{"id":36475,"date":"2020-09-10T11:43:58","date_gmt":"2020-09-10T11:43:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36475"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:27:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:27:17","slug":"quando-dire-ti-amo-per-la-prima-volta-in-una-relazione-di-coppia-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-dire-ti-amo-per-la-prima-volta-in-una-relazione-di-coppia-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando dire \"ti amo\" per la prima volta in una relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d to your partner is one of the most romantic things when it comes to new relationships but knowing when to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d is also one of the hardest.<\/em><\/p>\n

When you spend lots of time with someone and every time you\u2019re about to see them, you experience the sensation of butterflies in your stomach, their presence feels like home and you can\u2019t imagine living without them, it is normal to come to the conclusion that you\u2019re in love with them.<\/p>\n

E non c'\u00e8 sensazione pi\u00f9 grande al mondo di questa!<\/p>\n

Ma ora arriva la parte pi\u00f9 difficile, quella in cui si pensa e si ripensa a come dirglielo.<\/p>\n

All'improvviso, l'incertezza vi travolge al punto che iniziate a dubitare dei vostri sentimenti.<\/p>\n

Iniziate a porvi domande come: \u201cShould I be the first one declaring my love or should I wait for them to do so? <\/em><\/p>\n

What if they don\u2019t feel the same about it and I get humiliated by saying <\/em>\u2018I love you\u2019 <\/em><\/a>too early?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

When to say, \u201cI love you\u201d?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

When is the right time to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d for the first time in a relationship?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 dopo due settimane, dopo aver conosciuto tutta la loro famiglia o proprio in quel momento, quando iniziate a sentirlo nell'intimo?<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non esiste una ricetta o un momento perfetto per lanciare la bomba L.<\/p>\n

But there are some essential things that you should pay attention to that serve as rules and advice about when to tell your partner, \u201cI love you\u201d.<\/p>\n

If you stick to them and if you\u2019re being genuine and honest about your feelings, you will significantly increase your chances of doing so successfully and mutual reciprocity will be granted!<\/p>\n

WHEN TO SAY, \u201cI LOVE YOU,\u201d FOR THE FIRST TIME IN A RELATIONSHIP<\/strong><\/p>\n

Andare ad almeno cinque appuntamenti<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 importante da ricordare quando si tratta di lanciare la bomba L \u00e8 assicurarsi di non dirla troppo presto o troppo tardi.<\/p>\n

Too early would be the first one to four dates because you can\u2019t really legare cos\u00ec tanto con il proprio partner<\/a> se li avete visti solo tre volte nella vostra vita o avete appena iniziato a frequentarli.<\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019ve been connected all the time via texting and you couldn\u2019t go on dates like regular couples and now when you\u2019ve spent some time with them in person you feel that your bond has become even stronger, then you know saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d is just the right thing to do.<\/p>\n

Make sure that you\u2019re really feeling it<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Many people spend too much time thinking about when to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d instead of also thinking about how they feel about saying it.<\/p>\n

If you just want to say it for the sake of declaring your love to your partner because you\u2019ve been dating for a while now and because you think it is expected of you to say it, don\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

Say it only if you\u2019re one hundred percent sure that you\u2019re really feeling it. Now you\u2019re probably asking yourself: \u201cBut how can I be totally sure about it because no one can confirm it to me?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Well, there\u2019s one trick when it comes to this (that I found out a little bit too late) and that is: \u201cIf you don\u2019t know why you love someone but you know that you love them, then you really love them.\u201d (I guess it makes sense.)<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait too long and don\u2019t overthink it<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec come \u00e8 importante non dirlo troppo presto, \u00e8 altrettanto importante non aspettare troppo a dirlo.<\/p>\n

Spesso le persone commettono questo errore perch\u00e9 pensano troppo e non sono sicure dei loro sentimenti.<\/p>\n

They wait for the perfect moment to say it, only to realize that they\u2019ve waited for too long.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che pi\u00f9 si aspetta, pi\u00f9 si penser\u00e0 troppo alle cose e si girer\u00e0 in tondo per un'eternit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019ve spent enough time with your partner and you feel that you should level up things, do not let your mind interfere with your decision all the time.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait too long and don\u2019t overthink it and everything will be just fine.<\/p>\n

Wait until you\u2019re bursting inside out to say it<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Do you feel like you should say, \u201cI love you,\u201d but the feeling is not that strong within you? Do you feel like you could wait longer to say it?<\/p>\n

If yes, then you should indeed wait because the best timing to say it is when you\u2019re totally bursting inside out to declare your love to your partner.<\/p>\n

Now, you\u2019re probably wondering why. It is because love works on the principle of growth, like trees.<\/p>\n

Quando l'amore per il partner cresce dentro di voi e aspettate il suo apice, sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 intenso e quindi pi\u00f9 efficace e genuino.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it before, during or after sex<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

