{"id":36219,"date":"2020-08-06T12:13:39","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T12:13:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36219"},"modified":"2022-07-23T09:14:44","modified_gmt":"2022-07-23T09:14:44","slug":"come-riconquistare-la-tua-ex-ragazza-17-modi-comprovati-per-farlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-riconquistare-la-tua-ex-ragazza-17-modi-comprovati-per-farlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Come riconquistare la tua ex ragazza: 17 modi comprovati per farlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 passato un po' di tempo da quando lei e la sua ex ragazza vi siete lasciati, ma il tempo non guarisce le ferite.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t seem to get her out of your head, as much as you try to do so.<\/p>\n

Oppure avete appena concluso la vostra relazione, ma siete convinti che la rottura sia stata una decisione sbagliata.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che evidente che provi ancora qualcosa per lei<\/a> e che vorresti tornare con lei.<\/p>\n

However, the truth is that you simply don\u2019t know how to get your ex-girlfriend back.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want her to start seeing you as some pathetic loser who is begging her to come back but you have to find a way to approach her.<\/p>\n

Qual \u00e8 il modo migliore per farlo senza spaventarla? Dovete lasciare che sia lei a venire da voi o dovete iniziare subito a inseguirla?<\/p>\n

If these are some of the questions that have been bothering you, you\u2019ve come to the right place because you\u2019re about to get some tested pieces of advice on how to get your ex- girlfriend back that work like a charm.<\/p>\n

Dimenticate tutte le vostre paure e i vostri dubbi, perch\u00e9 il nostro esperto di relazioni sta per insegnarvi come riconquistare la vostra ex ragazza nel modo pi\u00f9 semplice possibile, senza sembrare disperati.<\/p>\n

Tutto quello che dovete fare \u00e8 seguire questa guida passo passo e vi assicuro che riconquistarla sar\u00e0 un gioco da ragazzi.<\/p>\n

Pensate al motivo della vostra rottura<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Prima di capire come riconquistare la vostra ex ragazza, dovete innanzitutto andare a fondo della vostra rottura.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014the two of you broke things off for a reason and something clearly wasn\u2019t working that well in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Well, you can\u2019t expect everything to go back the way it used to be before processing your break-up.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 necessario riflettere sui motivi e sul modo in cui \u00e8 accaduto prima di cercare di salvare la vostra relazione<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest\u2014if you insulted or in any way humiliated your ex while leaving her, getting back together will probably be quite difficult.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if she did that to you, it\u2019s time you reconsider your desire to reconcile with her because she might not deserve you.<\/p>\n

Allora, cosa \u00e8 successo esattamente? Perch\u00e9 lei e la sua ex ragazza avete deciso di separare le vostre strade?<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 stato un tradimento? Una persona ha abusato dell'altra?<\/p>\n

Did you guys understand that you had some fundamental differences that you couldn\u2019t surpass?<\/p>\n

O avete appena avuto un'enorme litigata che ora appare insensata da questo punto di vista?<\/p>\n

Avete pensato entrambi alla vostra rottura o \u00e8 avvenuta in un momento di rabbia?<\/p>\n

Come \u00e8 avvenuta la rottura? Avete detto cose di cui vi siete pentiti o lo avete fatto in modo maturo e civile?<\/p>\n

Queste sono tutte le domande importanti a cui dovete rispondere prima di procedere con il processo di make-up.<\/p>\n

Quello che dovete sapere \u00e8 se questa rottura \u00e8 qualcosa che potete superare e se \u00e8 qualcosa che potete dimenticare.<\/p>\n

Se tornate insieme, sar\u00e0 una pietra miliare tra voi due o potrete andare avanti con la vostra relazione come se non fosse successo nulla?<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che a volte interrompere una relazione \u00e8 la migliore opzione possibile, perch\u00e9 tornare insieme sarebbe un vero inferno.<\/p>\n

A volte le persone si allontanano l'una dall'altra nel modo pi\u00f9 disgustoso e umiliante e quando questo accade, una relazione non ha futuro e bisogna accettarlo, per quanto faccia male.<\/p>\n

Pensate a chi \u00e8 stato l'iniziatore della rottura<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Un'altra cosa a cui dovete pensare \u00e8 chi \u00e8 stato a porre fine alla relazione. La decisione \u00e8 stata reciproca o uno dei due ha scaricato l'altro?<\/p>\n

