{"id":36147,"date":"2020-06-30T10:11:37","date_gmt":"2020-06-30T10:11:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36147"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:19:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:19:51","slug":"6-cose-da-fare-quando-vi-sta-prendendo-per-i-fondelli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-cose-da-fare-quando-vi-sta-prendendo-per-i-fondelli\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cose da fare quando ti sta tirando per le lunghe"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/quando-si-ama-qualcuno-si-fa-di-tutto-per-far-funzionare-le-cose\/\">Quando si ama qualcuno<\/a>Non si pensa mai di essere presi in giro da loro.<\/p>\r\n<p>Se avete un problema, credete che sia qualcosa che ogni coppia deve affrontare e che passer\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n<p>But there are problems that can\u2019t be ignored and the sooner you accept that they are happening, the easier it will be for you.<\/p>\r\n<p>Uno di questi \u00e8 quando si \u00e8 trascinati da qualcuno che \u00e8 tutto il tuo mondo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Quando ci\u00f2 accade, si smette di credere nell'amore e si perde la speranza che qualcuno possa amarci come meritiamo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ma questo \u00e8 il momento in cui bisogna agire e non piangersi addosso.<\/p>\r\n<p>Andiamo, non permetterai a un uomo di trattarti come una merda e di farla franca.<\/p>\r\n<p>Forse alcune delle seguenti cose possono aiutarvi a rimettervi in piedi e a recuperare la vostra fede nell'amore.<\/p>\r\n<h2>1. Tagliare ogni contatto con lui<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89646\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che tiene in mano il telefono e guarda fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Se \u00e8 successa una cosa imbarazzante come questa, la prima cosa da fare \u00e8 tagliare ogni possibile contatto con lui.<\/p>\r\n<p>Questo significa niente messaggi sui social media o sms, niente telefonate e niente comunicazioni se lo vedete di persona.<\/p>\r\n<p>Dovete stargli lontano il pi\u00f9 possibile, perch\u00e9 avvicinarvi a lui peggiorer\u00e0 solo le cose.<\/p>\r\n<p>Se rispondete alle sue chiamate o ai suoi messaggi, inizier\u00e0 a pensare di potervi conquistare di nuovo e cercher\u00e0 di farlo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ma quando smetterete di comunicare con lui, si accorger\u00e0 che non siete cos\u00ec facili come pensava.<\/p>\r\n<p>Trust me, your indifference will hurt him more than any curse, so play it smart and don\u2019t be available to him.<\/p>\r\n<h2>2. Don\u2019t blame yourself<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89647\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful.jpg\" alt=\"donna bruna seduta a casa guarda pensierosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>La cosa peggiore che pu\u00f2 accadere \u00e8 che iniziate a colpevolizzarvi e a perdonargli tutto quello che vi ha fatto.<\/p>\r\n<p>Fanculo a quella merda! \u00c8 lui il colpevole e dovrebbe avere la coda tra le gambe e sparire dalla vostra vita.<\/p>\r\n<p>And you should move on as though he didn\u2019t exist. Do you know why? Because a douchebag like him doesn\u2019t deserve one tear from your eye.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/i-gave-you-more-chances-than-you-deserved-its-time-for-me-to-walk-away\/\">Non ti ha mai meritato<\/a>, but you were blinded by love and couldn\u2019t see his real face.<\/p>\r\n<p>But now you know what he is like, so you should steer clear of him. Don\u2019t think you were the guilty one.<\/p>\r\n<p>Se gli mostrate che siete dispiaciuti per averlo lasciato andare, lui sfrutter\u00e0 questa opportunit\u00e0 e cercher\u00e0 di intrufolarsi di nuovo nella vostra vita.<\/p>\r\n<p>Siate sicuri di voi stessi e sappiate cosa volete. Solo cos\u00ec potrete arrivare dove volete.<\/p>\r\n<h2>3. Don\u2019t change yourself<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89648\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna appoggiata al divano in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Just because one man wasn\u2019t good for you, doesn\u2019t mean that someone else won\u2019t be your perfect match.<\/p>\r\n<p>So, whatever you do, don\u2019t change who you really are. If you are playful and easy-going, stay true to yourself.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t become small just so a man in your life can look big.