{"id":36000,"date":"2020-04-26T09:30:16","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T09:30:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36000"},"modified":"2022-06-08T16:45:23","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T16:45:23","slug":"12-trucchi-per-convincere-un-uomo-a-sposarvi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/12-trucchi-per-convincere-un-uomo-a-sposarvi\/","title":{"rendered":"12 trucchi per farsi sposare da un uomo"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s one thing to win a man over, to sweep him off his feet, but cosa devi fare per convincerlo a impegnarsi?<\/a><\/p>\n

In altre parole, come ottenere un uomo da sposare<\/a>? Quali sono i trucchi per renderlo possibile?<\/p>\n

Di solito gli uomini si sentono a proprio agio in una certa fase della relazione.<\/p>\n

E l'aspetto divertente, ma anche cos\u00ec frustrante, \u00e8 che questa \u00e8 la fase di una relazione che \u00e8 noiosa per una donna.<\/p>\n

That stage is exactly what you\u2019re trying to avoid.<\/p>\n

What happens is that he gets comfortable and you\u2019re at the edge of your seat because you want things to go further and take your relationship to the next level \u2013 a more serious level.<\/p>\n

In other words, you\u2019re waiting for him to fare la domanda<\/a>ma sembra che si trovi a suo agio proprio dove siete voi due.  <\/p>\n

Cosa fare quando impazzisce al solo pensiero del matrimonio?<\/h2>\n
\"coppia<\/figure>\n

What happens is that you need to play the game. You\u2019re not going to manipulate, you\u2019re not going to play dirty. You\u2019re going to play smart.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not going to lie, you\u2019re just going to present who you are and convince him that he needs you \u2013 actually, you\u2019re not going to convince him, you\u2019re going to show him with your behavior.<\/p>\n

Men are like that. They think they are hard to understand, but actually, they are very easy to read \u2013 and it\u2019s ugly to say manipulate \u2013 but let\u2019s say it\u2019s easy to make them think they have done something on their own, where in fact, you had a huge role in affecting their decision.<\/p>\n

Come convincere un uomo a sposarvi?<\/h2>\n

Maybe you think you\u2019ve done everything, but I bet there are some things that you haven\u2019t tried yet, maybe even some you haven\u2019t even considered doing because they seemed too trivial.<\/p>\n

1. Amare se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s cheesy and ever-present, but it\u2019s only like that because it\u2019s true. If you don\u2019t love yourself, you can\u2019t love anyone else.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re unhappy with the way you look or  behave, if you\u2019re not satisfied with who you are, nothing and no one else will ever be enough.<\/p>\n

And this I\u2019m speaking from experience. Every time a problem appears in your life, start solving it by working on yourself.<\/p>\n

When you deal with all your issues and accept yourself for who you are and forgive yourself for what you resent, you\u2019ll be able to move forward.<\/p>\n

Therefore, love yourself. Analyze things you don\u2019t like and change them. You can do it if you really want to.<\/p>\n

2. Fatelo uscire con i vostri amici sposati<\/h2>\n
\"gruppo<\/figure>\n

Sapete che a volte le persone che si frequentano per un periodo di tempo pi\u00f9 lungo iniziano a comportarsi come l'altro?<\/p>\n

Cominciano a parlare allo stesso modo e, in casi estremi, iniziano persino ad assomigliarsi.<\/p>\n

Questo fenomeno si chiama rispecchiamento<\/em>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a behavior in which one person, without being aware of it, imitates another person\u2019s speech pattern, body language, or attitude.<\/p>\n

This happens in everyday interaction and both the person who is mirroring and the person being mirrored don\u2019t pick up on the fact that it\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n

Why am I saying this? Well, if you get him to hang out with your married friends and he happens to like them, he\u2019ll pick up on their behavior and he\u2019ll start mirroring them, which will make the idea of marriage more appealing than ever.<\/p>\n