One of the worst things you could do is say, \u201cI love you,\u201d before, during or after sex with your partner. Why?<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re about to fare l'amore con il proprio partner<\/a>, your hormones go wild and you feel everything ten times more intense and that is why sometimes people tend to say those three words, even though in most cases they don\u2019t really mean it.<\/p>\n

Lo dicono perch\u00e9 i loro ormoni dicono loro di farlo.<\/p>\n

That is why you should never say it at that time and instead when you\u2019re thinking rationally and when you\u2019re not too intoxicated by their appearance or presence.<\/p>\n

Assicuratevi di fidarvi completamente del vostro partner<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Vi fidate ciecamente del vostro partner? Il vostro partner vi ha mai tradito o vi ha fatto dubitare della sua fedelt\u00e0?<\/p>\n

Before saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d you should always first make sure that you trust your partner completely.<\/p>\n

La fiducia \u00e8 alla base di ogni relazione sana<\/a> e se in qualche modo vi manca, non dovreste mai pensare di dire quelle tre parole al vostro partner finch\u00e9 non vi assicurate che le cose siano cambiate.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, fidarsi del partner significa non avere paura dei possibili esiti quando finalmente lo si dice, perch\u00e9 non si teme che scappi per salvarsi o che ci faccia sentire stupidi.<\/p>\n

Vi sentite a vostro agio con il vostro partner<\/h2>\n

\"gli<\/p>\n

Sentirsi a proprio agio con qualcuno \u00e8 un prerequisito per ogni cosa, soprattutto per le relazioni di successo.<\/p>\n

Se vi sentite a vostro agio con il vostro partner, significa che vi sentite liberi di essere chi siete veramente con lui.<\/p>\n

You should never be something that you\u2019re not when it comes to love.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re sure that you can be one hundred percent yourself when hanging out with them, then it means your love for each other is genuine.<\/p>\n

E solo allora dovrete pronunciare quelle tre parole.<\/p>\n

You need to make sure that the feeling you have for your partner is not in any way fake because if it is, no matter how many times you say, \u201cI love you,\u201d to them, nothing will ever change.<\/p>\n

Lo senti nelle viscere<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably heard a lot of times so far that you should always listen to your gut.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not sure about something, just listen to that little voice in your head telling you what the right thing to do is.<\/p>\n

And in the majority of cases, this is true. If you feel something in your gut, it means that it\u2019s real because you feel it in your soul.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se sentite che dovete assolutamente dire che li amate, non dovete pensarci troppo.<\/p>\n

Follow your heart and gut and I\u2019m sure that everything will be just fine.<\/p>\n

(Especially if you\u2019ve already followed your gut before and convinced yourself of positive outcomes.)<\/p>\n

Il vostro partner vi ha confessato il suo amore con le sue azioni.<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Quando si parla di amore, molte persone si concentrano solo sulle parole, dimenticando di pensare anche alle azioni.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re thinking about saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d to your partner first, first make sure that you\u2019ve noticed little things that your partner does which mean their confession of their love to you.<\/p>\n

Se sono sempre presenti per voi, aiutandovi con le cose, assicurandosi di farvi sentire speciali<\/a>, surprising you and genuinely taking care of you, then you can be sure they love you but they probably haven\u2019t gathered up the courage to admit it to you yet or they are just like you, waiting for the perfect moment to do it.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say it when you want to make up for something or reward your partner for something<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t use those three words as a reward for your partner or for making up to them when you fuck things up.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d in those circumstances (believe me) and there are two major reasons why you definitely shouldn\u2019t:<\/p>\n

a) If you say, \u201cI love you,\u201d just to reward your partner for something nice they have done for you, then it means you\u2019re probably not even feeling it but you\u2019re just doing it for the sake of rewarding them.<\/p>\n

b) If you say, \u201cI love you,\u201d just to make up for something you fucked up, it means your relationship is not healthy because there are other ways to apologize and make up for things instead of saying those three words; loving someone has nothing to do with being sorry for something.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not one hundred percent sure, don\u2019t say it first<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Anche se la cosa migliore \u00e8 sempre aspettare che sia il partner a dirlo per primo, questa non deve essere la regola.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, alcune persone pensano che siano gli uomini a dover sempre dichiarare il loro amore per primi, ma questo non \u00e8 affatto vero.<\/p>\n

Love is not picky and it doesn\u2019t have the ability to choose between genders.<\/p>\n

We all feel insecure when it comes to dropping the L bomb for the first time and there shouldn\u2019t be specific rules about it.<\/p>\n

Especially if you\u2019re not one hundred percent sure, there is nothing wrong with waiting a little bit longer and not saying it first, regardless of whether you\u2019re a man or a woman.<\/p>\n

