{"id":36021,"date":"2019-04-26T09:46:28","date_gmt":"2019-04-26T09:46:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36021"},"modified":"2022-06-06T15:44:49","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T15:44:49","slug":"7-tragici-segnali-che-indicano-che-la-vostra-relazione-si-sta-lentamente-spegnendo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-tragici-segnali-che-indicano-che-la-vostra-relazione-si-sta-lentamente-spegnendo\/","title":{"rendered":"7 segni tragici che la vostra relazione si sta lentamente esaurendo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c8 sempre importante essere onesti e sinceri con se stessi, per quanto dura possa essere la realt\u00e0 che si sta affrontando.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sometimes, you stay in a relationship that you know has run its course, simply because it\u2019s familiar and comforting.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s nice having someone there, even if the thing that kept you together has started fizzling out\u2026<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s a hard pill to swallow, admitting to yourself that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-major-red-flags-show-relationship\/\">la vostra relazione \u00e8 finita<\/a>, because your pride is making you give it another try, even though you know there\u2019s really no point.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Prolungare l'inevitabile vi fa solo soffrire inutilmente e n\u00e9 voi n\u00e9 il vostro partner siete felici e appagati. Quindi chi vince?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s better to just rip off the band aid and face the facts, because that is the only healthy way to cope with a relationship that is no longer thriving.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Restare per le ragioni sbagliate non \u00e8 affatto un motivo per restare.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you feel like your relationship is heading towards its demise, it\u2019s likely that your gut is trying to tell you something, so you should pay close attention and listen to it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><em>Ecco 7 segnali che indicano che la vostra relazione si sta davvero bruciando lentamente e che non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 motivo di restare.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Non avete problemi a immaginarvi con qualcun altro<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If the thought of being intimate with another person doesn\u2019t repulse you at all, and actually makes you feel positive and excited, that\u2019s the first sign that you are already halfway out the door.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>When you are happy and fulfilled in a relationship, you can\u2019t really imagine being with another person.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Il pensiero di ci\u00f2 sarebbe impossibile, in quanto <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/7-tristi-segnali-di-perdita-di-interesse-per-il-partner\/\">il vostro partner<\/a> \u00e8 tutto ci\u00f2 che si pu\u00f2 desiderare.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But when you\u2019re already seeing yourself with another man (regardless of who it is), it\u2019s a true sign that it really is over, at least on your part. You just need to embrace it and accept it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Your goals and dreams are completely different and you can\u2019t find middle ground<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quando due persone si amano, si fanno in quattro per allineare al meglio i loro due mondi, con ogni mezzo necessario.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Il compromesso \u00e8 fondamentale per due partner con stili di vita diversi che vogliono davvero far funzionare le cose.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ma quando tu e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-segni-che-tu-e-il-tuo-uomo-siete-la-coppia-di-potere-per-eccellenza\/\">il tuo uomo<\/a> can\u2019t seem to find middle ground on anything, that\u2019s a huge problem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>That is something that is likely going to cause more and more friction in your future and it\u2019s only going to get messier.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quando si ama una persona, si fa del proprio meglio per farla funzionare.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But when you don\u2019t want to give up on any of your ideas and dreams, it signifies that your love is not that strong after all.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. You wouldn\u2019t trust him with your life<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This is the biggest red flag there is. If this person you\u2019re with is not somebody you would trust with your life, then what are you even still doing there?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Il vostro partner dovrebbe essere l'unica persona che ha la vostra completa fiducia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But if you find yourself unsure and uneasy about trusting him with serious things, you\u2019re truly done with this relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Qualunque sia la causa della mancanza di fiducia nel vostro partner ha chiaramente fatto il suo danno, e ora dovete solo trovare un modo per affrontarla al meglio e decidere come procedere.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Continuate a ripetere le stesse argomentazioni.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This is a big problem. If you can\u2019t put any of your arguments behind you, it\u2019s a sign of a much bigger issue.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sure, everybody fights sooner or later, and there\u2019s no way around it. But eventually, they also find a way to work it out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>However, when you just can\u2019t find a solution that benefits you both, at least in part, you two really can\u2019t seem to find your way back to how it was, or you simply don\u2019t want to. It\u2019s up to you to recognize which one it is.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Le persone che si preoccupano l'una dell'altra alla fine trovano un terreno comune, perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-things-mean-youre-serious-relationship-love-like-crazy\/\">amarsi<\/a> troppo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you can\u2019t seem to do that, it\u2019s probably for the best that you end it before it gets too messy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. You don\u2019t really care how he feels anymore<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You just aren\u2019t as bothered about hurting his feelings as you used to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You definitely don\u2019t mean him any harm, it\u2019s just that his pain no longer affects you that much. Not the way it used to, anyway.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This doesn\u2019t make you a bad person, it just means you have probably fallen out of love with him, and you\u2019re no longer part of this relationship in your head.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Se cos\u00ec fosse, i suoi sentimenti sarebbero molto pi\u00f9 importanti per voi e il suo umore influenzerebbe letteralmente il vostro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Le pi\u00f9 piccole cose di lui ti infastidiscono da morire<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>The little quirks about him used to be so cute and endearing to you, but now, you can\u2019t stand them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>\u00c8 diventato cos\u00ec fastidioso che vorresti urlargli di smettere di fare quella cosa che prima trovavi cos\u00ec carina, ma in qualche modo ti riprendi e rimani calma.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Questo \u00e8 un chiaro segnale di una relazione che si sta esaurendo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quando le cose che prima trovavate carine dell'altro vi irritano oltremodo, \u00e8 evidente che non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 amore romantico.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Tieni a lui come persona, certo, ma non come fidanzato. Non pi\u00f9.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/essere-subdoli-in-una-relazione\/\">7 conseguenze dell'essere subdoli in una relazione (e come affrontarle)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Trascorrete molto tempo lontani l'uno dall'altra e vi va benissimo.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 bisogno di spendere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-modi-in-cui-passare-troppo-tempo-insieme-manda-a-rotoli-la-vostra-relazione\/\">tempo insieme<\/a> \u00e8 uno dei segni pi\u00f9 evidenti del fatto che la vostra relazione si \u00e8 davvero esaurita.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You don\u2019t have to be attached at the hip, but you do need to want to spend time with each other.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>When that feeling is gone and you\u2019re perfectly fine spending lots of time apart, there is really nothing left to be said there.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Perhaps it\u2019s best you two just have a heart to heart in order to realize when it all started going downhill and simply try to end things on a good note.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Just because you\u2019re no longer crazy in love with each other, doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t care about each other as individuals.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Take this as an opportunity to have one of those amicable breakups where you both leave with zero resentment towards each other, and take pride in that because that\u2019s the adult way to break up!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-36023\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 segni tragici che la vostra relazione si sta lentamente esaurendo\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s always important to be honest and upfront with yourself, no matter how hard the reality you\u2019re facing may be. Sometimes, you stay in a relationship that you know has run its course, simply because it\u2019s familiar and comforting. It\u2019s nice having someone there, even if the thing that kept you together has started fizzling&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":36022,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36021","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/shutterstock_767180629.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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