata\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-to-angry-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t remember the last time you got positive feedback from him for anything you did.<\/p>\n<p>Sembra che ogni cosa che fai sia sbagliata e lui si assicura che tu ne sia dolorosamente consapevole.<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing you can do that he will find worthy of a compliment and it\u2019s a daily struggle coping with his harsh words.<\/p>\n<p>He makes sure you know your place and listen to what he says, because he knows best and that\u2019s that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il vostro partner vi controlla eccessivamente e vi lascia poca libert\u00e0 di prendere le vostre decisioni.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98194\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta accanto al suo ragazzo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-next-to-her-boyfriend-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 lui che decide quali amici sono buoni per voi e di quali dovete liberarvi.<\/p>\n<p>Vi dice dove siete autorizzati ad andare e quando, e dovete fare rapporto a lui durante quel periodo.<\/p>\n<p>In pratica, vi sentite come un uccello in gabbia e pregate e sperate che i suoi modi compulsivi e controllanti si plachino, ma \u00e8 altamente improbabile che ci\u00f2 accada.<\/p>\n<p>Spending time being controlled and bossed around is definitely making you feel worse about yourself with each day and until you stand up for yourself, it\u2019s not going to get better.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il vostro partner ignora i vostri bisogni emotivi e vi allontana quando vi sentite vulnerabili.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98195\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"coppia infelice seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che avete voglia di parlare di qualcosa che vi preoccupa, che vi fa stare male, lui non \u00e8 interessato a sentirlo.<\/p>\n<p>Ti fa sentire come se esagerassi tutto e questo non fa che aumentare il tuo senso di solitudine e di inutilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Ti fa credere che i tuoi sentimenti non siano validi e che tu stia solo cercando attenzioni, che lui si rifiuta di darti.<\/p>\n<p>Essere allontanati dalla persona che si ama \u00e8 straziante e non fa bene alla mente e all'anima.<\/p>\n<p>I vostri sentimenti sono importanti e non dovreste mai lasciare che un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/una-lettera-alluomo-tossico-che-non-voleva-andarsene\/\">uomo tossico<\/a> farvi credere il contrario.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il vostro partner ha problemi di rabbia che spesso sfoga su di voi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98196\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che urla contro una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-yelling-at-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Avere un partner con sbalzi d'umore eccessivi e non sapere quando esploder\u00e0 pu\u00f2 facilmente contribuire a creare sentimenti di depressione e solitudine.<\/p>\n<p>And being in that toxic environment for a long period of time can only make it worse and make you feel like it\u2019s somehow your fault, when in fact it couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>You have to be extra careful around him and watch your every move because you simply don\u2019t know what will agitate him.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 una situazione emotivamente drenante e chiunque sia esposto a questo tipo di comportamento volatile \u00e8 destinato a sentirsi male con se stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Per questo motivo \u00e8 necessario assicurarsi di allontanarsi da questo comportamento tossico prima di diagnosticarsi una depressione.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 probabile che sia il vostro partner a farvi sentire in questo modo e una volta che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-scuse-che-gli-uomini-usano-per-sottrarsi-allimpegno\/\">allontanarsi<\/a> e cancellarlo dalla vostra mente, vi accorgerete di stare molto meglio.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t cling on to this mistake just because you have spent a lot of time with him.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s pointless making yourself go through this when there is so much happiness waiting for you outside of this relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Siate abbastanza coraggiosi da lasciar perdere, perch\u00e9 non appena lo farete, inizierete a ritrovare il vostro vecchio io e quella ragazza forte e tosta non vorr\u00e0 pi\u00f9 guardarsi indietro!<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98190\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Warning-Signs-Your-Relationship-Is-The-Real-Cause-Of-Your-Depression-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 segnali di allarme che indicano che la vostra relazione \u00e8 la vera causa della vostra depressione\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Warning-Signs-Your-Relationship-Is-The-Real-Cause-Of-Your-Depression-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Warning-Signs-Your-Relationship-Is-The-Real-Cause-Of-Your-Depression-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Warning-Signs-Your-Relationship-Is-The-Real-Cause-Of-Your-Depression-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before you\u2019re certain that you\u2019re actually depressed, it\u2019s a smart choice to first take a look at the people around you and make sure that they\u2019re not in fact the ones making you feel this way. Depression is a serious condition that is never to be taken lightly. Oftentimes, it\u2019s extremely hard to recognize that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":98197,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35886","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-depression"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29635,"label":"depression"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Warning-Signs-Your-Relationship-Is-The-Real-Cause-Of-Your-Depression.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29635,"name":"depression","slug":"depression","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29635,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","parent":22911,"count":23,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29635,"category_count":23,"category_description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","cat_name":"depression","category_nicename":"depression","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35886","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35886"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35886\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98197"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35886"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35886"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35886"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}