{"id":35996,"date":"2020-04-26T07:33:41","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T07:33:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35996"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:39:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:39:40","slug":"se-fa-questi-7-giochi-di-relazione-immaturi-sta-sprecando-il-vostro-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-fa-questi-7-giochi-di-relazione-immaturi-sta-sprecando-il-vostro-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"Se gioca a questi 7 giochi di relazione immaturi, sta sprecando il vostro tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>L'amore non \u00e8 un gioco, punto.<\/p>\n<p>Chiunque la tratti come tale \u00e8 un individuo immaturo che semplicemente non \u00e8 pronto per l'impegno che una vera relazione adulta comporta.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s okay. Because recognizing when people are merely <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/i-giochi-hanno-finito-di-giocare\/\">giochi<\/a> nella vostra relazione vi rende molto pi\u00f9 facile uscirne prima di essere troppo coinvolti e andarvene alle vostre condizioni.<\/p>\n<p>Gli uomini che entrano in una relazione solo per non rimanere soli, finch\u00e9 non arriva qualcuno di meglio, non sono altro che mocciosi viziati e immaturi che non hanno il diritto di giocare con il vostro cuore in questo modo!<\/p>\n<p>You would devote every fiber of your being to this guy and keep your relationship sacred and close to your heart, while he\u2019s out there low-key exploring the field and contemplating his options!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82031\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa seduta alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him. React in time.<\/p>\n<p>Ammettete a voi stesse quando il vostro uomo si sta comportando in modo losco e non \u00e8 pienamente coinvolto, e risparmiatevi l'imbarazzo di essere trascinate da un coglione immaturo!<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, losing that kind of guy won\u2019t be a loss at all.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, you\u2019ll be the one who wins, because losing someone who added nothing to your life is only going to better your chances of finding <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/rimanere-single-fino-a-quando-non-si-trovera-qualcuno-a-cui-importi-davvero-qualcosa-di-te\/\">qualcuno che se ne frega davvero<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p><em>Questi sono i 7 segnali pi\u00f9 comuni che indicano che il vostro uomo sta facendo degli stupidi giochi di coppia e che vi sta facendo perdere tempo (ma non per molto!).<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He wants to keep the relationship on the down-low and doesn\u2019t let you talk about it to your friends much<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82032\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-having-breakfast.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seria che fa colazione\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-having-breakfast.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-having-breakfast-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-having-breakfast-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t go out to places where many people could see you and he doesn\u2019t hold your hand in public (only during rare moments when there are no people around).<\/p>\n<p>You feel like he really goes to extreme lengths to keep your relationship a secret and it\u2019s all under false pretenses that it\u2019s better if it\u2019s just between you two, like it\u2019s somehow more meaningful.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t like this at all but you go along with it, hoping it would change with time.<\/p>\n<p>But things haven\u2019t improved one bit; he\u2019s still <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/rimanere-single-fino-a-quando-non-si-trovera-qualcuno-a-cui-importi-davvero-qualcosa-di-te\/\">mantenere un segreto su di te<\/a>, you\u2019re not really sure why and you\u2019re totally annoyed by it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Non mostra alcuna coerenza nella relazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82033\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"coppia infelice seduta sul pavimento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Relationships require effort and consistency in order to thrive but so far, he hasn\u2019t demonstrated either of the two.<\/p>\n<p>When it suits him, he\u2019s being all nice and considerate toward you but he can switch it off just like that and become a total prick.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t really rely on him to be a certain way for a long period of time, because he\u2019s so flaky. And he doesn\u2019t seem to want to change that at all.<\/p>\n<p>He is simply not consistent with showing you any type of affection and you oftentimes consider breaking it off but those rare moments when he does behave nicely reassure you (even though they shouldn\u2019t).<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Finge di interessarsi alle cose che vi piacciono per i suoi scopi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82034\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-listening-to-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio che ascolta una donna che parla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-listening-to-woman-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-listening-to-woman-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-listening-to-woman-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you talk about something you\u2019re passionate about and really hold dear to your heart, you feel like he only agrees with you for the sake of agreeing.<\/p>\n<p>There isn\u2019t any genuine curiosity on his part in any aspect of your life or your passions, only feigned interest when he wants to gain something from you (<em>sesso, la vostra attenzione o ha bisogno di aiuto con qualcosa di<\/em>).