I vostri amici sposati gli dimostreranno che il matrimonio ha i suoi alti e bassi, ma alla fine della giornata l'amore che provate l'uno per l'altro vince sempre.<\/p>\n

Alcuni uomini sono pi\u00f9 cauti quando si tratta di matrimonio perch\u00e9 provengono da famiglie disastrate.<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che hanno imparato e sentito \u00e8 stato il litigio e la mancanza di rispetto. Pertanto, il matrimonio ha una connotazione negativa per loro.<\/p>\n

Cercate di dimostrare che si sbagliano. Dimostrate loro con i vostri amici sposati che le cose non vanno sempre male.<\/p>\n

3. Mantenere sempre viva la comunicazione<\/h2>\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n

The moment you stop the communication, you\u2019re going to be facing real problems.<\/p>\n

Vedete, finch\u00e9 parlate con il vostro partner, qualsiasi tipo di danno pu\u00f2 essere annullato. La conversazione pu\u00f2 risolvere qualsiasi conflitto.<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t feel negative things toward your partner, you have to talk to him.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re positive, when he has done something praiseworthy, let him know he has done a good thing. Simply put, share every little thing with your partner.<\/p>\n

La comunicazione \u00e8 fondamentale fin dall'inizio della relazione e per tutta la durata del matrimonio.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not easy to live with one person for the rest of your life, even se si ama profondamente quella persona<\/a>. Pertanto, non tenete mai le cose sepolte dentro di voi.<\/p>\n

Quando diventerete una persona orientata alla comunicazione, lui vi sposer\u00e0 sicuramente.<\/p>\n

4. Fate in modo che abbia bisogno di voi<\/h2>\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n

If you want to have him forever, you\u2019ll have to become everything to him.<\/p>\n

When he needs a friend, you\u2019ll have to be one, when he needs someone to watch the game with, you\u2019ll have to do it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll have to be a lover, friend, support, and hobby partner \u2013 all in one.<\/p>\n

As you\u2019ll see, it isn\u2019t that hard to do. Maybe it sounds like a lot of work, but when you love someone, you already are all of those things to that person.<\/p>\n

Diventate il pacchetto completo se volete averlo nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Make him need you by making his time with you priceless. When you\u2019re together, you\u2019ll laugh and make beautiful memories.<\/p>\n

He wouldn\u2019t want to walk away from that. Tone down the drama to a minimum and enjoy life with the person you love.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, un'altra cosa fondamentale che apprezzer\u00e0 pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa \u00e8 concedergli del tempo da solo.<\/p>\n

Tutti gli uomini ne hanno bisogno e, a dire il vero, anche voi ne avete bisogno. Dovete dargli spazio, tempo per pensare e affrontare le sue cose da solo.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what he does when he\u2019s alone. One thing matters only \u2013 that he respects the fact you\u2019re letting him breathe.<\/p>\n

Gli dimostra solo che siete abbastanza sicuri di voi stessi da lasciarlo andare via. Gli dimostra che vi fidate di lui.<\/p>\n

He will realize that being with you doesn\u2019t mean his freedom will vanish.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll realize nothing will change, except the fact he\u2019ll have constant support by his side.<\/p>\n

5. Rimanere naturali<\/h2>\n
\"giovane<\/figure>\n

You don\u2019t need fake boobs or lips to be attractive.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, l'attrazione fisica non \u00e8 l'unico tipo di attrazione<\/a> e col tempo si affievolisce, ed \u00e8 il motivo per cui la maggior parte delle relazioni fallisce.<\/p>\n

L'attrazione viene dall'interno, dalla vostra stessa essenza e nessun intervento di chirurgia plastica pu\u00f2 superarla.<\/p>\n

You have to show your partner the real you. When you get up in the morning, you won\u2019t be wearing any makeup.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be covering your natural face when you sleep beside the man you love.<\/p>\n

And he doesn\u2019t want you to do that. He doesn’t want you to hide the real you.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, vi garantisco che gli piacerete di pi\u00f9 senza trucco che con tutta la facciata.<\/p>\n