Di chi \u00e8 stata la colpa della rottura? La vostra ex se n'\u00e8 andata per qualcosa che avete fatto voi o lo ha fatto semplicemente perch\u00e9 ha smesso di amarvi?<\/p>\n

Se siete stati voi a rompere, probabilmente sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 facile riconquistare la vostra ex ragazza.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, probabilmente \u00e8 ferita<\/a> and angry at you for leaving her but she likely wasn\u2019t ready to end your relationship and she wasn\u2019t the one who thought she\u2019d be better off without you.<\/p>\n

If this is the case, you just need to show her that you\u2019re actually a nice guy who regrets his decision and convince her that you\u2019d never do it again if you could go back in time.<\/p>\n

Also, you have to be patient and wait for her to understand that you are serious and that you don\u2019t plan on playing with her, if she gives you another chance.<\/p>\n

However, if your ex was the one who walked away from you, the situation is trickier, especially if she didn\u2019t make this decision as a consequence of your actions.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t run after her because that would give her the green light to come and go whenever she wants and it would make her think that she can dump you whenever she feels like it and you\u2019ll always beg her to come back.<\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 significa che dovete trovare un modo per farle capire da sola cosa ha perso.<\/p>\n

L'opzione migliore sarebbe quella di farla venire da voi, scusandosi per avervi spezzato il cuore e chiedendovi una seconda possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Ammettere a se stessi i propri sentimenti<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Il passo successivo per riconquistare la vostra ex \u00e8 essere onesti con voi stessi prima di iniziare una conversazione con lei.<\/p>\n

Invece di reprimere le emozioni<\/a> e cercando di fuggire da esse, di abbracciarle e di entrare in contatto con esse.<\/p>\n

Do you really love this girl? Or is it just lust you\u2019re feeling?<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 la rivuoi davvero? \u00c8 per dimostrare a te stesso che puoi averla ogni volta che ne hai voglia?<\/p>\n

Is it because you don\u2019t want to allow some other guy to have her?<\/p>\n

Is it because you think you\u2019ll never find a girl like her? Do you want her back just to fix your broken ego or because you can\u2019t live without her?<\/p>\n

I vostri sentimenti sono pi\u00f9 importanti del vostro orgoglio e del vostro ego? O \u00e8 il contrario?<\/p>\n

Ti manca lei? O ti manca avere una relazione?<\/p>\n

Do you want to get back together with her out of habit and because you\u2019re used to having her around?<\/p>\n

Hai paura di uscire dalla tua zona di comfort o tieni sinceramente a lei?<\/p>\n

Is it possible that you just don\u2019t want to go back to being single?<\/p>\n

That you despise modern dating and that you\u2019re tired of searching for the right person?<\/p>\n

That you\u2019d rather go back to someone who is familiar to you than going through the process of getting to know some new girl?<\/p>\n

These are all the questions you\u2019ll have to give honest answers to before learning how to get your ex-girlfriend back because they will determine your path to doing so and they will help you see whether you really want this person in your life or not and whether fighting for her is worth it or not.<\/p>\n

Ricordare gli errori commessi nella relazione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

After you\u2019ve come to terms with your emotions, the next step is to go back to the past and think your entire relationship through.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s to continue being honest to yourself and to take full responsibility for your words and actions.<\/p>\n

Non importa chi ha detto il addio definitivo<\/a>Ogni relazione \u00e8 una strada a doppio senso e la vostra non fa eccezione.<\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 significa che sia voi che il vostro ex avete commesso degli errori che hanno portato alla vostra rottura.<\/p>\n

Firstly, focus on the things you did wrong. What are the things you\u2019d like to change if you could?<\/p>\n

Che cosa infastidiva di pi\u00f9 il suo ex mentre stavate insieme?<\/p>\n

Fate del vostro meglio per essere il pi\u00f9 realistici possibile.<\/p>\n

Invece di giustificarvi e trovare scuse, provate a comportarvi come un estraneo e ad essere sinceri sulle mosse sbagliate che avete fatto.<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t be too hard on yourself and don\u2019t put all the blame on you only either.<\/p>\n

Even when you understand all of your mistakes, remember that beating yourself up won\u2019t get you anywhere.<\/p>\n

