{"id":36313,"date":"2019-05-07T13:29:18","date_gmt":"2019-05-07T13:29:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36313"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:57:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:57:21","slug":"7-cose-che-fa-e-che-significano-che-ti-spezzera-il-cuore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-che-fa-e-che-significano-che-ti-spezzera-il-cuore\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose che fa e che significano che ti spezzer\u00e0 il cuore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Molto tempo fa, quando ero bambina, mia nonna mi diceva una frase che ricordo ancora molto bene: \u201cRemember to always protect your heart.\u201d<\/em> <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Back then I didn\u2019t quite understand the real meaning of it, but I guess I was just too young and naive.
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Ma oggi lo capisco perfettamente e posso confermare con orgoglio che aveva perfettamente ragione! <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I\u2019ve learned that no matter how much you\u2019re crazy about someone and how much you love them, you should never forget to protect your heart.
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It took me a few years to understand how in the world one can protect one\u2019s heart (and now you\u2019re probably asking yourself the same). <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ebbene, ci si prende cura del proprio cuore evitando che si faccia male. La vera domanda \u00e8 come farlo.
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Remember that feeling when you\u2019re totally, madly, and crazy in love with someone, where you are determined to give all of yourself to them and more without thinking? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Questa \u00e8 la pi\u00f9 grande minaccia per il vostro cuore e, cos\u00ec facendo, vi mettete in una posizione vulnerabile e potenzialmente pericolosa.
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Per proteggersi, non bisogna MAI dare subito tutto se stessi prima di essersi assicurati di dare il proprio cuore alla persona giusta! <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You need to make sure that he\u2019s worthy of being with you and you will do so by paying attention to his actions.
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Quindi, se notate che il vostro uomo fa la maggior parte delle seguenti cose, fate attenzione, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 probabile che vi spezzi il cuore!
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7 COSE CHE FA E CHE SIGNIFICANO CHE TI SPEZZER\u00c0 IL CUORE<\/strong>
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1. He doesn\u2019t want to put a label on your relationship
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Questo \u00e8 il pi\u00f9 grande indicatore che qualcosa non quadra. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se un ragazzo si rifiuta di definire la vostra relazione, significa che non \u00e8 sicuro dei suoi sentimenti e della sua durata, ed \u00e8 per questo che sta cercando di evitare di mettere un'etichetta. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si rifiuta di parlarne con voi perch\u00e9 sa che rivelerebbe la sua vera natura, indecisa o forse tossica.
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2. \u00c8 un fobico degli impegni<\/a>
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Come nel caso precedente, se un ragazzo vi dice la seguente frase: \u201cI\u2019m not ready to commit,\u201d <\/em>dovresti assolutamente correre il pi\u00f9 lontano possibile. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I mean, what does this even mean? He\u2019s not ready to commit, but he still wants to be with you? Seriously?
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Se vuole davvero stare con voi con tutto il suo corpo e il suo cuore, far\u00e0 in modo di farvi diventare sua e solo sua. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will make sure to write on his forehead that you\u2019re only his if need be. Always remember that.
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3. He doesn\u2019t want to meet your family
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If he avoids meeting your family like the plague, then you can be sure that something\u2019s clearly not right. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Possible reasons why he doesn\u2019t want to meet your family would be the following:
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a) He\u2019s an extreme introvert and he collapses whenever he tries to meet someone new, or<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

b) He\u2019s an asshole in disguise and he doesn\u2019t want to be revealed by your family.
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Poich\u00e9 il primo \u00e8 praticamente impossibile, sceglierei il secondo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He doesn\u2019t want to meet your family because he\u2019s not interested in anything serious with you, he\u2019s aware of his manipulative and toxic nature, and at the same time afraid they might notice it and forbid you to ever date him again.
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4. \u00c8 iperprotettivo nei confronti del suo cellulare
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Sembra che abbia sempre il telefono in mano, che dorma con lui e che si infuri se vi trovate a pochi centimetri dalla sua portata? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If yes, it means he\u2019s into some suspicious stuff and he\u2019s trying to hide it from you. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He doesn\u2019t want you to discover his true nature and bust him in the middle of his sinful deeds.
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5. He doesn\u2019t open up to you about himself and future plans
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Presenta costantemente i tratti di un vero e proprio enigma? Ha difficolt\u00e0 ad aprirsi con voi sul suo passato? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Maybe he\u2019s doing it because he has nothing good to say about himself and he certainly doesn\u2019t want to share all of the negative things with you.
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He doesn\u2019t want you to know the real him because otherwise you would never be with him in the first place. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Inoltre, se si rifiuta di parlare di progetti futuri con voi<\/a>, it means he\u2019s not ready to invest in a relationship at all.
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6. He doesn\u2019t show you off on social media
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Non pubblica mai foto di voi come coppia sui social media, ma pubblica regolarmente foto di se stesso, del suo animale domestico o della sua auto. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ricordo che una mia amica ha avuto lo stesso problema con il ragazzo con cui usciva.
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Pubblicava continuamente foto della sua auto e di se stesso, ma non ha mai postato nulla di lei. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sapevo che c'era qualcosa di assolutamente sbagliato in lui e in seguito si scopr\u00ec che era lo scopatore per eccellenza.
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So, if never shows you off on social media, but he\u2019s frequently engaged in posting other things, you should definitely be alarmed!
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7. He only shows up when it\u2019s convenient
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Quando gli chiedete di uscire con voi, \u00e8 sempre occupato e ha altre cose pi\u00f9 importanti da fare. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He never shows up when you need him or when you want him to, only when it\u2019s convenient for him and he doesn\u2019t have anything else better to do!
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If he does this, it means he\u2019s not trying even one bit per fare di te la sua priorit\u00e0<\/a> e, pertanto, non merita n\u00e9 la vostra compagnia n\u00e9 il vostro cuore! <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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