{"id":36296,"date":"2020-08-07T11:24:53","date_gmt":"2020-08-07T11:24:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36296"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:41:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:41:11","slug":"non-lasciate-mai-che-la-vostra-solitudine-vi-faccia-tornare-dal-vostro-ex-tossico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-lasciate-mai-che-la-vostra-solitudine-vi-faccia-tornare-dal-vostro-ex-tossico\/","title":{"rendered":"Non lasciate che la solitudine vi faccia tornare dal vostro ex tossico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo capisco. A volte... la solitudine prende il sopravvento e si cede. <\/em><\/p>\n

You do the one thing you promised yourself you\u2019d never do. You let him back in.<\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019re weak, alone and miserable. You need this feeling of dread to go away and you need it now.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve essere soli<\/a> anymore. You don\u2019t deserve to feel like the only person on the planet who just can\u2019t seem to get it right.<\/p>\n

Volete il vostro lieto fine! Sapete benissimo di meritarlo.<\/p>\n

E dopo tante notti solitarie e senza speranza, trascorse a piangere fino ad addormentarsi e ad affogare i propri dispiaceri nel vino e negli shottini, si prende il telefono e lo si chiama.<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s the wrong thing to do. You know he\u2019s bad news. Yet\u2026 you say, \u201cFanculo!<\/em>\u2019\u2019 and dial that number you sadly still know by heart.<\/p>\n

Ci si odia per questo, ma il danno \u00e8 stato fatto.<\/p>\n

He answers on the first ring, as if he somehow predicted you\u2019d call\u2026 and he\u2019s already on his way over.<\/p>\n

Inizia il panico.<\/p>\n

Che cazzo hai appena fatto? In che modo riportarlo nella tua vita ti aiuter\u00e0 in qualche modo?<\/em><\/p>\n

Ci sono voluti mesi per trovare la forza di uscire da quella relazione.<\/p>\n

Ci sono volute tante conversazioni difficili con i vostri migliori amici<\/a> per aiutarvi a vederlo finalmente per lo stronzo tossico che \u00e8.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

And right now\u2026 you\u2019re throwing it all away over one inconsolable, weak night.<\/p>\n

Ne vale la pena? O \u00e8 il tuo fondo?<\/em><\/p>\n

Sappiamo entrambi come ti sei sentito la mattina dopo.<\/p>\n

Ti sei sentita come se avessi tradito te stessa per una notte di sesso (probabilmente) fantastico con un ex che \u00e8 del tutto sbagliato per te.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like all the effort you put into finding yourself after dumping his sorry ass has been thrown into the gutter.<\/p>\n

E ora dovete rifare tutto da capo.<\/p>\n

This scenario is very familiar to me. I\u2019ve been there.<\/p>\n

Conosco il dolore. Capisco l'agonia di far rientrare nella propria vita quell'idiota del proprio ex dopo averci messo tanto tempo a guarire dopo averlo mollato.<\/p>\n

And I know for a fact that it\u2019s seriously not worth it.<\/em><\/p>\n

Affrontare una rottura \u00e8 gi\u00e0 abbastanza brutto di per s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t just make yourself smettere di amarlo<\/a> solo perch\u00e9 all'improvviso vedete che spreco tossico di fiato \u00e8 lui.<\/p>\n

Sure, you know he\u2019s no good but damn\u2026 you still freaking love that asshole!<\/p>\n

You hate yourself for admitting it but that\u2019s just how it is. And you don\u2019t really know how to make that love stop and get over him just like that.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t happen. Maybe in the movies\u2026 but real life is a motherfucker.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to tell you I truly sympathize with you. It sucks letting your weak side get the best of you and letting the mistake of your life back into your arms.<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, \u00e8 bello per quella notte. \u00c8 cos\u00ec confortante sentirlo vicino a te e ricordarti perch\u00e9 hai lasciato che andasse avanti cos\u00ec a lungo.<\/p>\n

He knows just how to make you feel so good. He knows what you don\u2019t like. He knows how to make you smile when all you want to do is hate his guts.<\/p>\n

Ma in quei momenti in cui vorreste comporre il suo numero e cedere, ricordate a voi stessi chi \u00e8 esattamente.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 la persona che vi ha causato molto dolore. Ha dato per scontato il vostro amore e ha fatto quello che gli pareva, senza curarsi di come vi faceva sentire.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ti ha fatto sentire una merda quando hai manifestato i tuoi sentimenti. <\/em><\/p>\n

Ti ha fatto sembrare una regina del dramma per aver voluto che lui riconoscesse i tuoi sentimenti per una volta.<\/em><\/p>\n

You cried so many tears over his shitty behavior. You spent countless nights crying without making a sound so that he wouldn\u2019t hear you.<\/em><\/p>\n

Certo, era gentile quando voleva esserlo, ma era cos\u00ec raro.<\/p>\n

It only ever happened when he was having a good day and couldn\u2019t help but trattarti bene<\/a> a causa del suo umore allegro.<\/p>\n

But as soon as things would go south, he\u2019d turn into a toxic person who you didn\u2019t recognize anymore.<\/p>\n

You loved him but you couldn\u2019t even understand why.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Ed \u00e8 questo che dovete ricordare a voi stesse la prossima volta che vorrete restituirgli la chiave del vostro cuore.<\/p>\n

Ti ci \u00e8 voluto tanto tempo per farlo uscire dalla tua vita e dalla tua testa. Perch\u00e9 hai deciso di lasciar perdere? <\/em><\/p>\n

Rispettate voi stessi abbastanza da sapere <\/em>meritate di meglio<\/em><\/a>!<\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow your one lonely night to dictate how your life is going to unfold.<\/em><\/p>\n

In the morning, you\u2019re going to be full of regret and you\u2019ll hate yourself for what you did.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t! Call somebody else instead and vent. But don\u2019t call that number, no matter how much you want to.<\/p>\n

Sminuirebbe tutti gli sforzi compiuti e il duro lavoro svolto per rimettere in sesto la vostra vita. <\/em><\/p>\n

Sar\u00e0 bello per una notte, ma far\u00e0 schifo per molti mesi dopo.<\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not worth it. HE\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll get better but only if you stay strong and delete that number once and for all.<\/p>\n

Your loneliness will go away\u2026 but he is never going to stop being a toxic waste of your time!<\/p>\n

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I get it. Sometimes\u2026 your loneliness gets the better of you and you just cave in. You do the one thing you promised yourself you\u2019d never do. You let him back in. You\u2019re weak, alone and miserable. You need this feeling of dread to go away and you need it now. You don\u2019t deserve to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":114696,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Never-Let-Your-Loneliness-Drive-You-Back-To-Your-Toxic-Ex-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36296"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36296\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114696"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}