Instead of wasting your energy on self-resentment, be aware that you can\u2019t go back in time and that you can\u2019t erase all of your wrongdoings.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, what you can do is make sure you don\u2019t repeat your mistakes.<\/p>\n

Cosa potreste fare per soddisfare il vostro ex, se tornate insieme, senza perdere voi stessi nel processo?<\/p>\n

Pensate alle cose che siete pronti a fare in modo diverso, se avrete un'altra occasione.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, siate sinceri sulle parti della vostra personalit\u00e0 che sapete di non poter cambiare, per quanto lo vogliate.<\/p>\n

Ricordare i suoi errori nella relazione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Lo stesso vale per gli errori commessi in passato dalla vostra ex ragazza.<\/p>\n

I know that you miss her like hell now and that all of her flaws appear irrelevant from this point of view but I\u2019m begging you to be realistic about her the same way you are with yourself.<\/p>\n

Also, you can\u2019t expect to risolvere la vostra relazione interrotta<\/a> if you plan on holding grudges forever so please be honest and think about if you\u2019re ready to forgive your ex for all of her mistakes.<\/p>\n

Siete davvero pronti a dimenticare tutto quello che vi ha fatto senza tornare al passato ogni volta che litigate?<\/p>\n

Can you accept her for who she really is, together with all of her imperfections and the parts of her personality you don\u2019t like?<\/p>\n

O ti aspetti che cambi l'essenza del suo essere solo per il tuo bene?<\/p>\n

Pensa che potrebbe cambiare il suo comportamento e smettere di fare le cose che la infastidiscono?<\/p>\n

Pensate che ci sia la possibilit\u00e0 per lei di capire i suoi errori e di assumersene la responsabilit\u00e0?<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s make one thing clear\u2014no matter what happens, if you and your ex get back together, don\u2019t expect her to miraculously become someone else.<\/p>\n

She will still essentially be the same girl you used to be with and if that is someone you can\u2019t accept, don\u2019t even bother trying to win her back.<\/p>\n

Pensate se i vostri problemi sono risolvibili<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che nessuna relazione \u00e8 perfetta e tutte hanno dei problemi.<\/p>\n

Non importa quello che qualcuno cerca di farvi credere, ogni coppia discute e litiga di tanto in tanto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, there is a huge difference between some small disagreements which can be easily resolved and between real-life problems that can\u2019t be fixed, as much as both of you try to do so.<\/p>\n

Maybe you have different worldviews, different future plans or something that can\u2019t be forgiven happened in the past.<\/p>\n

Either way, the point is the same\u2014even if you don\u2019t want to admit it, there are times when a romantic la relazione \u00e8 destinata a fallire<\/a>Non importa quanto si cerchi di salvarlo.<\/p>\n

Quando una relazione si rompe in modo irreparabile e non si pu\u00f2 fare altro che accettare la dura verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019re wondering how to get your ex-girlfriend back, one of the things you simply have to do before anything else is to reconsider your problems realistically.<\/p>\n

Even though you have strong feelings for this girl and even if she cares for you back, remember that sadly, sometimes love isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

Per questo motivo dovreste trovare la forza di ignorare il pi\u00f9 possibile le vostre emozioni e pensare se questa relazione ha davvero un futuro.<\/p>\n

Siete almeno compatibili?<\/p>\n

Tornerete a lasciarvi se vi riconciliate ora o sarete in grado di imparare dai vostri errori?<\/p>\n

Vede la possibilit\u00e0 di costruire una vita accanto a questa ragazza?<\/p>\n

Se siete convinti che una seconda possibilit\u00e0 per la vostra relazione possa sistemare le cose, fate del vostro meglio per imparare come riconquistare la vostra ex ragazza.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if you know deep down that your problems can\u2019t be resolved, please face reality and don\u2019t try gluing back together what cannot be fixed.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t bad-mouth her<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

It\u2019s natural for you to feel all kinds of negative emotions when your relationship ends, especially if you\u2019re the one who\u2019s been left behind.<\/p>\n

Vi sentite traditi, abbandonati, amareggiati e soprattutto furiosi per il fatto che la ragazza che ancora amate si sia allontanata da voi cos\u00ec senza cuore, senza prendere in considerazione le vostre emozioni.<\/p>\n

