{"id":36521,"date":"2019-05-13T07:09:17","date_gmt":"2019-05-13T07:09:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36521"},"modified":"2021-12-20T16:08:12","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T16:08:12","slug":"7-regole-per-messaggiare-durante-gli-appuntamenti-per-rendere-piu-facile-la-vostra-vita-sentimentale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-regole-per-messaggiare-durante-gli-appuntamenti-per-rendere-piu-facile-la-vostra-vita-sentimentale\/","title":{"rendered":"7 regole per messaggiare durante gli appuntamenti per rendere pi\u00f9 facile la vostra vita sentimentale"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il modo in cui scrivete i messaggi e il modo in cui interpretate i suoi messaggi nelle fasi iniziali della frequentazione pu\u00f2 fare o distruggere la vostra relazione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It seems like the dating world of today is unimaginable without texting and it seems to me it\u2019s a lot harder for us women than for men.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I think that\u2019s because whether we like to admit it or not, men made the rules of texting in their mind and it\u2019s no wonder we get lost in them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u2018When to text, when not to text?\u2019 , \u2018When is texting perceived as clingy and when as uninterested?\u2019 , \u2018Why hasn’t he texted back, it\u2019s already been half a day since I texted him?\u2019…. It\u2019s exhausting and it\u2019s taking up way too much of our time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s time we make our own rules and stick to them. I believe we all have had enough of playing by male rules; to be more precise, we have had enough of games altogether.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Seguite queste 7 regole pi\u00f9 importanti per mandare messaggi durante gli appuntamenti e vedrete come la vostra vita sentimentale diventer\u00e0 migliore e pi\u00f9 facile:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Always text \u2018NO\u2019 to his last-minute plans <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Non ha senso lamentarsi con gli amici dei suoi messaggi notturni e dei suoi piani di uscita all'ultimo minuto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That won\u2019t change a thing if you meet with him anyway.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se volete che pensi in anticipo e che si organizzi per un appuntamento, mostrategli la strada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Every time he has a sudden desire to see you, tell him something along the lines of, \u201cSorry, I can\u2019t right now, I am somewhere\/have other plans.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Wish you had told me about it sooner.\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s a nice and polite way to tell him that you won\u2019t be at his beck and call and that you want to be treated as a priority, not an option.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Gettare via tutte le teorie relative agli SMS e alle chiamate. <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Most women would argue that if he only texts and never calls then he simply isn\u2019t interested enough. This couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s time to look at texting from a male point of view: it\u2019s easier and more efficient, they are usually better at expressing themselves in writing than through speech, alcuni sono timidi <\/a>quindi pi\u00f9 sicuri di s\u00e9 mentre mandano un messaggio, alcuni ritengono che ci sia una minore possibilit\u00e0 di rovinare le cose attraverso i messaggi, ecc.<\/p>\r\n

Tuttavia, when he doesn’t text back<\/a> for days, you shouldn’t try to find excuses for such behavior. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Also, one more major thing to consider here is whether you\u2019ve been dating for a while or just had a few dates. You can\u2019t expect a man you\u2019ve been on three dates with to call you and talk to you for an hour, as he wouldn\u2019t know where to begin or what to say.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Insert an, \u201cI\u2019ll call you later,\u201d game changer<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se non vi piacciono gli SMS e preferite una normale telefonata o addirittura una videochiamata, introducete questo concetto in modo sottile nelle vostre conversazioni.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ditegli che siete molto pi\u00f9 bravi a parlare che a mandare messaggi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Or when you sense that the moment is right, just text \u2018Sorry I\u2019m busy right now but I\u2019ll call you later and tell you all about it\u2019.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

In questo modo, sarete voi a fare la prima mossa e vedrete se lui seguir\u00e0 il vostro esempio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s important you make some compromise here and meet each other halfway as it will be easier for other aspects of your relationship too.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Don\u2019t send sexts if you want more than sex <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Don\u2019t give him any boyfriend benefits until he is actually your boyfriend. Don\u2019t send sexts in the early phases of a relationship either.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t have to be a prude but you can postpone sexting<\/a> finch\u00e9 non diventa qualcuno che conoscete e di cui vi fidate.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If sexting begins too soon, he will assume that you are in it just for sex or that you are easy to get into bed and after he gets what he wants, he will be on his way. So, don\u2019t rush it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

On the other hand, if he insists on sexting or sends you texts that are full of sexual implications, you will know exactly where you stand with him; he is not interested in your heart\u2014just your body.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If that\u2019s not something you are into, wave him goodbye and send him packing, as he is not worth your time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Evitare di cadere nella trappola delle (errate) interpretazioni<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

What\u2019s taking him so long to respond? What is the meaning of his \u2018OK\u2019 text, is he mad at me?  <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ieri abbiamo messaggiato per tutto il giorno, quindi oggi ha perso interesse o sta giocando? <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Most women love to interpret texts and unread texts, I know I was one of them until the simple truth slapped me in the face: The male brain is completely opposite to the female brain; we don\u2019t look at things the same way.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Try to relax and not give it too much thought. In the early stages of dating, you don\u2019t need to be so strict as you are just getting to know each other.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He doesn\u2019t have to set a schedule of when to text.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

L'importante \u00e8 che vediate che \u00e8 interessato, che sta facendo del suo meglio per tenersi in contatto e conoscervi un po' meglio attraverso i messaggi e, soprattutto, che sta facendo progetti per vedervi di persona.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Non inviate mai un messaggio di follow-up o un over-text.<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ogni volta che vi viene l'impulso di inviare un messaggio di follow-up, resistete il pi\u00f9 possibile.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se avesse voluto rispondere lo avrebbe fatto, oppure potrebbe non aver visto il vostro messaggio e un follow-up darebbe l'impressione che siate bisognosi e disperati della sua attenzione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he isn\u2019t sending a text back there is nothing you can do about it. Let him be. Not getting a text back is a strong message in itself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t make things worse on yourself by sending a follow-up text.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t send him tons of texts either, as even if he responds to all of them it\u2019s the quickest way to suffocate your potential relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Be more concerned with quality and not quantity; it\u2019s more about what you text about than texting all the time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sapere dove \u00e8 stato tutto il giorno o cosa ha mangiato a colazione non ha praticamente alcun valore, ma un messaggio in cui dice di aver pensato a voi tutto il giorno \u00e8 oro puro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Lasciate che sia uomo e che prenda il comando di tanto in tanto. <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Credo che molte di voi saranno d'accordo con me quando dico che le donne di oggi hanno bisogno di sentirsi pi\u00f9 donne.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vogliamo qualcuno che ci corteggi e ci faccia sentire speciali o, in altre parole, abbiamo bisogno di un uomo che ci mandi quel maledetto primo messaggio di tanto in tanto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t have to be a rule, it doesn\u2019t have to be always but it would be great if men would initiate a conversation more times than a woman does.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This doesn\u2019t mean developing tactics or playing games, it\u2019s a simple fact that men lose interest in things they get served on a silver platter, so if you are the one texting all the time, there is no need for him to make any efforts.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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