Nessun uomo vuole che la propria compagna nasconda chi \u00e8 veramente per il resto della vita.<\/p>\n

6. Rompere la routine<\/h2>\n
\"tre<\/figure>\n

Gli uomini si sentono facilmente a proprio agio e, una volta raggiunto questo stato, diventa una routine da cui \u00e8 difficile uscire.<\/p>\n

Per esempio, il vostro uomo si \u00e8 abituato a vedervi a casa ogni volta che lui torna dal lavoro, o a vedervi a casa il venerd\u00ec sera per guardare Netflix.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec da sempre. \u00c8 abituato a vederti sempre presente. Beh, siate abbastanza intelligenti e scuotete un po' le cose.<\/p>\n

When he comes from work, don\u2019t be at home. Go out with your friends on a Friday night. Do something he doesn\u2019t expect you to do.<\/p>\n

In a way, you\u2019re letting him know that you too have a life of your own and it doesn\u2019t have to revolve around his.<\/p>\n

Break your routine and shake him up a bit. He\u2019ll realize you won\u2019t wait for him forever.<\/p>\n

7. Mantenere l'aspetto sexy<\/h2>\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n

We\u2019ve already covered the whole physical attraction aspect. We\u2019ve agreed on the fact that it doesn\u2019t matter that much in the long run.<\/p>\n

This is still true, but it doesn\u2019t mean you should stop being sexy, that you should stop trying.<\/p>\n

Ci sono donne che si lasciano andare completamente quando hanno una relazione lunga e seria.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know why that happens, but I can guess \u2013 they get too comfortable; they are sure their partner is there for them and he isn\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

Well, that lack of effort is the number one relationship killer. You\u2019re stuck in a rut of which you can\u2019t get out.<\/p>\n

La relazione diventa sempre pi\u00f9 noiosa ogni giorno che passa e ci si ritrova infelici in un rapporto che prima funzionava.<\/p>\n

Keep sexy alive and don\u2019t become boring and unpredictable. After all, he is not only marrying a friend but a lover, too.<\/p>\n

8. Dare suggerimenti sulla partenza<\/h2>\n
\"vista<\/figure>\n

\u00c8 possibile farlo se tutto il resto fallisce.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve tried to play this smart and fair but it didn\u2019t work, then it\u2019s time to bring out the big guns and play the game, badass style.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for a little bit of manipulation.<\/p>\n

Se vedete che la vostra relazione \u00e8 in fase di stallo, dovete semplicemente fare qualcosa per far ripartire le cose e svegliare il vostro partner.<\/p>\n

Casually mention that you\u2019re really thinking about moving to another city because you have a job opportunity or just let him know that you\u2019re bored with the place you\u2019re in right now and you want something new and exciting.<\/p>\n

But never leave things just at words. Make plans like you\u2019re really going to do it. Make your plan believable and real.<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t have any plans, make him believe that you do.<\/p>\n

Fate tutto il necessario per scuoterlo un po' e fargli capire che ha bisogno di voi e che vuole passare la sua vita con voi.<\/p>\n

A volte gli uomini hanno bisogno di una piccola spinta.<\/p>\n

Correlato: Quanto tempo frequentare prima di fidanzarsi a 30 anni: 10 cose da sapere<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

9. Essere emotivamente stabili<\/h2>\n
\"giovane<\/figure>\n

Nessuno vuole una regina del dramma al proprio fianco. Troppa passione e troppe cose non sono una buona cosa.<\/p>\n

You need to be balanced \u2013 not too cold and not too emotional.<\/p>\n

Men like stable women who don\u2019t lose their minds at every trifle and don\u2019t make a fuss about something that is not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n

When you think about it, why wouldn\u2019t they want a nice and stable woman by their side?<\/p>\n

Anche lei, come donna, \u00e8 alla ricerca di un uomo stabile che la sostenga per il resto della sua vita, giusto?<\/p>\n