Quando ci\u00f2 accade, si ha l'impulso di condividere la propria delusione con il mondo.<\/p>\n

Vuoi toglierle la maschera di brava ragazza e far vedere a tutti quanto \u00e8 stronzo in realt\u00e0.<\/p>\n

One of the golden rules of every break-up is not to talk trash about your ex, even if you don\u2019t plan on reconciling with them.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what she did to you\u2014talking badly about her behind her back is off-limits.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, questa \u00e8 la persona con cui avete passato tanto tempo e con cui condividete ricordi incredibili e non c'\u00e8 bisogno di rovinare tutto questo, nonostante le condizioni in cui vi siete lasciati.<\/p>\n

Oltre a mancare di rispetto al vostro ex e alla vostra relazione passata, parlare male del vostro ex partner romantico significa parlare male anche di voi stessi.<\/p>\n

She was your choice and your significant other for so long, so it means that you\u2019re no better than her, as long as you stayed by her side for so long.<\/p>\n

This is especially the case if you\u2019re planning to learn how to get your ex-girlfriend back.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t have to find out that you went on blabbing about your relationship and about her flaws but you\u2019ll definitely feel bad about doing so when the initial anger and resentment are gone.<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019re hurt right now but don\u2019t let the pain overwhelm you and make you act like the immature brat you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Accettare questa rottura<\/a> as an adult and once she sees that you still respect her, even though you guys aren\u2019t together, trust me that you\u2019ll have a bigger chance of winning her back.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be troppo appiccicoso<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Non appena iniziate a sentire la mancanza della vostra ex, la prima cosa che volete fare \u00e8 chiamarla e pregarla di tornare.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve heard the saying \u2018out of sight, out of mind\u2019 and you feel the need to prevent her from forgetting all about you, thinking that you should start chasing her while it isn\u2019t too late.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019ll go crazy if you spend another day without her and you are convinced that explaining the situation and being clear about your pain is exactly the way to winning her back.<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m sure you don\u2019t want her to be with you out of pity or sympathy, do you?<\/p>\n

Non vorrei essere io a farvi scoppiare il cervello, ma dovete sapere che questa \u00e8 l'ultima cosa che dovreste pensare di fare.<\/p>\n

Essere troppo appiccicosi non \u00e8 mai attraente e pu\u00f2 solo farla scappare ancora di pi\u00f9 da voi.<\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014if you become too needy now that you guys have split, your ex will just think of you as desperate.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll have the impression that you can\u2019t live without her and will definitely use that to her own advantage.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014-there is nothing shameful in showing your ex-girlfriend that you still have feelings for her.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, questa ragazza fa parte della vostra vita da molto tempo e sarebbe impossibile dimenticarla in una frazione di secondo.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should show her that just because you love her, she can treat you the way she wants.<\/p>\n

Invece di essere troppo appiccicosi nel momento in cui lei si allontana da voi, non dimenticate mai di mantenere la vostra dignit\u00e0 e il vostro orgoglio.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow her to humiliate you in any way and don\u2019t give her the green light to keep leaving you and coming back as she likes.<\/p>\n

Applicare il regola del divieto di contatto<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

The truth is that playing mind games is almost never healthy for a relationship but when you\u2019re trying to figure out how to get your ex-girlfriend back, sometimes you simply have to engage in little tricks to make it happen.<\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t manipulate her into loving you if she doesn\u2019t feel that way\u2014you\u2019ll just help awaken her hidden emotions which even she isn\u2019t aware of.<\/p>\n

Ci sono momenti in cui le persone devono perderci prima di imparare ad apprezzarci.<\/p>\n

Quando la vostra assenza \u00e8 l'unico modo per far s\u00ec che qualcuno cominci ad apprezzare la vostra presenza e si renda conto di aver commesso un errore quando ha pensato di potercela fare senza di voi.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 proprio questo il caso della vostra ex ragazza: \u00e8 possibile che vi desse per scontati e che contasse sulla vostra presenza. Ecco perch\u00e9 dovete dimostrarle il contrario.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re looking for advice on how to get your ex-girlfriend back, the key to successfully doing so is to make her miss you.<\/p>\n

Ed ecco come ottenere questo risultato.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve already heard about the regola del divieto di contatto<\/a>, giusto?<\/p>\n

