{"id":36532,"date":"2020-08-13T07:29:10","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T07:29:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36532"},"modified":"2022-11-20T22:07:31","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T22:07:31","slug":"le-10-regole-principali-degli-incontri-occasionali-che-dovete-assolutamente-seguire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-10-regole-principali-degli-incontri-occasionali-che-dovete-assolutamente-seguire\/","title":{"rendered":"Le 10 regole degli incontri occasionali che dovete semplicemente seguire"},"content":{"rendered":"

Da un po' di tempo a questa parte, le relazioni serie hanno smesso di essere l'unico modo in cui due persone possono essere coinvolte sentimentalmente.<\/p>\n

Among other things, casual dating is one of the options you have when you don\u2019t want to commit, but don\u2019t want to be single either.<\/p>\n

Che cos'\u00e8 un incontro occasionale? Si tratta di un accordo in cui si ottengono tutti i lati positivi di una relazione senza quelli negativi.<\/p>\n

You have someone to be with when you\u2019re bored and in need of affection, but without having to commit and without owing anything to them.<\/p>\n

Avete la possibilit\u00e0 di tenere aperte tutte le opzioni e di divertirvi accanto a qualcuno che vi piace.<\/p>\n

Looking at things from this point of view, casual dating sure looks like a perfect arrangement, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

E la cosa migliore \u00e8 che sembra anche un gioco da ragazzi.<\/p>\n

Well, it really is \u2013 if you know how to play your cards right.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 proprio per questo che esiste una serie di regole di base per gli incontri occasionali che dovete seguire se volete che funzioni.<\/p>\n

Dovete essere entrambi sulla stessa lunghezza d'onda<\/h2>\n

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Uno dei primi consigli per gli incontri occasionali \u00e8 quello di essere completamente onesti con se stessi e con il proprio partner.<\/p>\n

Dovete sapere cosa volete e dovete essere entrambi chiari al riguardo.<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore da fare quando si tratta di incontri occasionali \u00e8 quella di prendere per i fondelli qualcuno<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s everything but fair for one person to think that they\u2019re in a committed relationship or that there\u2019s hope of forming an emotional connection while the other isn\u2019t interested in anything else besides keeping it casual.<\/p>\n

Per questo motivo, sia voi che il vostro partner dovete essere sulla stessa lunghezza d'onda e cercare esattamente la stessa cosa, affinch\u00e9 gli incontri occasionali siano un successo.<\/p>\n

Ricordate che questo \u00e8 l'unico modo per tenere al sicuro entrambi i vostri cuori.<\/p>\n

Stabilite delle regole di base e dei limiti<\/h2>\n

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After you and your casual dating partner have come to terms with what you want, it\u2019s time to set some rules and boundaries that you both should follow and respect.<\/p>\n

Ogni rapporto occasionale \u00e8 diverso e voi due siete gli unici ad avere il diritto di stabilire cosa \u00e8 permesso o meno.<\/p>\n

Talk honestly to each other about the things you\u2019re comfortable with and about those you don\u2019t want to be a part of your casual dating scheme.<\/p>\n

Va bene che voi due vediate anche altre persone? Sarete monogami o giocherete entrambi?<\/p>\n

Volete tenere segreti tutti questi incontri occasionali o \u00e8 accettabile parlarne con gli amici?<\/p>\n

Come vi comporterete in pubblico? Come una coppia o come una nullit\u00e0 pi\u00f9 che amici<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Flirtare con altri davanti all'altro \u00e8 accettabile o no? Continuerete con gli incontri online?<\/p>\n

Pensate di rimanere in contatto, a parte il sesso e gli appuntamenti?<\/p>\n

Or is there nothing wrong with disappearing from each other\u2019s lives from time to time, without any explanation?<\/p>\n

Correlato: Quanto spesso si dovrebbe mandare un messaggio a una persona con cui si esce casualmente?<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t play games<\/h2>\n

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Una relazione senza legami significa che non c'\u00e8 assolutamente bisogno di fare giochi mentali con l'altra persona.<\/p>\n

Entrambi sapete cosa volete ed \u00e8 assurdo rincorrersi.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to giocare duro per ottenere<\/a> perch\u00e9 il vostro obiettivo finale non \u00e8 che l'altra persona si innamori di voi.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to hide your emotions because, let\u2019s face it, you don\u2019t have any in the first place.<\/p>\n

What is important is to forget about your ego and constantly remind yourself that you\u2019re in this to have a good time and not to prove a point, because this is someone who will break your heart if you don\u2019t play your cards right.<\/p>\n

So instead of beating yourself up trying to outsmart your quasi-partner, just be honest and straightforward about everything that is bothering you and you\u2019d like to change.<\/p>\n

No silent treatment, no holding grudges, and no resentment \u2013 you\u2019re not children, but two adults, and you should act accordingly.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t have any expectations<\/h2>\n

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Forse la regola pi\u00f9 importante degli incontri occasionali che dovete seguire \u00e8 quella relativa alle vostre aspettative.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 raro che le persone che hanno questo tipo di relazioni perdano il filo del discorso e inizino a vedere gli incontri occasionali come qualcosa di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why you have to keep reminding yourself not to have any expectations of the person you\u2019re involved with and of the relationship itself.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not allowed to make long term future plans or to get your hopes up. Remember, this is not a real relationship.<\/p>\n