Ascoltate la vostra mente e il vostro corpo e quello che sentite giusto!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say it when you\u2019re overly emotional<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Have you watched a sad or happy movie together, where the story ends with a \u2018happily ever after\u2019 and now you can\u2019t help but want to declare your love to your partner as well?<\/p>\n

While it may seem like the right thing to do on so many levels, please don\u2019t do it when you\u2019re overly emotional.<\/p>\n

Vedete, le emozioni possono essere complicate.<\/p>\n

They have the ability to lift you up to the sky and down to the ground you in seconds and that is why you should be careful when it comes to saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d because you need to say it when you\u2019re totally chill and not under other influences in your surroundings.<\/p>\n

Dillo dopo il primo o i primi incontri<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

I know it may seem weird to you but yes, you should say, \u201cI love you,\u201d after your first fight or two.<\/p>\n

Dovreste farlo perch\u00e9 i litigi sono come dei tester di quanto sia forte il vostro amore.<\/p>\n

It is easy to love someone when everything is perfect in a relationship, when the sun is shining, the birds are chirping and you\u2019re having a great time with each other.<\/p>\n

Ma quando arriva la tempesta (e ce ne saranno molte nel vostro futuro insieme), solo l'amore pi\u00f9 forte sopravvive.<\/p>\n

Si sa che si ama davvero il proprio partner quando si sa accettare di essere in disaccordo, quando si sa rispettare i suoi desideri e scendere a compromessi.<\/p>\n

E questo \u00e8 il momento in cui dovreste assolutamente dite loro che li amate<\/a>!<\/p>\n

THE TOP 5 MOMENTS WHEN YOU DEFINITELY SHOULDN\u2019T SAY, :I LOVE YOU,\u201d TO YOUR PARTNER FOR THE FIRST TIME<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore che vi pu\u00f2 capitare quando decidete di lanciare la bomba L \u00e8 che lo facciate nel momento e nello spazio completamente sbagliati.<\/p>\n

Your partner might feel the same way but if you do it in the wrong timing, you will ruin the whole, \u201cI love you,\u201d thing.<\/p>\n

Apart from not saying it before, during or after sex, or when you\u2019re overly emotional (as stated above), there are more rules for when you should definitely not say, \u201cI love you,\u201d to your partner for the first time!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say it when you\u2019re drunk<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

When you indulge in plenty of alcohol, your body and mind start doing things you usually wouldn\u2019t do when you\u2019re sober, which means you should never, ever say that you love your partner for the first time when you\u2019re drunk and you\u2019re fighting to keep your balance.<\/p>\n

If you do that, the chances are that you\u2019re not even feeling it but the alcohol has forced you to say it or, maybe even worse, you are feeling it but despite that, the alcohol will ruin all the romance.<\/p>\n

So, it is always better to keep your mouth shut when you\u2019re loaded with alcohol so that you don\u2019t regret your actions when you wake up tomorrow and realize what you\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say it at the first wedding you attend together<\/h2>\n

\"gli<\/p>\n

We all know that weddings can be really emotional and there isn\u2019t a single soul who can be indifferent when it comes to watching due persone che si uniscono in matrimonio<\/a> e decidono di condividere il loro corpo e la loro anima l'uno con l'altro.<\/p>\n

And no matter how hard it would be for you to endure the wedding ceremony without feeling the urge to admit your own feelings to your partner (to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d) just try to keep yourself from doing so because it is not the time or space for such doings and because you\u2019re probably just overly emotional.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say it at dinner with your\/their parents<\/h2>\n

\"famiglia<\/p>\n

If you say, \u201cI love you,\u201d to your partner while you\u2019re at dinner with your or their parents, I can guarantee you that you will make them feel uncomfortable and, let\u2019s say, ruin the dinner.<\/p>\n

You should always say those three words first when you\u2019re alone with your partner and not with your family around you because saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d is not the same thing as proposing or similar.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in a fight<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Se siete mai stati tentati di usare queste tre parole come un pacificatore durante un litigio, non fatelo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say to your partner that you love them just because you want to stop fighting and make them feel better.<\/p>\n

There are other, healthier ways to end the fight and saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d is definitely not one of them.<\/p>\n

After they say it to you (if you\u2019re not feeling the same yet)<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re really anxious about how to respond when your partner says that they love you but you don\u2019t want to hurt their feelings, you should never say something that you don\u2019t really mean.<\/p>\n

Se lo fate, potreste ferire i loro sentimenti e peggiorare ulteriormente la situazione.<\/p>\n

It is always better to say that you really like them but you simply cannot say yet that you love them, which doesn\u2019t mean that you will not eventually be ready for it.<\/p>\n

Significa solo che avete bisogno di pi\u00f9 tempo, perch\u00e9 non tutte le persone vivono l'amore allo stesso ritmo.<\/p>\n

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