Si tratta di un metodo collaudato per tornare con il proprio ex tagliando tutti i possibili legami con lui per un certo periodo di tempo.<\/p>\n

It means that for a couple of weeks or even months, you\u2019re not allowed to initiate any kind of communication with your ex-girlfriend\u2014you can\u2019t call her, text her, like or comment on her social media photos and updates.<\/p>\n

You aren\u2019t allowed to post sad songs on your news feed, to go to the places you know you might encounter her or to hang out with her friends or family in the hope of hearing something about her.<\/p>\n

To put things simply, if you want this method to work, you have to completely ignore this girl and for this period of time, you can\u2019t be the first to initiate contact, no matter what happens.<\/p>\n

There is no looking for excuses to reach her\u2014you have to pretend like she doesn\u2019t exist and as if you really did leave her in the past, where she belongs.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably scared that this approach will make your ex forget all about you but trust me\u2014this won\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

Instead, she\u2019ll become worried about losing you and she\u2019ll realize that she misses you as well.<\/p>\n

What is even better this way is that you\u2019re giving yourself an opportunity to think things through and maybe even get over her.<\/p>\n

Applicazione della regola dell'assenza di contatto<\/a> is a real win-win situation\u2014either you\u2019ll stop loving her and realize that you actually don\u2019t want to get back together or she\u2019ll come crawling back to you.<\/p>\n

Lavorare su se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll probably disappoint you here but going full no contact is not the only thing you\u2019ll have to do if you\u2019re figuring out how to get your ex-girlfriend back.<\/p>\n

Non basta che lei senta la tua assenza fisica, deve anche percepire che non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 l'unica cosa che ti passa per la testa.<\/p>\n

What is even more important is to prove to yourself that you\u2019re a valuable man, without or without a girl by your side.<\/p>\n

E qual \u00e8 il modo migliore per farlo? aumentare l'autostima<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Pi\u00f9 facile a dirsi che a farsi, lo so.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014we\u2019d all like to magically wake up one morning as a confident person, without any insecurities or self-doubts.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, la costruzione dell'autostima \u00e8 un processo che prevede un grande lavoro su se stessi.<\/p>\n

Prima di tutto, lavorate sul vostro io interiore.<\/p>\n

This is the time in your life when you don\u2019t have a duty to make any compromises and the time when you can do whatever the hell makes you happy.<\/p>\n

Do whatever you want with your spare time\u2014just don\u2019t spend it calling your ex or stalking her.<\/p>\n

Go to the gym, find a new hobby, catch up with some people you recently didn\u2019t have enough time to see.<\/p>\n

Even though this is clearly not the time to get yourself involved in a new romantic relationship, you\u2019re a single man and there is absolutely nothing wrong with starting dating, flirting or texting other girls.<\/p>\n

Stay in shape but be careful not to lead anyone on to the point where a new girl might fall in love with you, while you can\u2019t respond to her feelings.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, make sure not to feel like you\u2019re stuck in one place while your ex has moved on with her life.<\/p>\n

Cambiare la propria vita e trascorrere pi\u00f9 tempo migliorare l'aspetto fisico e la salute mentale<\/a> nel processo.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should become someone you\u2019re not just to impress this girl but trust me\u2014she\u2019ll be more attracted to the parts of you she still hasn\u2019t yet had the chance to meet.<\/p>\n

Lavorate per diventare la migliore versione possibile di voi stessi e, soprattutto, iniziate a mettere voi stessi al primo posto.<\/p>\n

After all, since you and your ex broke things off, you have all of this time and energy you\u2019d been spending on your relationship.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 il momento di usarla con saggezza e di reindirizzarla verso se stessi.<\/p>\n

Lo stesso vale per l'amore. Invece di ossessionarvi su come riconquistare la vostra ex ragazza, concentratevi su come rendervi pi\u00f9 felici di quanto non siate mai stati.<\/p>\n

Try finding out if she\u2019s still interested<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

After you\u2019ve invested your time and energy into improving yourself in all ways possible and after the no contact period is over, it is time to try and find out more about your ex-girlfriend\u2019s feelings and the best way to do it is indirectly.<\/p>\n

Now is the time in which you are allowed to talk to her friends, while subtly asking about her, to stalk her social media to see how she\u2019s been feeling, etc.<\/p>\n