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t burn just to bring light to someone else\u2019s life. Instead, after something like this happens to you, get out of this situation stronger than ever.<\/p>\r\n<p>Show him that you can do way better than him and that his mind games didn\u2019t destroy you, they just made you stronger.<\/p>\r\n<h2>4. Trovare qualcun altro &nbsp;<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89649\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta in riva al lago a parlare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>I am not saying you need to jump into someone\u2019s bed the day after you break up with him, but after you feel that you are ready, open your heart to someone new.<\/p>\r\n<p>But this time be smarter and more curious. Give yourself more time to get to know him and don\u2019t let him know that you are always available for him.<\/p>\r\n<p>Dimostrategli che deve fare il possibile per conquistarvi perch\u00e9 siete una donna di grande valore.<\/p>\r\n<p>Se vi rispettate abbastanza, anche lui vi rispetter\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n<p>Be with someone who you feel comfortable with and never do things you don\u2019t like, just to make him feel better about himself.<\/p>\r\n<p>Solo cos\u00ec troverete la vera felicit\u00e0 e potrete essere la versione migliore di voi stessi in una relazione d'amore.<\/p>\r\n<h2>5. Andare avanti &nbsp;<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89650\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza bionda che cammina nella parte vecchia della citt\u00e0\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>One clever thing you can do after you find out that he has been stringing you along is to simply move on. Okay, it didn\u2019t work out with him. So what?<\/p>\r\n<p>Is he the only man in the world? Of course he isn\u2019t, so why would you sweat the small stuff?<\/p>\r\n<p>Dovresti semplicemente abbandonare la relazione tossica in cui ti sei imbattuto e risparmiarti il tempo.<\/p>\r\n<p>I know it will be hard in the beginning because you\u2019ll think about him a lot, but after some time, it will fall into place like a missing puzzle piece.<\/p>\r\n<p>Vi pentirete di non averlo lasciato prima perch\u00e9 vi sentirete cos\u00ec potenti e grandi nella vostra pelle ora che lui non fa pi\u00f9 parte della vostra vita.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ma non \u00e8 mai troppo tardi per le cose belle, giusto?<\/p>\r\n<p>Quindi, andate avanti e iniziate un nuovo capitolo della vostra vita, ma questa volta con qualcuno che sia veramente degno di voi.<\/p>\r\n<h2>6. Dimenticare tutto di lui<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89651\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair.jpg\" alt=\"Donna seduta su poltrona marrone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>I know it won\u2019t be easy to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/he-will-come-back-when-you-forget-all-about-him\/\">dimenticarsi di lui<\/a> una volta che vi siete lasciati, ma alla fine ci riuscirete.<\/p>\r\n<p>La cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 non parlarne con amici e parenti.<\/p>\r\n<p>When you don\u2019t talk about someone, you tend to start forgetting him step by step.<\/p>\r\n<p>In love relationships, it is a slightly longer process because certain feelings are involved, but if you follow the no contact rule and if you don\u2019t talk about him, you will succeed in it.<\/p>\r\n<p>When you feel he will always be on your mind, God will send you someone who will take up all your attention and you won\u2019t think about your ex at all.<\/p>\r\n<p>Each one of us gets what we deserve, but good things don\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\r\n<p>Dovrete aspettare la persona giusta ancora un po', ma alla fine, colui che vi ama pi\u00f9 di se stesso vi abbraccer\u00e0 al mattino, dicendovi che \u00e8 cos\u00ec dannatamente fortunato ad avervi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-89655 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"6 cose da fare quando ti sta tirando per le lunghe\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you love someone, you never think of being strung along by them. If you have a problem, you believe it is something every couple faces and will pass. But there are problems that can\u2019t be ignored and the sooner you accept that they are happening, the easier it will be for you. 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