<\/p>\n<p>He is being fake and dishonest and deep down you know those aren\u2019t the qualities of a boyfriend who truly cares about you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-ti-amasse-davvero-si-assicurerebbe-che-tu-lo-sappia\/\">Se ti ha amato davvero<\/a>, sarebbe interessato a tutte le parti di voi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Si fa in quattro per farti sentire gelosa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82035\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-on-phone-while-woman-is-jealous.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che parla al telefono mentre la donna \u00e8 gelosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-on-phone-while-woman-is-jealous.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-on-phone-while-woman-is-jealous-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-on-phone-while-woman-is-jealous-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It makes him feel good about himself when you act out in jealousy and he doesn\u2019t really seem to mind. It boosts his ego and feeds his immature soul.<\/p>\n<p>He constantly puts you in a position to question his loyalty, even with the littlest things, and you\u2019re getting <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-motivi-di-rottura-che-ogni-ragazza-e-stufa-di-sentire-e-cosa-significano\/\">malato e stanco<\/a> of it but you simply don\u2019t want to admit that he\u2019s doing it on purpose.<\/p>\n<p>Il punto \u00e8 che un uomo che vi ama non vi farebbe mai dubitare delle sue intenzioni.<\/p>\n<p>Only immature boys play games like that and that\u2019s because they still have a lot of growing up to do.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti fa aspettare ore per un semplice messaggio di risposta, non importa quanto sia importante.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82037\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che guarda il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to seem too eager, so he takes his time getting back to you.<\/p>\n<p>He rarely texts back within a reasonable amount of time and even when it\u2019s just a simple question, he\u2019s going to make you wait for it.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 completamente sconsiderato e non apprezza il vostro tempo e i vostri sentimenti e lo fa solo per sentirsi importante, come una sorta di macho, quando in realt\u00e0 non \u00e8 altro che un moccioso egoista.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ci sono ancora app di incontri sul suo telefono (la pi\u00f9 grande bandiera rossa!)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82038\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che guarda il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a guy you\u2019re supposed to be in a relationship with still keeps dating apps on his phone, there really isn\u2019t much to say to back it up, other than he\u2019s clearly still browsing his options!<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t waste your time, because if he can\u2019t even bother to hide it and leaves it right there for you to see, he is clearly not interested in anything serious with you and he doesn\u2019t even care how this makes you feel.<\/p>\n<p>One word\u2014run!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He refuses to put a label on your relationship and you don\u2019t even know where you stand<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82039\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-standing-worried.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna preoccupata\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-standing-worried.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-standing-worried-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-standing-worried-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to have the conversation to discuss where you two are and what exactly you are in the first place and when you suggest defining your relationship, he is against it.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t like putting labels on things, it makes him feel pressured, so he just keeps things up in the air, giving you zero reassurance he\u2019s in it one hundred percent.<\/p>\n<p>Lascia che le cose scorrano e al solo sentir parlare di impegno si tira indietro.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 chiaro che questo ragazzo non ha alcun interesse ad avere una relazione adulta e ti consiglio vivamente di lasciare il suo culo immaturo e di andare a cercare qualcuno che sappia davvero comportarsi alla sua et\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>He is only wasting your precious time and those types of guys don\u2019t really change.<\/p>\n<p>Do yourself a favor and leave. It\u2019s the only right decision in this situation and it\u2019s going to make you feel liberated AF!<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82029\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-He-Plays-These-7-Immature-Relationship-Games-He\u2019s-Wasting-Your-Time-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se gioca a questi 7 giochi di relazione immaturi, sta sprecando il vostro tempo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-He-Plays-These-7-Immature-Relationship-Games-He\u2019s-Wasting-Your-Time-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-He-Plays-These-7-Immature-Relationship-Games-He\u2019s-Wasting-Your-Time-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love isn\u2019t a game, period. Anyone who treats it as such is an immature individual who is simply not ready for a commitment that a real, grown-up relationship entails. And that\u2019s okay. Because recognizing when people are merely playing games in your relationship makes it that much easier for you to get out of there&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":82040,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35996","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-He-Plays-These-7-Immature-Relationship-Games-He\u2019s-Wasting-Your-Time.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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