These are all the things which can help you realize whether you still exist in this girl\u2019s mind or not.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, la cosa pi\u00f9 importante da sapere \u00e8 se ha davvero voltato pagina<\/a>. Si vede con qualcuno di nuovo?<\/p>\n

Se scoprite che la vostra ex ha un nuovo uomo nella sua vita, fate del vostro meglio per andare a fondo della loro relazione, senza sembrare un viscido.<\/p>\n

You know how she usually behaves when she is in love so you won\u2019t have any trouble seeing if this is a rebound relationship, whether she is only using him to make you jealous or she really loves him.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014if it happens that you realize that your ex-girlfriend has a serious relationship and that she has developed feelings for another man or even that she is just dating someone else, winning her back won\u2019t be that easy.<\/p>\n

However, if she is single, it means you probably stand a good chance because there is a big possibility that she hasn\u2019t gotten over you just yet.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t hesitate to ask around about if she mentions you, see if she\u2019s deleted all of your pictures together and pay attention to if she hangs out at the places she probably hopes to accidentally run into you.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 ancora in contatto con i vostri amici e familiari, si \u00e8 ricordata del vostro compleanno o di qualche altra festivit\u00e0?<\/p>\n

Ha provato a contattarla in questo periodo di assenza di contatti?<\/p>\n

Prendere in considerazione tutto questo vi aiuter\u00e0 senza dubbio a capire a che punto siete e a formulare una strategia migliore per riconquistarla.<\/p>\n

Of course, if she showed some interest in you during this time, things will be quite easier but if she acted cold, that doesn\u2019t mean that you should lose hope in your reconciliation.<\/p>\n

Inventare un motivo per contattarla<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

The next step in trying to win your ex-girlfriend back over is reaching out to her, if she hasn\u2019t done the same before now.<\/p>\n

The period of no contact is over and you\u2019ve both had time to think things through, to start missing each other and to see if you really want each other in your lives again.<\/p>\n

Initiating communication at this point is not desperate\u2014you\u2019ve shown this girl that you can live without her and that you can make it on your own, no matter what she might have thought.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, essere troppo onesti sulle proprie intenzioni non \u00e8 una buona idea.<\/p>\n

This way, you won\u2019t scare her away and you\u2019ll have a chance to remind her of all the good times you guys shared before engaging in some difficult and painful topics right away.<\/p>\n

Besides, even if she ignores you, your ego will still be intact because you didn\u2019t give her an opportunity to turn you down.<\/p>\n

Also, judging by her initial reaction, you\u2019ll be able to tell if she wants to get back together or if she is bothered by you even contacting her.<\/p>\n

Sta lanciando allusioni e segnali non verbali che lei ti ama ancora<\/a> e ti sta dando lo spazio per provarci con lei?<\/p>\n

Or has she has put her guard up, not allowing you to cross the line and letting you know that she isn\u2019t interested in rebuilding your relationship?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 proprio per questo che trovare una scusa per contattare la vostra ex ragazza \u00e8 molto meglio che chiederle di fare pace con voi di punto in bianco.<\/p>\n

Potreste aspettare il suo compleanno o qualche altra data importante e usarla come motivo di contatto.<\/p>\n

Potete chiedere il suo aiuto o addirittura chiederle di restituirvi alcune delle cose di cui avete bisogno.<\/p>\n

If none of this is possible, the last option you have is to tell her that you had a dream about her or that you just want to see how she\u2019s doing and what she\u2019s been up to\u2014it just shows that you want to stay on good terms and that you don\u2019t hold any grudges against her.<\/p>\n

Of course, if she gives you the green light, this is when you\u2019ll confess your feelings and tell her your intentions.<\/p>\n

Preparatevi alla conversazione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, prima di parlare onestamente con il vostro ex fidanzata<\/a>Per prima cosa dovete prepararvi mentalmente a questa conversazione.<\/p>\n

Naturally, you can\u2019t predict the entire dialogue because you don\u2019t have the possibility of knowing her answers but you can do your best to prepare yourself with the things you plan on saying and the approach you think is the best.<\/p>\n

Come e quando avverr\u00e0 la conversazione? Avete intenzione di chiamarla o di mandarle un messaggio?<\/p>\n

Tenete presente che una telefonata \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 seria e la cosa pi\u00f9 adulta da fare, mentre i messaggi di testo vi danno l'opportunit\u00e0 di continuare una conversazione informale prima di passare al punto vero e proprio.<\/p>\n