Rimanere calmi e uniti non \u00e8 una cosa facile, perch\u00e9 la vita \u00e8 frenetica e succedono continuamente cose di ogni tipo.<\/p>\n

La vita pone sfide e problemi a ogni passo, e non tutti riescono ad affrontarli mantenendo la mente lucida.<\/p>\n

If you notice that you\u2019ve been dramatizing about things that are not important, or they are important to you but others don\u2019t see it that way, you should probably seek help.<\/p>\n

Rivolgetevi a un professionista che vi aiuter\u00e0 ad affrontare la vita senza creare problemi.<\/p>\n

10. Keep dating fun as it\u2019s supposed to be<\/h2>\n
\"coppia<\/figure>\n

Don\u2019t mention things before it\u2019s time to mention them. You\u2019ll ruin everything.<\/p>\n

The most important thing you have to do if you want a man to marry you is to never pressure him. Don\u2019t even joke about getting married.<\/p>\n

Men take commitment very seriously and they won\u2019t do it if they aren\u2019t ready.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re pressuring them, it will only make them back off and completely walk away.<\/p>\n

You have to let things go their natural course. While you\u2019re dating, you\u2019re dating.<\/p>\n

Quando vi vede come una persona con cui potrebbe passare la sua vita, si impegner\u00e0 con voi.<\/p>\n

When he commits to you, then you can start talking about the future, although he will probably do it first. Slowly, you\u2019ll realize he\u2019s showing signs he\u2019s about to pop the question<\/a>.  <\/p>\n

11. Il romanticismo \u00e8 una strada a doppio senso<\/h2>\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n

You can\u2019t expect him to be the romantic one. You have to put in some effort, too.<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t it nice when your loved one surprises you with a romantic dinner or a nice present for no apparent reason other than pure love?<\/p>\n

Beh, indovinate un po', sarebbe bello anche per lui. Non \u00e8 fatto di pietra, anche lui ha dei sentimenti.<\/p>\n

Se volete essere trattate da pari a pari, dovete dimostrargli che tenete a lui e che potete essere anche romantiche.<\/p>\n

Give him a reason to stay in this relationship. Don\u2019t expect him to give all the time while you just take and never give anything back.<\/p>\n

Se continuate a insistere su questo tipo di relazione, lui non vi sposer\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

12. Think about how you\u2019re going to do the talk<\/h2>\n
\"l'uomo<\/figure>\n

If you have a feeling that you\u2019re not on the same page relationship-wise, think about your approach to him because what you\u2019re feeling isn\u2019t necessarily what he\u2019s feeling.<\/p>\n

Invece di affrontarlo con un tono serio, cercate di mantenerlo leggero e positivo.<\/p>\n

Fate in modo che sembri che vogliate risolvere le cose e non rompere definitivamente.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even have to say anything; your body language is talking for you.<\/p>\n

Be light-hearted and think optimistically. That\u2019s the vibe you\u2019re going to pass onto him.<\/p>\n

Ditegli che avete intenzione di sposarvi in futuro e che volete stare con una persona che abbia i vostri stessi valori.<\/p>\n

Poi, chiedetegli se prova la stessa cosa e se si vede forse un giorno al vostro fianco.<\/p>\n

Vedete, l'onest\u00e0 \u00e8 sempre fondamentale. Ma il trucco sta nel modo in cui si dice ci\u00f2 che si pensa.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re going to say something, but you already have a bad feeling and you think it\u2019s not going to end well, you\u2019re letting that vibe spread to people around you.<\/p>\n

Ma se vi rivolgete alla vostra persona in modo allegro e positivo, quella stessa conversazione pu\u00f2 prendere un corso completamente diverso.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I\u2019m saying you should play this smart.<\/p>\n

Siate la donna che siete e portate questo gioco a un livello diverso, quello che solo voi sapete giocare.<\/p>\n

Presentatevi come siete e lui capir\u00e0 cosa deve fare, cosa sarebbe meglio fare per lui.<\/p>\n

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