{"id":3647,"date":"2020-08-18T13:50:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-18T13:50:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3647"},"modified":"2022-01-10T20:26:01","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T20:26:01","slug":"il-fidanzato-non-ha-rispetto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-fidanzato-non-ha-rispetto\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 il vostro fidanzato vi tratta senza rispetto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The main questions would be: Why doesn&#8217;t your boyfriend value you? Why doesn&#8217;t he give you the respect you deserve?<\/p>\n<p>There is one simple answer\u2014 <b>Perch\u00e9 lo lasciate!!!!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/deserve-treated-like-sht\/\">Ti meriti di essere trattato come una merda<\/a><\/p>\n<p>A un certo punto, la maggior parte di noi si \u00e8 trovata bloccata in una relazione in cui si sente come se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lamore-unilaterale-non-merita\/\">the other side isn&#8217;t giving you enough.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Vi sentite poco apprezzati e ignorati, ma vi sentite ancora attaccati e incapaci di lasciare andare la persona.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve given your best but he is still acting like you are not that important in his life.<\/p>\n<h2>Perch\u00e9 siamo in questa situazione?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103359\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato che punta il dito contro una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La ragione pi\u00f9 comune che diamo \u00e8 perch\u00e9 li amiamo.<b>.<\/b> E faremmo qualsiasi cosa per amore.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 la forza trainante di quasi tutte le donne. A volte sembra che abbiamo guardato troppe serie TV e film romantici e abbiamo iniziato a credere nell'amore eterno, a prescindere da tutto.<\/p>\n<p>But love isn&#8217;t true love if it isn&#8217;t reciprocated. When you are in a relationship, you have to feel that love from another person<b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Se state dando il meglio di voi stessi, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-accontentarsi-mai-della-vita\/\">don&#8217;t settle for anything less.<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<p>La maggior parte di noi ha una bassa autostima. Per questo motivo, permettiamo al nostro partner di trattarci male.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/4-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-rimangono-in-una-cattiva-relazione\/\">Rimaniamo in relazioni sbagliate perch\u00e9<\/a> we are afraid we won&#8217;t find better ones. Also this brings the issue of fear of loneliness.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103360\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato che urla contro una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una bassa autostima ci fa pensare che siamo meglio in una cattiva relazione che da soli, il che ovviamente non \u00e8 vero.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 il problema pi\u00f9 profondo che richiede un lavoro costante sulla nostra autostima e sul nostro amor proprio.<\/p>\n<p>Le donne hanno spesso l'istinto del martire. Sopportano il dolore e i maltrattamenti, aspettandosi che le cose cambino e in meglio.<\/p>\n<p>They are hoping for a miracle\u2014they are hoping that if they do something or say something next time, it will fix their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>But miracles usually don&#8217;t happen in this kind of situation.<\/p>\n<p>Se state spendendo tutto il vostro tempo e i vostri sforzi per la vostra relazione e l'altra parte non fa la sua parte, probabilmente siete in una storia sbagliata e la cosa migliore \u00e8 andare avanti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103361\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste e pensierosa seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci scusiamo per loro; <i> &#8220;He didn&#8217;t have time for me because he is too busy at work.&#8221; <\/i> , <i> &#8220;He was so tired he couldn&#8217;t even send me a goodnight text &#8221; <\/i> o anche <i> &#8220;I am so tolerant. I am such a good person that I can understand and forgive this behavior&#8221; <\/i> ecc.<\/p>\n<p>Usiamo tutti i mezzi necessari per giustificare un cattivo comportamento. In quel momento, dovete prendere le distanze dalle emozioni e chiedervi se vi rispettate abbastanza se rimanete in questa relazione.<\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che se qualcuno vi rispetta, rispetter\u00e0 anche il vostro tempo. Se voi siete in grado di dedicargli tempo e attenzione, lui sar\u00e0 in grado di fare lo stesso con voi. <i> Tutto il resto \u00e8 solo una scusa. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>La cosa migliore sarebbe parlare apertamente e onestamente con il partner e scoprire il motivo per cui si comporta cos\u00ec e se \u00e8 consapevole del suo comportamento.<\/p>\n<p>Dite chiaramente cosa volete dalla vostra relazione e assicuratevi di essere sulla stessa lunghezza d'onda.<\/p>\n<p>Lavorate a fondo su voi stessi e allontanatevi se la vostra relazione non \u00e8 ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno e che volete.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103362\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"donna con capelli ricci in piedi con gli occhi chiusi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be scared because there is always somebody better. He is not the only man in the world.<\/p>\n<p>We put value on ourselves and control how somebody treats us by showing them what they can and can&#8217;t do.<\/p>\n<p><i> Do not tolerate bad behavior and don&#8217;t settle for less than you deserve. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, if we don&#8217;t respect ourselves, we can&#8217;t expect anybody else to respect us either.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/making-fool-sorry-fault\/\">He is Making a Fool Out of You \u2013 Sorry, It\u2019s Your Fault<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103364\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ecco perch\u00e9 il vostro fidanzato vi tratta senza rispetto\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The main questions would be: Why doesn&#8217;t your boyfriend value you? Why doesn&#8217;t he give you the respect you deserve? There is one simple answer\u2014 Because you let him!!!! See also: You Deserve To Be Treated Like Sh*t At some point, most of us have found ourselves stuck in a relationship in which you just&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":103363,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3647","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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