Le chiederete direttamente di uscire? Oppure farete del vostro meglio per incontrarla casualmente e poi invitarla a prendere un caff\u00e8?<\/p>\n

What will you say to her? How will you start talking? Will you get straight to the point or will you beat around the bush until you\u2019re certain that she wants you back as well?<\/p>\n

What do you expect to happen? Be realistic\u2014how likely is it for this girl to jump into your arms, as if nothing has happened?<\/p>\n

Essere positivi e aspettarsi il meglio vi aiuter\u00e0 sicuramente con il risultato perch\u00e9 la vostra ex vedr\u00e0 che siete sicuri di voi stessi e si innamorer\u00e0 senza dubbio della vostra autostima.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, \u00e8 necessario essere preparati anche allo scenario peggiore.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014there always exists the possibility of her turning you down.<\/p>\n

Maybe she\u2019s ha smesso di amare<\/a> you or she realized that the two of you don\u2019t have a future together, despite the emotions you share.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, se dovesse succedere, ricordate che \u00e8 suo diritto dire di no e che voi dovete essere un gentiluomo e rispettarlo.<\/p>\n

Invece di lasciarsi prendere dall'emozione o di mostrarle la vostra rabbia, siate grati del fatto che sia stata abbastanza corretta da dirvi come stanno le cose fin dall'inizio, senza farvi fare il passo pi\u00f9 lungo della gamba.<\/p>\n

Ricordarle i bei tempi<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Now that you\u2019ve managed to get this girl to talk to you or even to see you in person, it\u2019s time to make some concrete moves and to act on your desire.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 evidente che \u00e8 pronta a darvi un'altra possibilit\u00e0<\/a> and that she isn\u2019t as certain about this break-up as she thinks she is or as she was in the beginning.<\/p>\n

She wouldn\u2019t have agreed to meeting with you and she would have never answered your phone calls if that was true.<\/p>\n

Even though the two of you have some serious things to discuss, don\u2019t tackle these issues right from the start because you\u2019ll have plenty of time to do so later on.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should brush your break-up under the carpet but you should definitely start your conversation with some lighter topics.<\/p>\n

Per questo motivo la cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 affidarsi alla passato che avete insieme<\/a> come alleato.<\/p>\n

Ricordare alla vostra ex i bei momenti che avete condiviso la far\u00e0 sentire nostalgica e, di conseguenza, pi\u00f9 facile da riconquistare.<\/p>\n

Just make sure to do so as subtly as possible so she doesn\u2019t see through your intentions.<\/p>\n

Accennate casualmente a un luogo che avete visitato o chiedetele se si ricorda di quel viaggio fantastico che avete fatto qualche tempo fa.<\/p>\n

This way, she\u2019ll realize that you didn\u2019t forget anything regarding your past relationship, which is an obvious sign of how much she means to you.<\/p>\n

Quando inizier\u00e0 a sentire tutto l'amore che pensava fosse sparito e a ricordare tutti i bei ricordi che avete, riconquistarla sar\u00e0 un gioco da ragazzi.<\/p>\n

Your ex will be nostalgic about those good times and she\u2019ll want them back, even if she doesn\u2019t admit it.<\/p>\n

At the same time, you\u2019ll help her forget and disregard all the ugly stuff that happened between the two of you.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll realize that your relationship was much more good than bad and she\u2019ll realize it is without a doubt something she wants in her life.<\/p>\n

Siate onesti sui vostri sentimenti<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

After you see that you\u2019ve managed to soften your ex, it\u2019s time to bring out the big guns.<\/p>\n

This is the moment of your honesty\u2014the moment in which you\u2019ll come clean about your feelings and intentions.<\/p>\n

First and foremost, forget about pretending to be this tough, heartless guy and don\u2019t feel weak for taking the first step\u2014you\u2019ve spent more than enough time giocare duro per ottenere<\/a> and pretending that you don\u2019t care and it\u2019s about time for you to find out where you stand and about time to put an end to these games.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think of yourself as weak or as less of a man for admitting your emotions\u2014it only means you\u2019re strong enough to face them, accept them and verbalize them.<\/p>\n