Bisogna tenere i piedi per terra ed essere sempre realistici se si vuole evitare di rimanere delusi alla fine.<\/p>\n

Uscire con gli amici<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

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Even though the term casual dating is much different from an actual relationship, it is still a form of dating and it means it\u2019s much more than casual sex.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, il sesso pu\u00f2 essere e di solito \u00e8 una parte di questo tipo di relazione, ma non \u00e8 l'unico aspetto.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, una delle regole per gli appuntamenti occasionali \u00e8 quella di uscire davvero con qualcuno.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you should have romantic fancy dinners or that the two of you should go on trips together, but there are many fun activities you can participate in and that can serve as idee per l'appuntamento<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, what is important is to avoid home dates. Don\u2019t cook each other dinner and don\u2019t sleep over.<\/p>\n

Cose come queste sono riservate a una relazione vera e propria; lasciarle accadere in un incontro occasionale pu\u00f2 solo causare confusione e confusione inutili.<\/p>\n

Condividi l'assegno<\/h2>\n

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When it comes to \u201cregular\u201d dating, it is an unwritten rule that men are those who usually get the bill, especially when it comes to the primo appuntamento<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, tutto \u00e8 completamente diverso quando si tratta di incontri occasionali.<\/p>\n

This is an arrangement in which you\u2019re expected to share all the expenses of the relationship.<\/p>\n

You can share the check or you can set the rule \u201cwho invites, pays.\u201d<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, in questo modo, voi e il vostro partner occasionale dimostrate di essere alla pari in questa relazione.<\/p>\n

Nessuno \u00e8 dipendente e nessuno dovr\u00e0 nulla a un'altra persona quando tutto questo sar\u00e0 finito.<\/p>\n

The same goes with gifts. It is one thing if you want to buy a little something for your almost-partner\u2019s birthday, but expensive and meaningful presents are out of the question.<\/p>\n

Rispetto reciproco<\/h2>\n

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The truth is that you and your quasi-partner haven\u2019t made any promises to each other. No vows were made and there\u2019s no commitment.<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t give you the right to treat each other however the hell you want, without taking the other person\u2019s feelings into consideration.<\/p>\n

You still need to respect each other\u2019s time, energy, and feelings.<\/p>\n

That means it\u2019s absolutely not acceptable to, for example, bail on the other person, lie to their face regarding your relationship, string them along, insult them, try put them underneath you, or intentionally play with their feelings in any other way.<\/p>\n

Non hai il diritto di essere geloso<\/h2>\n

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La regola d'oro degli incontri occasionali \u00e8 che non \u00e8 mai permesso comportarsi in modo possessivo o geloso.<\/p>\n

Ricordate che voi due non siete una vera coppia e che entrambi avete il diritto di fare ci\u00f2 che volete.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not permitted to ask the other person about their romantic history, to ask them where they\u2019ve been yesterday and where they plan on going tomorrow.<\/p>\n

You are not entitled to any type of explanation because your partner\u2019s activities and the time they spend away from you are none of your business.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, lasciate perdere gli incontri occasionali se pensate di non essere in grado di rinunciare al controllo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t expect the other person to listen to you or to start doing things your way.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if it happens that you start feeling jealousy that you can\u2019t ignore or get rid of, it is clear that you want more out of this relationship but you\u2019re just scared to admit it.<\/p>\n

Siate discreti<\/h2>\n

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Numerous men and women don\u2019t like the entire world to know their business. And the same goes for this relationship as well.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 assolutamente necessario che tutti sappiano tutto quello che c'\u00e8 da sapere su chi \u00e8 nel vostro letto.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not saying that you should keep your almost-other-half completely hidden, but this person is not your boyfriend or girlfriend and it would be totally foolish to have them meet all of your friends and family.<\/p>\n

Besides, there is always a possibility that this person is one who doesn\u2019t want the rest of the world to know about their casual dating.<\/p>\n

Either way, don\u2019t go around blabbing about some things that shouldn\u2019t concern anyone besides the two of you and you\u2019ll be just fine.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get too attached<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

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Anche se ognuna di queste regole \u00e8 fondamentale per un gioco di incontri occasionali di successo, la cosa pi\u00f9 importante da tenere sempre a mente \u00e8 quella di spegnere tutte le emozioni perch\u00e9 diventare troppo attaccato<\/a> non \u00e8 mai una buona idea.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying to act heartless or rude, but you can\u2019t expect for casual dating to work out if you get emotionally attached.<\/p>\n

In this case scenario, one of the people always gets out of the relationship with their mental health and heart injured, and you need to make sure something like that doesn\u2019t happen to you.<\/p>\n

Proprio per questo \u00e8 importante riflettere bene prima di agire.<\/p>\n

Not everyone is cut out for meaningless flings and if you suspect that this is the case with you, run for your life before it\u2019s too late and you\u2019ve trapped yourself.<\/p>\n

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