No matter the outcome, trust me that your ex will respect you once she sees that you\u2019re a real man who knows what he wants and who isn\u2019t afraid to get it.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why you should tell her how things are\u2014ask her to give you a minute to tell her something without interrupting you and make sure she realizes that you\u2019re deadly serious.<\/p>\n

Siate sinceri sul fatto che vi manca, che la amate ancora e che la volete indietro.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry, none of this has to sound cheesy or overly pathetic\u2014just be strong enough to talk to her and try not to get overly emotional.<\/p>\n

Not only that\u2014also tell her why you think that your relazione potrebbe funzionare<\/a> questa volta.<\/p>\n

Fate del vostro meglio per convincerla ad accettare di tornare insieme, senza implorarla.<\/p>\n

Se necessario, prima di affrontare la ragazza, provate le battute che intendete dirle.<\/p>\n

Potete farlo davanti allo specchio o anche scriverli su un foglio di carta e poi leggerli a voi stessi.<\/p>\n

This way, you\u2019ll know how this speech sounds and if it needs some modification.<\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t learn every sentence by heart\u2014this only serves you as a guide and a reminder to say everything that\u2019s on your mind.<\/p>\n

Parlare del futuro della vostra relazione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re wondering how to get your ex-girlfriend back, the bulletproof way of doing so is to show her that you\u2019re serious about getting back together and that you don\u2019t plan on playing games once that happens.<\/p>\n

She needs to see that you\u2019re ready to take the necessary steps to rebuild your relationship and talking about its future is the way to convince her of that.<\/p>\n

Invece di cercare di far ricadere su di lei tutta la colpa del fallimento della vostra relazione, siate abbastanza uomini da assumervi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle vostre azioni sbagliate e ammettere che anche voi avete sbagliato molte volte.<\/p>\n

Show her that you\u2019ve changed and that you\u2019re ready to mettere in atto lo sforzo<\/a> per cercare di far funzionare le cose questa volta.<\/p>\n

Also, make her realize that you understand all of your mistakes and everything she\u2019s been going through.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t accuse her of overreacting and don\u2019t try belittling il motivo della vostra rottura<\/a> because if it wasn\u2019t important, it wouldn\u2019t have caused your relationship to end, would it?<\/p>\n

Avoid talking too much about the break-up and don\u2019t play the blame game. Instead, focus on the future.<\/p>\n

Cosa potete fare per evitare che questa volta finisca allo stesso modo? Come potete assicurarvi che la vostra relazione abbia successo?<\/p>\n

Be honest toward yourself and toward her. I know that now you think you\u2019re ready to agree to any conditions she proposes just to have her back.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, la realt\u00e0 \u00e8 ben diversa.<\/p>\n

Sooner or later, your problems and dissatisfaction will rise to the surface so it\u2019s for the best to talk about the future of your potential relationship right from the start.<\/p>\n

Cercate di escludere le emozioni e di considerare questa conversazione come una trattativa. Quali sono le cose su cui voi due potete scendere a compromessi e incontrarvi a met\u00e0 strada?<\/p>\n

Quali sono i suoi i fattori di rottura dell'accordo<\/a> e quali sono le cose che vi aspettate da una relazione? Cos'\u00e8 che nessuno dei due tollera nell'altra persona?<\/p>\n

Talk to her about the future of your relationship, if it happens that you reconcile. Set some ground rules and show her that you\u2019re ready to respect them.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t force anything<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Come \u00e8 gi\u00e0 stato detto, il vostro ex ha il pieno diritto di rifiutare la vostra offerta e di scegliere di non tornare da voi.<\/p>\n

No matter what happens, you shouldn\u2019t force her into doing anything.<\/p>\n

Ricordate che c'\u00e8 una differenza tra il non arrendersi troppo presto e l'essere eccessivamente insistenti.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se la vostra ex ragazza vi chiede un po' di tempo per prendere una decisione, datele questo tempo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let her lead you on and determine a date up until you\u2019ll be willing to wait for her.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if she asks you to take things slowly because she can\u2019t forget everything that has happened, reconsider this idea as well.<\/p>\n

Maybe it\u2019s better for your reconciliation to be a step by step process which will give both of you time to see where things are going and to rethink your decision, without committing to anything, before making a final step toward a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

Either way, what is important is that getting back together happens with the terms of which you\u2019ll both agree upon.<\/p>\n

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